What Your Dad Didn't Teach You #39 - From Social Anxiety to Social Mastery: The 5-Year Transformation of Nikos
Oct 12, 2025
This podcast dives into the wild transformation of a man who went from crippling social anxiety to a confident dating figure. Discover how Nikos tackled his fears by using awkward compliments and humor, gradually boosting his self-esteem. Hear about his shocking online dating success, bizarre early approaches, and the surprising positive reactions he received. The conversation highlights the importance of honesty, community support, and consistent effort in overcoming social barriers, making for an inspiring and humorous listen.
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From Near-Virgin To Match Surge
- Nikos had only one and a half dates by age 29 and felt crippled by nerves around women.
- He found Textscot, built a profile during lockdown, and immediately multiplied his matches and dates dramatically.
Your Behavior Changes With Who You Like
- Nikos realized he acted differently with girls he liked versus those he didn't, causing repeated rejection.
- That mismatch drove him to research and change his approach rather than blame women.
Act As Your Ideal Self
- Act as your ideal self in social situations and remove inhibitions to rehearse confident behavior.
- Keep doing it until confidence feels natural and your behavior changes for real.
