The Mate Preview, Pt. 15: Aesthetic Proof And Sense Of Style
Aug 19, 2015
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The hosts discuss how men evolved to show off to women and explain how women look at aesthetics and cleanliness. They provide tips on building attractive skills and investing in good style without following awful fads. The significance of style beyond fashion trends is explored, debunking stereotypes. The importance of taste, thoughtfulness, grooming, and personal care in attracting women is emphasized. Dressing well, clothing fit, and cleanliness are discussed as crucial factors in attracting women.
Understanding the historical significance of aesthetics and investing in a timeless sense of style can attract women.
Maintaining good personal hygiene, grooming practices, and cleanliness in living spaces are important factors in attracting women.
Deep dives
Chapter 13: Aesthetic Proof
Chapter 13 of the upcoming book 'Mate, How to Become the Man Women Want' explores the importance of aesthetics in attracting women. The chapter emphasizes that aesthetics go beyond just clothing and involve aspects such as creativity, style, and overall lifestyle. It highlights that understanding the historical significance of aesthetics and the appeal it has for women can help men develop good aesthetic sense. The chapter advises against following fleeting fashion trends and instead encourages men to focus on timeless styles that have consistently appealed to women. It suggests various ways to display aesthetic proof, such as learning to dance, developing musical abilities, creating things with your hands, storytelling, and artistic pursuits.
Grooming and Clothing
The book stresses the significance of grooming and clothing in attracting women. It emphasizes the importance of maintaining good personal hygiene, including hair, skin, teeth, and nails, to make a positive impression. The chapter provides detailed guidance on grooming practices and highlights the need to avoid neglecting basic grooming routines. Regarding clothing, the book advises men to make an effort and dress appropriately for social contexts and age. It emphasizes the importance of proper fit, as ill-fitting clothes can be a turnoff for women. The chapter also covers topics such as washing clothes, the significance of shoes, and offers principles to help men develop their personal style.
Car, Home, and Tidiness
This section of the book discusses the importance of maintaining cleanliness and tidiness in various aspects of a man's life, including his car, home, bathroom, and kitchen. The chapter highlights that women often draw conclusions about a man's conscientiousness, willpower, and mental health based on the condition of these spaces. It emphasizes the significance of cleanliness in attracting women and advises men to keep their belongings clean, tidy, and organized. The book explains that women have a sensitivity to dirt and potential threats, and they tend to associate a clean environment with safety and overall well-being. The chapter cautions men not to dismiss the importance of cleanliness and provides insights and details on how to effectively maintain clean spaces.
In this preview series, we go over each chapter in our upcoming book, Mate: Become the Man Women Want, explaining key takeaways and what to expect.
In Part 15 of The Mate Preview, Tucker and Dr. Miller explain how men evolved to show off to women and what most guys don't understand about how women look at your aesthetics and cleanliness.
They then go over the attractive skills you can build and how to invest in good style without getting into awful fads.
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