What Your Dad Didn't Teach You

#30 - How to Create Sexual Chemistry (Without Being a Creep)

Jul 6, 2025
Discover why many successful men often feel there's no chemistry on dates. Dive into the art of creating sexual attraction with tips like speaking slowly for confidence and mastering intense eye contact. Learn the power of calibrated physical touch and playful humor in building connections. Gain insights on deepening conversations and boldly voicing your opinions to avoid the dreaded friend zone. Finally, tackle one skill at a time to refine your dating approach. Get ready to enhance your dating game!
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ANECDOTE

Ten-Date Ghosting Streak

  • Justin once had ten first dates in a row where none of the women wanted a second date.
  • That streak motivated him to change how he communicates and creates chemistry.
ANECDOTE

Successful Guys Lacking Chemistry

  • Two successful clients could network socially but were told on dates: “I don't feel the chemistry.”
  • This common problem showed attraction isn't fixed by status or intellect alone.
ADVICE

Speak Slower To Build Confidence

  • Slow down your speech on dates to sound confident and let your words land.
  • Speaking calmer reduces nervous energy and makes you seem higher value.
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