What Your Dad Didn't Teach You

Think you’re just dating? Think again. Women test men in ways you don’t even realize, fake breakups, emotional swings, and subtle challenges designed to reveal who you really are. Are you a leader or a pushover? A confident man or a try-hard simp? Alyne is back to break down the hidden rules of attraction, what women are really looking for, and why most men fail the test before they even know it’s happening.

You know that gut-punch moment when an approach flops, the vibe’s off, and you’re ready to call it a night? Most guys tap out. Ram didn’t. And that’s where things got interesting. From brutal rejections to ridiculous wins, we break down why sticking it out—just one more time—can change everything. If you’ve ever felt like quitting, this episode might just change your mind.

Boxing, improv, and risk-taking... how much do hobbies matter in your dating journey? In this episode, we break down the skills that boost your attraction and expose the hobbies that don’t. Plus, guitar vs. surfboard: which one wins? Find out in this sequel to 'Hobbies That Make You A Better Man'

Some hobbies make you stronger, more confident, and naturally more attractive—others, well… not so much. In this episode, we debate which hobbies actually help you in life and dating, why certain skills make a difference, and whether gaming, salsa, or fixing a sink gets you more points. Plus, we get into why having just a little bit of "gay energy" might actually work in your favor.

Alyne shares why nerds who work out might just be the ultimate relationship hack. We discuss the allure of intelligence, emotional depth, and how to strike a balance between confidence and vulnerability in dating.

What really pulls people in? Bryan's journey takes him from a work-obsessed, socially unsure guy to someone who gets what makes women click. We dive into the unexpected traits that skyrocket your appeal and why doubling down on playfulness might just be your unfair advantage in the dating game.

Re-entering the dating scene? It can be daunting, unpredictable, and even frustrating at times. In this episode, Bryan shares how he transformed from newly divorced to the confident, self-assured man who calls the shots and chooses his connections on his terms. We dive into relatable challenges and surprising lessons that can transform your approach to relationships.

Are men and women just chasing status, money, and looks? In this this episode, join Niels and I as we challenge Red Pill narratives, explore phases of life and love, and asks why so many are drawn to surface-level attraction instead of genuine connection.

Not sure where to meet amazing women? My guest Dan and I have done the research for you! With humor, honesty, and a touch of science, we reveal the top five environments for meeting women and share the do’s, don’ts, and unexpected surprises of each setting.

In this discussion, Niels Paul, a frequent guest known for his insights on dating and self-improvement, shares his thoughts on the complexities of attraction. He dives into the pitfalls of overconfidence and how past failures can lead to personal growth. They explore the awkwardness of real-life interactions versus perceived ease, and the transformation that can spark from envy. The conversation highlights the contrast between 'bad boy' allure and genuine connection in dating, ultimately showing how reflection and gratitude fuel progress.