The Sabrina Zohar Show

The Sabrina Zohar Show
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Oct 31, 2025 • 37min

169: Why Do I Feel Like I’m Always Struggling?

In this vulnerable and science-backed episode, Sabrina Zohar reveals a universal truth: everyone is struggling, and the people who seem to have it all figured out are just better at hiding it. She dismantles toxic positivity, explaining why fighting your emotions makes things worse and how acceptance can reduce their intensity by 50%.  Sabrina provides practical tools like the "Paradox Prescription" for obsessive thoughts and the "72-Hour Reality Check" to identify trauma bonding. If you've ever felt alone in your pain, this is your powerful reminder that you are not broken—you are human. The cure isn't to stop struggling, but to stop hiding it. Your brain can’t tell the difference between rejection and getting punched in the face. That’s why when it takes them three hours to text back, your chest tightens. Why your palms get sweaty after you triple-text and instantly regret it. Why you tell yourself “I’m fine” but your body’s already spiraling. You’re not dramatic. You’re dysregulated. Your nervous system is reacting to the possibility of loss the same way it would to actual danger. If you’re ready to stop letting what happens on your phone decide how your day feels, join me on November 6th for a live masterclass: Texting Anxiety: How to Calm Your Body Before You Hit Send. We’ll unpack what’s really happening in your brain and body when you text someone you like, and I’ll teach you tools to get grounded fast, even in the middle of a spiral. 🎟️ Save your seat for November 6th: https://masterclass.sabrinazohar.com You don’t need to care less. You just need new tools for what your body’s been trying to protect you from Stuck After the Podcast? Master Implementation in 8 Weeks with Sabrina's Foundation Course HERE! Get Ad free HERE! Want to work with Sabrina? HERE! Get merch for The Sabrina Zohar Show HERE! Don't forget to follow Sabrina and The Sabrina Zohar Show on Instagram and Sabrina on TikTok! Video now available on YOUTUBE! Please support our sponsors! Cancel your unwanted subscriptions and reach your financial goals faster with Rocket Money. Go to RocketMoney.com/sabrina today.  This episode is sponsored by Betterhelp. Get 10% off your first month of Betterhelp at betterhelp.com/sabrina Shop my favorite bras and underwear at https://www.skims.com/sabrina.  After you place your order, be sure to let them know I sent you! Select "podcast" in the survey and be sure to select 'The Sabrina Zohar Show' in the dropdown menu that follows  #skimspartner  Find your curl confidence and take the Curl Quiz at Curlsmith.com to get 10% off your first purchase, or shop Curlsmith now at Ulta Beauty. Disclaimer: The Sabrina Zohar Show, formerly known as Do The Work, is not affiliated with A.Z & associates LLC in any capacity.
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Oct 24, 2025 • 38min

168: Why You Spiral When They Don’t Text Back

Explore how texting patterns reveal your attachment style and emotional triggers! Discover why social rejection feels akin to physical pain. Sabrina shares personal stories that highlight anxious thoughts and people-pleasing tendencies. Learn to recognize and regulate emotional responses instead of spiraling into anxiety when waiting for replies. Gain insights into healing, setting boundaries in relationships, and why the urge to over-explain comes from childhood patterns. This podcast is a guide to breaking free from unhealthy texting habits.
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Oct 17, 2025 • 55min

167: Why Your Body Can't Just Calm Down: The Science of Anxiety ft. Dr. Sara Szal

Join board-certified physician Dr. Sara Szal, a functional medicine expert focusing on hormones and anxiety, as she reveals the surprising physiological roots of anxiety. From caffeine and gut health to the hidden dangers of mold, she explains how these factors can spark emotional turmoil. Dr. Szal shares insights on the impact of hormonal birth control on well-being and discusses the effects of blood sugar fluctuations. If you've ever felt anxious without a clear reason, this conversation might just change your perspective!
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Oct 14, 2025 • 39min

166: Stop Chasing Emotionally Unavailable People | In The Trenches

This episode delves into the complexities of dating, including why we chase emotionally unavailable partners and the concept of unfinished business. It tackles the challenges of navigating mixed signals and the impact of self-abandonment and idealization. A listener's experience with an avoidant partner leads to crucial advice about boundaries and self-care. Sabrina provides insights into coping with dating anxiety, especially after leaving a long-term relationship, while also offering practical tools for emotional self-soothing.
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Oct 10, 2025 • 35min

165: How to Break Your Unhealthy Dating & Relationship Patterns

Transformation can be tough due to our brain's wiring and resistance to change. The idea of motivation is debunked, highlighting that action precedes motivation. Small, consistent actions can rewire your self-concept. The impact of environment and mirror neurons on choices is explored, alongside the importance of emotional regulation. Learn why cognitive strategies often fail and how to practice healthy responses in low-stakes scenarios. Ultimately, embracing small choices and documenting progress is key to lasting change.
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Oct 3, 2025 • 42min

164: Overexplaining, Overthinking, Overtexting? Here’s Why

Dive into the emotional patterns that derail relationships, exploring the concept of protest behavior. Discover how fear of abandonment leads to over-texting, withdrawal, and people-pleasing. Personal anecdotes highlight these behaviors and their roots in early beliefs. Learn practical tools to manage texting urges, set boundaries, and practice self-soothing. Understand the cycle of emotional escalation and how it impacts connection. The conversation emphasizes vulnerability and effective communication as pathways to healthier relationships.
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Sep 26, 2025 • 34min

163: ⁠The Psychology Behind Black-and-White Thinking

Explore how faulty thinking can sabotage your dating life. Discover the pitfalls of black-and-white thinking, where one misstep leads to sweeping conclusions. Learn about catastrophizing, where anxiety inflates fears to epic proportions. Uncover mental filtering, which skews your perception toward the negatives. Join in as personal stories illustrate how we escape our pain through fantasies, and gain practical tools to challenge these unhelpful thoughts. It's time to untangle your mind and improve your love life!
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Sep 19, 2025 • 58min

162: The Power of Detachment with Sabrina Bendory

In this insightful conversation, relationship coach and author Sabrina Bendory shares her expertise on healthy detachment, emphasizing it's not about being cold but about knowing your worth. She explores the dangers of obsession and how it stems from self-worth gaps, urging listeners to self-source their worth. Bendory provides practical advice on minimizing contact with exes and reframing unhealthy narratives, giving tools to reclaim personal power in relationships. Discover how to let go, heal, and become irresistible!
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Sep 12, 2025 • 30min

161: Why You Overthink Love and Assume the Worst

Why do we overthink love? This discussion dives into how our brains create rejection stories that fuel anxiety and inhibit connection. By exploring common narrative patterns like mind reading and timelines, listeners learn to recognize harmful thought cycles. The podcast provides insight into the neuroscience behind our fears and practical tools to separate fact from fiction. With an emphasis on clear communication and rewriting personal narratives, it inspires a path towards healthier, more authentic relationships.
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Sep 9, 2025 • 33min

160: Why You Keep Sabotaging Love Without Realizing It | In The Trenches

Explore the reasons behind sabotaging good relationships and how insecurities can distort perception. Discover how timing and distance may trigger feelings of abandonment, and learn the fine line between intuition and fear. Personal stories and practical tools are shared to calm anxiety and foster honest conversations about needs. Gain insights into navigating emotional turmoil, setting boundaries, and the importance of professional support. This insightful discussion aims to empower listeners to embrace love with confidence and recognize their worth.

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