Explore the complex interplay of biological and psychological factors influencing low sexual desire in men. Understand societal expectations and their impact on intimacy. Discover the connection between aging, erectile dysfunction, and emotional influences. Gain strategies to enhance sexual function while prioritizing open communication in relationships. Learn how differing levels of desire in partners can be navigated to foster deeper connections and alleviate feelings of disconnection.

Christi Davis, host of the 'Liking the People You Love' podcast and an expert in teen development, joins to share vital insights on preparing teens for healthy relationships. They discuss the importance of self-authoring, helping teens develop an inner compass for honest choices. Parents are encouraged to provide structure while nurturing flexibility and personal growth. The conversation delves into redefining modesty, understanding adolescent sexuality, and emphasizes the critical role of parents in instilling resilience and confidence in their children's intimate lives.

Our bodies are incredibly wise. Our limbic system in particular is very effective at keeping us safe from immediate danger. But while this protective mechanism serves an important purpose, it can also create lasting challenges when it remains vigilant and intrusive long after the real danger has passed. For those who have experienced sexual trauma, a common and intuitive response is to distance ourselves from sexuality or even shut it down entirely to protect against further harm. While this reaction is understandable, it can create a deep disconnection from a core part of who we are. This disconnection not only disrupts our sense of peace and ease in our own bodies, it can also impact our capacity for intimacy–both emotional and sexual. In this episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife answers audience questions about the impact of sexual trauma on relationships and well-being. She explores the body’s self-protective response, the impact on our sense of self, and how those who have experienced trauma can move toward healing. Resources mentioned in the episode: "Living at the Bottom of the Ocean" [Dr. Schnarch's final manuscript] * The Body Keeps the Score * Brain Talk * Subscribe to Room for Two! *Dr. Finlayson-Fife earns a small commission when products are purchased through these links 

Jennifer Finlayson-Fife, an LDS relationship and sexuality coach with a Ph.D. in Counseling Psychology, joins the discussion on intimacy during pregnancy and postpartum. She highlights how emotional and physical changes can strain connections but emphasizes that self-regulation and compassion can bridge gaps. Key topics include transforming resentment into empowerment, embracing body changes, and the importance of self-acceptance. Dr. Finlayson-Fife offers insights on harnessing intimacy and nurturing support during this transformative journey of parenthood.

The conversation dives into the emotional turmoil of shifting faith and how it affects relationships. Discover how to navigate varying beliefs with open communication and understanding. The speakers explore the complexity of belonging within faith communities and the courage required to embrace personal convictions. Insights on maintaining love amid differing perspectives are shared, highlighting the importance of integrity and honesty in one’s spiritual journey. It's an uplifting dialogue about personal growth and the evolving nature of faith.

Save $100 on The Art of Loving Retreat! This week, we are rereleasing one of our most popular episodes of all time! In the episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Steve and James of the Unashamed Unafraid Podcast for a deep dive into the complexities of relationships, particularly those in which there has been dishonesty or infidelity in the past. Listen to the full episode to learn more about: * Dishonesty in marriage * Rebuilding trust after betrayal * Understanding compulsive sexual behavior * Honesty and accountability in relationships * Male sexuality  * The problem with perfectionism

**Join us for our 2024 Couples' Retreat! Save $200 with code JFF!** Dr. Finlayson-Fife was invited by Mormon Women for Ethical Government (MWEG) to speak on how we can maintain hope and foster healthy relationships during a time of deep political polarization. In the presentation, Dr. Finlayson-Fife discusses how we can bridge divides with those who think differently by showing genuine care, listening with humility, and seeking to understand others' experiences, using their perspectives to broaden our own. Dr. Finlayson-Fife emphasizes that, while we cannot make people think the way we think, we CAN care about each other despite our differences. This connection not only expands our own understanding, but strengthens our ability to work to solve our shared challenges, which is key to thriving in our families, communities, and society

**Save $100 on any of our upcoming 2024 events with code LIVE** When we get married, most of us imagine a life full of connection and companionship. But when you feel overlooked, unchosen, or disappointed by how your spouse shows up emotionally or sexually, marriage can start to feel lonely and isolating. In this hour-long Q&A session, Dr. Finlayson-Fife answers questions from those feeling unchosen, isolated, and disconnected in their most important relationship.  Listen in as Dr. Finlayson-Fife answers the following: * Is loneliness a normal part of marriage? * What are reasonable expectations for emotional connection with a spouse? * How can I create more connection when my spouse doesn’t make any efforts? * Can an "okay" marriage ever become a passionate one? * What can I do if I feel unseen, unliked, unappreciated, and unchosen in my marriage? You can watch the recording of this Q&A session HERE. 

Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife, a sex and relationship expert with a PhD in Counseling Psychology, joins Dan Purcell to explore the art of cherishing a spouse. They discuss how love often clashes with personal expectations, highlighting the need for gratitude and presence in relationships. Key topics include the courage to cherish amid challenges, moving past resentment, and the powerful choice to actively love your partner. Their conversation is an invitation to transform personal growth and deepen intimacy, with practical insights for nourishing enduring connections.

Dr. Finlayson-Fife, a marriage counseling expert, teams up with Rachel Nielsen, a personal growth podcast host, to explore how couples can enhance their relationships. They dive into the importance of self-confrontation for deepening connections and the need for kindness when facing disappointments. The conversation also highlights sexuality's crucial role in marriages and offers strategies for fostering open communication and personal growth. Their insights promise to inspire couples looking to strengthen their bond.