What Your Dad Didn't Teach You

Boxing, improv, and risk-taking... how much do hobbies matter in your dating journey? In this episode, we break down the skills that boost your attraction and expose the hobbies that don’t. Plus, guitar vs. surfboard: which one wins? Find out in this sequel to 'Hobbies That Make You A Better Man'

Some hobbies make you stronger, more confident, and naturally more attractive—others, well… not so much. In this episode, we debate which hobbies actually help you in life and dating, why certain skills make a difference, and whether gaming, salsa, or fixing a sink gets you more points. Plus, we get into why having just a little bit of "gay energy" might actually work in your favor.

Alyne shares why nerds who work out might just be the ultimate relationship hack. We discuss the allure of intelligence, emotional depth, and how to strike a balance between confidence and vulnerability in dating.

What really pulls people in? Bryan's journey takes him from a work-obsessed, socially unsure guy to someone who gets what makes women click. We dive into the unexpected traits that skyrocket your appeal and why doubling down on playfulness might just be your unfair advantage in the dating game.

Re-entering the dating scene? It can be daunting, unpredictable, and even frustrating at times. In this episode, Bryan shares how he transformed from newly divorced to the confident, self-assured man who calls the shots and chooses his connections on his terms. We dive into relatable challenges and surprising lessons that can transform your approach to relationships.

Are men and women just chasing status, money, and looks? In this this episode, join Niels and I as we challenge Red Pill narratives, explore phases of life and love, and asks why so many are drawn to surface-level attraction instead of genuine connection.

Not sure where to meet amazing women? My guest Dan and I have done the research for you! With humor, honesty, and a touch of science, we reveal the top five environments for meeting women and share the do’s, don’ts, and unexpected surprises of each setting.

Ever thought you had it all figured out, only to realize you were wrong? This episode dives into the humbling moments that teach us the most. Niels Paul and I talk about overconfidence, failures in dating and fighting, and how these lessons have shaped us. Whether you’re stepping into the ring or navigating relationships, this episode is packed with insights on growth and resilience.

Feeling overwhelmed by conflicting dating advice? In this episode, Louis Farfields and Daan De Ram break down the concept of bottlenecks in dating. Discover how to identify what’s holding you back and where to focus your energy to see results fast.

In this episode, Louis Farfields is joined by friend and dating coach Niels Paul as they unpack the 'Value Ceiling Theory'—a new perspective on why people often settle in relationships. They share personal stories, psychological insights, and practical takeaways for navigating dating and self-esteem.