What Your Dad Didn't Teach You

What happens when a dating coach goes full savage post-breakup? Bumble blew up. Girls got wild. And coach Daan is here to share the stories.

Explore how to break free from the need to prove your worth during dates and embrace a more relaxed mindset. Uncover the complex dynamics of attraction and the significance of humor and personality over mere physical appearance. Learn the difference between abundance and lack in relationships, and how gratitude can transform your dating life. Delve into the importance of authenticity, active listening, and genuine connections, paving the way for deeper relationships while tackling dating anxieties effectively.

Joey, standing at 5’4”, shares his inspiring journey in dating, challenging traditional notions of attraction. He recounts a win at a pickup bootcamp, proving success isn’t just about looks. Shifting his mindset, he embraced his height as a unique strength. The duo discusses playful strategies and owning one's attributes to disarm insecurities. Through humor and confidence, Joey reveals how focusing on a partner’s experience can deepen connections. They tackle the realities of height preferences, reminding listeners to own their strengths while staying true to themselves.

Love isn’t enough. In this episode, dating coach Daan De Ram shares why he ended his relationship while still in love, how men sabotage intimacy, and why most guys can’t actually handle real emotional closeness.

I sit down with my therapist Dave Wright, a hypnotherapist from Amsterdam. Dave helps me unpack the real reason most men feel stuck in dating... and in life. We dive into self-rejection, emotional triggers, setting boundaries, and how to finally feel like you’re enough.

Ramses was one of those guys. Charming, confident, dating like it was a sport. Until he fell in love. What followed was five years of passion, denial, emotional decline, and physical symptoms that doctors couldn’t explain. In this unfiltered episode, he shares what it really looks like to get lost in a relationship that seems amazing on the outside… and how he slowly found his way back.

In a captivating discussion, a dating coach uncovers the deeper reasons behind dating insecurities. It’s revealed that self-relationship is the key to healthy partnerships. They explore three layers affecting dating: looks, skills, and self-worth. The concept of a love blueprint is introduced, emphasizing the impact of upbringing and past experiences. The conversation highlights the importance of internal work over external tactics, offering practical steps for emotional regulation and self-reflection. Insights into generational patterns further enrich the dialogue.

You wanted more real-life stories, so here we go. In this episode, my close friend Niels and I share some of our wilder dating experiences. The kind of stuff that happens when you actually get good at the game. No theory, no over-explaining, just raw, unfiltered stories straight from real life. Enjoy!

Most guys stay stuck in the beginner or intermediate stage of dating because they keep making the same mistakes. Some never escape them. In this episode, we break down the most common beginner and intermediate mistakes. We’ll show you what’s keeping you stuck and how to break free, and burst through to the next level.

Dive into the emotional rollercoaster of dating and relationships as the hosts discuss the thrill of the chase versus the comfort of commitment. They explore personal growth through kickboxing experiences and the mental challenges athletes face after retiring. The addictive nature of seeking validation in both combat sports and romance is unveiled, alongside candid talks about overcoming addiction and anxiety in relationships. Gain insights on shifting from a single lifestyle to a fulfilling partnership through self-reflection and intentional choices.