What Your Dad Didn't Teach You #32 - The Uncomfortable Truth About Open Relationships
Jul 20, 2025
Explore the messy reality of open relationships, from overcoming jealousy to navigating identity crises. Hear a firsthand account of transitioning from casual dating to an open marriage. Discover the importance of emotional security, communication, and trust before diving into non-monogamy. Learn about compersion—the joy in your partner's happiness—and how to establish boundaries. The conversation also touches on practical tips for easing into this lifestyle, addressing insecurities, and ensuring mutual respect in every relationship.
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From Tinder Hookup To Open Marriage
- Julius and his wife started as a casual Tinder hookup that became monogamous then evolved into consensual non-monogamy.
- Their sexual openness grew organically from shared threesomes and mutual reflection rather than a planned switch.
Security Trumps Personality Type
- Julius says open relationships often work once personal insecurities and communication improve.
- He stresses security in self and the relationship as a key precursor to successful non-monogamy.
Start By Being Honest About Wants
- Be honest with yourself and your partner about what you want and what makes you happy.
- Define what you need from a partner and whether non-monogamy genuinely adds value to your life.