
The Sabrina Zohar Show
The Sabrina Zohar Show is your no-BS guide to dating, relationships, and coming home to yourself. Hosted by @sabrina.zohar, this podcast dives deep into the realities of modern love, anxious attachment, and the personal growth it takes to build meaningful connections- not just with others, but with yourself.
Formerly known as “Do The Work” the show is all about cutting through the noise. Whether you’re navigating dating burnout, relationship struggles, or learning how to stop overthinking every text, Sabrina brings raw, unfiltered conversations that challenge your patterns, shift your mindset, and help you reclaim your power.
Because the real work isn’t just about finding the right person, it’s also about becoming the version of you that feels whole, secure, and unapologetically authentic.
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A podcast on dating, anxiety, and doing the work to heal with @Sabrina.zohar.
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Latest episodes

Jun 27, 2025 • 40min
147: Why Friendships Can Be Harder Than Romantic Relationships
Explore the often overlooked complexities of platonic relationships. Learn about the heartbreak of friendship breakups and the anxiety of making new friends as an adult. Delve into the painful past of childhood friendships and how they shape our self-esteem. Discover the importance of setting boundaries and letting go of toxic friendships. Additionally, gain insights on how friendships parallel romantic relationships, emphasizing the need for self-reflection and mutual support.

Jun 20, 2025 • 50min
146: Why Your Conversations Fail and How to Fix Them with Charles Duhigg
Charles Duhigg, Pulitzer Prize-winning journalist and bestselling author, joins the discussion on transforming communication skills for better relationships. He explores the essentials of active listening and the difference between emotional and practical conversations. Duhigg highlights the importance of empathy in resolving conflicts and shares insights on building trust. Listeners will discover how to navigate both personal and professional interactions more effectively, fostering deeper connections and avoiding common pitfalls.

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Jun 13, 2025 • 31min
145: How to let go of seeking external validation and actually find your person
Dive into the journey of self-acceptance as listeners learn to shed the need for external validation. Discover how childhood experiences and nervous system influences shape relationship patterns. Sabrina shares practical tools like the Validation Tracker to empower authenticity in dating. Explore the pitfalls of seeking validation through romantic connections and the pathway to attracting healthy love from a place of self-love. Embrace a three-part strategy to detox from external approval and foster genuine connections.

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Jun 10, 2025 • 36min
144: Is He Into You? Or Killing Time? Answering Your Questions! | In The Trenches
Is he really into you or just passing time? This episode tackles your burning relationship questions, exploring masculine vs. feminine energy and the aftermath of first dates. Discover the tools for healing anxious attachment and recognizing red flags in modern dating. Emphasizing the importance of self-love and boundaries, Sabrina offers relatable advice drawn from her own experiences. Plus, she encourages vulnerability and openness as vital components for healthier connections. Get ready for authentic insights that will empower your dating journey!

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Jun 6, 2025 • 33min
143: How to have AUTHENTIC self love and Date Yourself
Dive into the journey of self-love, where authenticity takes center stage. Discover how emotional honesty affects your relationships and the significance of trusting yourself. Explore the powerful 'Am I Performing or Participating?' tool to gauge your genuine engagement in dating. Learn about the deeper layers of self-worth and how it shapes boundaries. Practical insights paired with personal anecdotes shed light on navigating loneliness and cultivating independence for a more fulfilling life.

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May 30, 2025 • 38min
142: Stop Obsessing: How to Enjoy Dating Without Stressing About the Future
Discover the secret to stress-free dating by letting go of control and embracing uncertainty. The discussion reveals how attachment styles influence relationships and offers practical steps for self-regulation. Explore the power of open communication in navigating emotional triggers, and learn how journaling can challenge negative thoughts. Get insights into fostering emotional maturity and cultivating self-trust for empowered decision-making. Ultimately, enjoy the dating process without the pressure of future outcomes!

May 23, 2025 • 51min
141: How BPD Impacts your Relationships with Neuropsychotherapist Britt Frank
In this engaging discussion, Britt Frank, a licensed psychotherapist and trauma specialist, reveals how what’s often dismissed as 'crazy' may be rooted in unmet needs and trauma. She untangles the complexities of Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD), advocating for a reclassification based on emotional experiences rather than stigma. Britt introduces transformative tools like parts work, emphasizes the importance of understanding your inner critic, and encourages self-compassion as a path to healing. Dive deep into emotional patterns and learn to build self-trust while navigating the messy journey of self-discovery.

May 16, 2025 • 32min
140: Why You Keep Settling (and How to Finally Choose Yourself)
Are you dating someone because it feels “good enough”… or because it actually feels good? In this episode, Sabrina takes a no-BS look at what it really means to “settle” in dating and relationships — and why it’s often less of a conscious choice and more of a nervous system pattern. Whether you’re single, stuck in a situationship, or already in a long-term relationship, this episode helps you understand the neuroscience behind why we stay, even when we know we shouldn’t — and how to shift that. From the Default Mode Network to dopamine loops in the ventral striatum, we’re unpacking how your brain keeps you chasing the familiar instead of choosing what’s right for you.
You’ll learn how to identify if you're operating from cognitive dissonance, why secure people might feel boring at first, and how to build real self-trust that leads to better decisions in love. Plus, Sabrina gives you practical tools like the “Pattern Disrupt” and “Pause Before the High” methods to help you rewire your relationship patterns and finally choose yourself — whether that means raising your standards in dating or getting honest in your current partnership. This is your blueprint for breaking the cycle and building something real.
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Disclaimer: The Sabrina Zohar Show, formerly known as Do The Work, is not affiliated with A.Z & associates LLC in any capacity.

May 13, 2025 • 34min
139: Dating Nightmares & Advice: In The Trenches with Nicole Byer
In this entertaining discussion, comedian Nicole Byer shares her hilarious and relatable takes on modern dating mishaps. She and the host explore the frustrations of breadcrumbing and emotional chaos in relationships. They delve into why the 'cool girl' never wins, the pitfalls of settling, and how to navigate long-distance connections. With humor and honesty, they encourage listeners to value self-worth and set boundaries while dating, making the complexities of love feel a bit lighter and much more accessible.

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May 9, 2025 • 47min
138: Why You’re Obsessed with People Who Hurt You (And How to Finally Stop) With Nicole Vignola
In this enlightening conversation, neuroscientist Nicole Vignola, an expert on brain patterns and emotional experiences, reveals why we fixate on people who hurt us. She explores the role of dopamine in creating obsessive loops and how childhood attachment styles influence our adult relationships. Listeners will learn practical techniques for breaking these cycles, including self-compassion and cognitive reframing. Nicole also discusses the challenges of modern digital interactions and offers strategies for regaining control and fostering healthier connections.