Conversations with Dr. Jennifer
Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife
Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife is a sex and relationship expert who has been interviewed for hundreds of podcasts–and now you can access all the amazing content covering issues of faith, sexuality, integrity, belonging, and more right here on the interview archive!
Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife is an LDS relationship and sexuality coach with a Ph.D. in Counseling Psychology. Her teaching and coaching focus on helping LDS individuals and couples create greater connection and passion in their emotional and sexual relationships.
In addition to her private practice, Dr. Finlayson-Fife has created five empowering and highly-reviewed online courses. Each course was designed to give LDS individuals and couples the tools requisite to creating healthier lives and stronger intimate relationships. Dr. Finlayson-Fife also offers many workshops and retreats where she teaches these life-changing principles in person.
The advice offered through any and all podcasts in which she is featured is educational and informational in nature and is provided only as general information. It is not meant to establish a therapist-patient relationship or offer therapeutic advice, opinion, diagnosis treatment or to establish a standard of care. The information contained in these communications is not comprehensive and does not include all the potential information regarding the subject matter, but is merely intended to serve as one resource for general and educational purposes.
Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife is an LDS relationship and sexuality coach with a Ph.D. in Counseling Psychology. Her teaching and coaching focus on helping LDS individuals and couples create greater connection and passion in their emotional and sexual relationships.
In addition to her private practice, Dr. Finlayson-Fife has created five empowering and highly-reviewed online courses. Each course was designed to give LDS individuals and couples the tools requisite to creating healthier lives and stronger intimate relationships. Dr. Finlayson-Fife also offers many workshops and retreats where she teaches these life-changing principles in person.
The advice offered through any and all podcasts in which she is featured is educational and informational in nature and is provided only as general information. It is not meant to establish a therapist-patient relationship or offer therapeutic advice, opinion, diagnosis treatment or to establish a standard of care. The information contained in these communications is not comprehensive and does not include all the potential information regarding the subject matter, but is merely intended to serve as one resource for general and educational purposes.
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Sep 9, 2025 • 53min
Talking to Teens About Sex | Q&A with Dr. Jennifer
Your kids are learning about sex—whether you talk to them about it or not.
And if you’ve ever wished Dr. Finlayson-Fife could coach you through these important conversations (and honestly, who hasn’t?), this episode is for you.
In this conversation, Dr. Finlayson-Fife offers practical guidance for parents who want to raise sexually healthy, thoughtful, and confident kids.
You’l learn more about:
How to foster a relationship where your kids feel safe bringing you their questions and concerns
Setting limits and expectations without shaming or controlling
Supporting a child who is questioning their sexual orientation
Navigating conversations when you and your spouse don’t see eye-to-eye
If you'd like to learn even more, enroll in Dr. Finlayson-Fife's How to Talk to Your Kids About Sex Course!
Sep 3, 2025 • 60min
The Truth About Men's Sexuality
In this episode, Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife joins Hunter Otis of the Pxrn Free Revolution podcast to explore the hidden pressures men carry around sexuality. They discuss why porn is such a tempting escape, how cultural and personal messages keep men stuck, and—most importantly—how stepping out of hiding can lead to greater freedom, honesty, and deeper connection in their lives and relationships.
Listen to the full episode to learn more about:
Why pornography becomes a counterfeit refuge
How cultural and family messages fuel shame / secrecy
Why secrecy keeps you stuck
What integration actually looks like and how to work toward it
Join us for the Art of Loving Retreat this September! Learn more HERE.
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Aug 27, 2025 • 1h
When Desire is Difficult (and what to do about it!) | Q&A with Dr. Jennifer
Navigating desire can feel like an uphill battle for many women, often turning intimacy into a duty. The pressure to 'fix' desire only makes it more elusive. True desire thrives in authenticity and freedom, away from societal expectations. The discussion highlights crucial differences in men’s and women’s sexuality, and emphasizes the importance of open communication in relationships. Cultivating ease and genuine connection is key to nurturing vibrant sexual relationships, moving away from performance and focusing on shared enjoyment.
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Aug 16, 2025 • 55min
Desire, Divinity, and Intimate Love | A Conversation with Faith Matters
In this enlightening discussion, Jennifer Finlayson-Fife, an LDS relationship and sexuality coach with a Ph.D. in Counseling Psychology, opens up about her new book, That We Might Have Joy. She highlights how intimacy and desire are not distractions from spirituality; instead, they are pathways to deeper connections and faith. The conversation explores the integration of body and spirit, the significance of being truly known in relationships, and encourages couples to embrace vulnerability and honesty for stronger emotional bonds.
Aug 13, 2025 • 55min
That We Might Have Joy | Author Q&A with Dr. Jennifer
In this episode, listeners joined Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife for a Q&A discussion about her soon-to-be-released book, That We Might Have Joy (order your copy HERE!).
During the conversation, she answered listener's questions about the process of writing the book, how she decided on the topic, and what lessons she learned along the way. But, true to form, Dr. Finlayson-Fife offered more than just simple answers to questions during this discussion—she challenged limiting cultural messages about the body, spoke about the courage it takes to face the truth in our relationships, and explained why intimacy always begins with self-honesty.
If you'd like to get a SIGNED copy of the book, join us at RESTORE (use code JFF2025 to save 10%) or at a special Faith Matters gathering on October 1st!
We have a busy schedule this fall! Click HERE to learn more about our upcoming events, we'd love to have you join us!
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Aug 5, 2025 • 1h 32min
A Meaningful Hurt: How Marriage Pressures Growth
Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife, an LDS relationship coach, joins author Carol Lynn Pearson and writer Stephen Carter for an insightful conversation on marriage. They dive into how meaningful conflict can enhance intimacy and foster personal growth. The trio discusses the complexities of marriage within Mormon culture, especially regarding polygamy's lingering impacts. They challenge traditional views, advocating for equal partnerships and the spiritual journey of love, while underscoring that the struggles in relationships can ultimately lead to deeper connections.
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Jul 22, 2025 • 38min
What To Do When Things Need to Change in Your Relationship
Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife, an LDS relationship and sexuality coach with a Ph.D. in Counseling Psychology, joins to share her insights on relationship dynamics. She emphasizes that recognizing your role in current patterns is key to fostering change. The conversation touches on navigating tensions when partners seek change, the impact of traditional roles, and addressing resentment for growth. Dr. Finlayson-Fife advocates for self-awareness and honest communication as essential tools for creating deeper connection and passion in relationships.
Jul 1, 2025 • 31min
Be Bold, Be Brave: Healing After Divorce
In this NEW episode of the Phoenix Forte podcast, Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife offers guidance for women navigating the emotional and spiritual work of healing after divorce, especially when infidelity has been involved. She discusses how disconnection from the body and sexuality is a tempting strategy—but one that ultimately keeps us from experiencing peace and connection with ourselves.
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Jun 17, 2025 • 54min
Neurodiversity in Relationships | Q&A with Dr. Jennifer
Explore the fascinating dynamics of neurodiverse relationships. Listen in as the host discusses how autism and ADHD shape intimacy, highlighting both the challenges and unique strengths involved. Personal stories showcase the value of embracing differences, while insights on self-awareness and collaboration offer practical tools for couples. Discover how compassion and empathy can build deeper connections, and learn about the significant contributions neurodiverse individuals bring to partnerships.
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Jun 11, 2025 • 1h 1min
Developing Strength | A Deep Dive on Masculinity
In this engaging discussion, Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife, an LDS relationship and sexuality coach with a Ph.D. in Counseling Psychology, dives deep into the complexities of masculinity. She redefines strength as the courage to confront uncomfortable truths and foster genuine connections. Key topics include the distinction between immature and mature masculinity, the importance of tolerating discomfort for growth, and how vulnerability can enhance relationships. Listeners gain insights into navigating feelings of unchosen and improving intimacy dynamics.
