
What Your Dad Didn't Teach You
Dating isn’t rocket science, but it sure feels like it sometimes. Join Louis Farfields as he unpacks the good, the bad, and the absurd of modern dating for men. With coaches, success stories, and regular guys who’ve been through it all, you’ll get tips that actually work. Whether you’re after quick wins or deeper change.
Latest episodes

Jul 20, 2025 • 1h 3min
#32 - The Uncomfortable Truth About Open Relationships
In this episode, we go unfiltered on what actually happens when you open things up: the jealousy, the self-doubt, the sex, the identity crisis, and potential for infinite growth. You’ll hear what works, what often blows up, and what most guys get wrong. If you’re wondering whether you should ever open your relationship, this episode will help you find your answer.

Jul 13, 2025 • 31min
#31 - [Unfiltered] She Said I Wasn’t Dominant Enough... Then Matched With My Fake Profile
When Justin got ghosted, his inner villain came out... and Operation Catfish began. Please sit back and relax the two dating adventures in this story telling episode.

Jul 6, 2025 • 43min
#30 - How to Create Sexual Chemistry (Without Being a Creep)
“I don’t feel the chemistry.” That’s what two of my coaching clients kept hearing from women. Even though they are smart and successful. In this episode, coach Justin and I break down the 6 things that create sexual attraction on a date... and why most guys accidentally bomb it.

Jun 29, 2025 • 40min
#29 - From Rock Bottom to TextGod Coach: The Humiliating Story Justin Never Wanted to Tell
Imagine pouring your heart out to your friends about getting a girl back… while they secretly know she just had a foursome on the beach. That’s where Justin started. What follows is a wild arc of failure, confusion, fake “alpha” advice, and eventually finding something that worked. Meet TextGod dating coach Justin.

Jun 15, 2025 • 2h 3min
#28 - Unmasking Porn Addiction: Shame, Sex & the Lover Archetype
This one’s not really about porn. It’s about the quiet shame loop guys don't get talk about. It's about feeling disconnected, weird around sex, numb even when you’re with someone. Nate explains how it happens, why your body doesn’t trust you, and how to flip things back around again.You can set up a free consultation call with to Nate here

Jun 8, 2025 • 1h 20min
#27 - Daddy Energy, Open Love, and Instagram Seduction
Phillip runs the biggest copywriting academy in Europe but he doesn't sit in an office. He flies around the globe, making money and meeting women. And today, this semi hippie semi capitalist gives you a peek behind his curtains.

Jun 1, 2025 • 1h 40min
#26 - When Your Girlfriend Falls for Someone Else
Dive into the intriguing world of non-monogamous relationships as one guest shares his experiences with honesty and boundaries. Discover the complexities of navigating emotional connections while addressing jealousy and insecurity. The discussion highlights the importance of communication in open relationships and personal growth through vulnerability. Tune in for insights on balancing freedom and commitment, and the transformative journey of understanding desires within love.

May 25, 2025 • 1h 2min
#25 - How to Stop Being a Fuckboy
Kenneth was one of our most active dating coaches. Nonstop dates and new girls every week. Today he has a girlfriend, three-hour calls, and withdrawal symptoms from not being in the game. In this episode, we unpack what it really feels like to go from player to partner. The validation, the overthinking, the porn, and the growth.

May 18, 2025 • 46min
#24 - [Unfiltered] How to Rebound Like a Maniac
What happens when a dating coach goes full savage post-breakup? Bumble blew up. Girls got wild. And coach Daan is here to share the stories.

May 11, 2025 • 1h 28min
#23 - 3 Therapist Tricks That Kill Overthinking on Dates
Explore how to break free from the need to prove your worth during dates and embrace a more relaxed mindset. Uncover the complex dynamics of attraction and the significance of humor and personality over mere physical appearance. Learn the difference between abundance and lack in relationships, and how gratitude can transform your dating life. Delve into the importance of authenticity, active listening, and genuine connections, paving the way for deeper relationships while tackling dating anxieties effectively.