
The Mating Grounds Podcast
The Mating Grounds Podcast is a collaboration between #1 bestselling author, Tucker Max, and renowned evolutionary psychologist, Professor Geoffrey Miller, to teach men how to be successful with women, dating and relationships.
Through discussions and interviews with the worlds leading experts in human sexuality, psychology, animal behavior, genetics and behavioral studies, they explain in clear and actionable terms precisely what men need to know about sex, dating, relationships, and women, and how to improve yourself in all of those areas.
Plainly put: this is the advice that men wish they had heard when they were 16, that teaches them all the important lessons about sex and dating they are desperate to learn.
Latest episodes

Aug 25, 2015 • 18min
The Mate Preview, Pt. 16: Romantic Proof And Showing Interest
In this preview series, we go over each chapter in our upcoming book, Mate: Become the Man Women Want, explaining key takeaways and what to expect.
In Part 16 of The Mate Preview, Tucker & Dr. Miller explain how being romantic is not what you think (you don't need rose petals and candles) and how to pull it off by showing women your interest and intentions the right way.

Aug 24, 2015 • 50min
Helping Joe, Episode 29 Part 1
Joe talks about his recent dates including a terrible one in Austin and a surprisingly good one. They discuss saving a bad date, diet and sleep advice. They also dive into Joe's emotional issues and their impact on his dating. The hosts explore the impact of the podcast on their relationship and the frustration of not getting enough sleep. They discuss the importance of starting the day positively and how low blood sugar can affect behavior. Lack of sleep is explored as a negative factor in their relationship.

Aug 19, 2015 • 15min
The Mate Preview, Pt. 15: Aesthetic Proof And Sense Of Style
The hosts discuss how men evolved to show off to women and explain how women look at aesthetics and cleanliness. They provide tips on building attractive skills and investing in good style without following awful fads. The significance of style beyond fashion trends is explored, debunking stereotypes. The importance of taste, thoughtfulness, grooming, and personal care in attracting women is emphasized. Dressing well, clothing fit, and cleanliness are discussed as crucial factors in attracting women.

Aug 18, 2015 • 17min
The Mate Preview, Pt. 14: Material Proof (Money)
In this podcast, Tucker and Dr. Miller discuss how women value the attractive traits that financial resources signal. They emphasize that women prioritize an interesting, kind husband with a solid middle-class income over a workaholic millionaire husband. The podcast also explores how money can shape physical appearance and attract higher quality relationships. It highlights the importance of managing time, displaying creativity on dates, and utilizing money wisely to create meaningful experiences and personal growth.

Aug 17, 2015 • 1h 1min
Helping Joe, Episode 28 Part 2
In Part 2, Joe talks about another bedroom issue he had with a different woman. Charlie & Nils tell him what can do to avoid this in the future, the two emotional needs women have as clothes start to come off, and why life is easier and more fulfilling when you see women as good friends first.

Aug 13, 2015 • 16min
How Do I Test A Woman To Learn Who She Really Is?
In this Q&A, Tucker, Nils, and Dr. Miller explain how to learn more about a potential long-term girlfriend (or anyone really). They give many ideas for how to force people to show you who they really are so that you can decide if you want to move forward in that relationship or not.

Aug 12, 2015 • 11min
The Mate Preview, Pt. 13: Social Proof And Prestige (Social Status)
Discover why women are more attracted to your prestige in a group than fame or money. Learn how good social skills make you more attractive and introduce you to more women. Find out short-term and long-term ways to improve your social proof and how to have good social skills as an introvert.

Aug 11, 2015 • 12min
The Mate Preview, Pt. 12: How To Signal Your Attractive Traits To Women
In this preview series, they explain that developing attractive traits is not enough, you must also signal these traits to women. They discuss visual and behavioral signals and how to signal your attractive traits. The podcast explores signaling theory, attractive signals, and the role of behavior and cues in attracting women. They also discuss how visual signals convey information about mental health, personality traits, and attractiveness.

Aug 10, 2015 • 32min
Helping Joe, Episode 28 Part 1
In a whirlwind of dating, Joe awkwardly juggles two dates in one night before realizing his mistake. He learns valuable lessons about the importance of taking time between dates and the freedom to cancel when necessary. The conversation delves into trust issues highlighted by humorous bets, emphasizing emotional connection over trivial disputes. With a focus on self-respect and honesty, the hosts explore the complex dynamics of dating, reminding listeners that timing and communication are key to making genuine connections.

Aug 6, 2015 • 14min
Why Do My Friends Have "High Standards" But No Women Around?
The podcast explores why some guys claim to have high standards but struggle with women, delving into the influence of age, fear of rejection, and obsession with beauty. They discuss the psychology behind arrogance and self-perception in dating standards. The hosts also explore the phenomenon of guys obsessing over women's attractiveness and question if it reveals hidden sexual preferences. They discuss men's online behavior in commenting on women's attractiveness and briefly mention the episode sponsor, Book Hacker.
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