

What Your Dad Didn't Teach You
Louis Farfields, Dating Coach for Men
Your dad skipped the dating talk. Louis doesn't. Real stories that make you better understand yourself, women, and date with confidence.–For coaching inquiries: https://www.textgod.com/schedule-callLouis' Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/louisfarfields
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Aug 17, 2025 • 40min
#34 - "I Accidentally Got TWO Girlfriends… Who Are Best Friends"
What happens when you match two best friends… and they both want you? In this episode, TextGod coach Daan walks us through his summer in a throuple. The wild vacations, family freakouts, social pranks, and the moment his girlfriends faked a fight just to see if he’d cheat.

Jul 27, 2025 • 13min
#33 - Champagne Cockblocks, Ego Slaps, and an Ugly Girl Utopia
What happens when a guy tries to cockblock you by paying your bill? What if the secret to getting laid is being called a weirdo? And what if your type is ruining your love life? In today's episode you get three short dating stories.

Jul 20, 2025 • 1h 3min
#32 - The Uncomfortable Truth About Open Relationships
Explore the messy reality of open relationships, from overcoming jealousy to navigating identity crises. Hear a firsthand account of transitioning from casual dating to an open marriage. Discover the importance of emotional security, communication, and trust before diving into non-monogamy. Learn about compersion—the joy in your partner's happiness—and how to establish boundaries. The conversation also touches on practical tips for easing into this lifestyle, addressing insecurities, and ensuring mutual respect in every relationship.

Jul 13, 2025 • 31min
#31 - [Unfiltered] She Said I Wasn’t Dominant Enough... Then Matched With My Fake Profile
When Justin got ghosted, his inner villain came out... and Operation Catfish began. Please sit back and relax the two dating adventures in this story telling episode.

Jul 6, 2025 • 43min
#30 - How to Create Sexual Chemistry (Without Being a Creep)
Discover why many successful men often feel there's no chemistry on dates. Dive into the art of creating sexual attraction with tips like speaking slowly for confidence and mastering intense eye contact. Learn the power of calibrated physical touch and playful humor in building connections. Gain insights on deepening conversations and boldly voicing your opinions to avoid the dreaded friend zone. Finally, tackle one skill at a time to refine your dating approach. Get ready to enhance your dating game!

Jun 29, 2025 • 40min
#29 - From Rock Bottom to TextGod Coach: The Humiliating Story Justin Never Wanted to Tell
Imagine pouring your heart out to your friends about getting a girl back… while they secretly know she just had a foursome on the beach. That’s where Justin started. What follows is a wild arc of failure, confusion, fake “alpha” advice, and eventually finding something that worked. Meet TextGod dating coach Justin.

Jun 15, 2025 • 2h 3min
#28 - Unmasking Porn Addiction: Shame, Sex & the Lover Archetype
This discussion dives deep into the quiet shame surrounding pornography addiction. Nate shares his journey from a NASA engineer to a recovery coach, exploring how early exposure shapes addiction. He highlights the impact of personal trauma and the limits of traditional therapy. The conversation emphasizes the importance of dating skills and emotional regulation in recovery. Jungian archetypes are used to assess masculine development, while practical exercises are shared to combat overthinking and build presence. Community and purpose emerge as keys to overcoming shame and finding healing.

Jun 8, 2025 • 1h 20min
#27 - Daddy Energy, Open Love, and Instagram Seduction
Phillip runs the biggest copywriting academy in Europe but he doesn't sit in an office. He flies around the globe, making money and meeting women. And today, this semi hippie semi capitalist gives you a peek behind his curtains.

Jun 1, 2025 • 1h 40min
#26 - When Your Girlfriend Falls for Someone Else
Dive into the intriguing world of non-monogamous relationships as one guest shares his experiences with honesty and boundaries. Discover the complexities of navigating emotional connections while addressing jealousy and insecurity. The discussion highlights the importance of communication in open relationships and personal growth through vulnerability. Tune in for insights on balancing freedom and commitment, and the transformative journey of understanding desires within love.

May 25, 2025 • 1h 2min
#25 - How to Stop Being a Fuckboy
Kenneth was one of our most active dating coaches. Nonstop dates and new girls every week. Today he has a girlfriend, three-hour calls, and withdrawal symptoms from not being in the game. In this episode, we unpack what it really feels like to go from player to partner. The validation, the overthinking, the porn, and the growth.


