
The Mating Grounds Podcast
The Mating Grounds Podcast is a collaboration between #1 bestselling author, Tucker Max, and renowned evolutionary psychologist, Professor Geoffrey Miller, to teach men how to be successful with women, dating and relationships.
Through discussions and interviews with the worlds leading experts in human sexuality, psychology, animal behavior, genetics and behavioral studies, they explain in clear and actionable terms precisely what men need to know about sex, dating, relationships, and women, and how to improve yourself in all of those areas.
Plainly put: this is the advice that men wish they had heard when they were 16, that teaches them all the important lessons about sex and dating they are desperate to learn.
Latest episodes

Aug 5, 2015 • 10min
The Mate Preview, Pt. 11: The Agreeableness & Assertiveness Traits (Nice Guys Vs. Assholes)
In this preview series, we go over each chapter in our upcoming book, Mate: Become the Man Women Want, explaining key takeaways and what to expect.
In Part 11 of The Mate Preview, Tucker, Dr. Miller, and Nils explain how women don't want only assholes or just nice guys, but they do want men who are tough and assertive to the world but kind and caring to them; a tender defender.
They go over how to improve and display both agreeable and assertiveness.
For more on the tender defender, listen to our previous podcast episodes.

Aug 4, 2015 • 16min
The Mate Preview, Pt. 10: The Willpower Trait
In this preview series, we go over each chapter in our upcoming book, Mate: Become the Man Women Want, explaining key takeaways and what to expect.
In Part 10 of The Mate Preview, Tucker, Dr. Miller, and Nils explain how willpower is the key to being an effective man, which ultimately is what women want (listen to The Mate Preview, Pt. 6: What Women Want)
They go over how to build willpower, including the first key mindset that you need to adopt, the 5 steps to setting & accomplishing goals, and the multiple ways to display your willpower to women.
For more on the willpower trait, listen to our previous podcast episodes.

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Aug 3, 2015 • 1h 10min
Helping Joe, Episode 27
This week on Helping Joe, Joe has a breakthrough with the best date he has ever been on. Charlie & Tucker break down why and how this date went so well. Joe also unknowingly blows off another woman who wanted to have sex with him. Tucker & Charlie share similar funny personal stories. And they end the podcast talking with Joe about how to deal with toxic, judgmental people in his life.

Jul 30, 2015 • 15min
I Get Depressed When I See Friends With Hot Girls. What Should I Do?
The hosts dive into a listener's struggle with self-esteem fueled by social media comparisons. They unpack the halo effect, showing how beauty can mislead perceptions of intelligence. The discussion transitions to the historical evolution of self-worth and the modern pressures it brings. Emotional responses to female beauty are explored, emphasizing the need for therapy to boost self-esteem. Finally, they address how negative social media interactions can heighten feelings of inadequacy, advocating for heightened self-awareness and positive coping strategies.

Jul 29, 2015 • 15min
The Mate Preview, Pt. 9: The Intelligence Trait
In this preview, they explain the 6 types of intelligence and why women care about them. Ways to improve and display intelligence to women are discussed.

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Jul 28, 2015 • 16min
The Mate Preview, Pt. 8: The Mental Health Trait
In this preview series, we go over each chapter in our upcoming book, Mate: Become the Man Women Want, explaining key takeaways and what to expect.
In Part 8 of The Mate Preview, Tucker, Dr. Miller, and Nils explain why women care about your mental health (happiness, openness, and playfulness). It is a way for women to see that you are not a threat and that your brain is effective. They go over what you can do today to become more brain healthy and display that to women.
For more on the mental health trait, listen to our previous podcast episodes.

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Jul 27, 2015 • 1h 14min
Helping Joe, Episode 26
In this episode, Joe gives updates on his recent dates and receives advice on avoiding social isolation and managing his emotional issues. They discuss the benefits of joining a co-working space and the importance of a nice mattress. They explore taking action in psychoanalysis and reflect on missed opportunities for connection. They also discuss making excuses to leave social situations and share personal anecdotes about wine preferences.

Jul 23, 2015 • 10min
What Skills Should All Men Have?
Exploring the idea of desirable skills for men, the podcast focuses on personality traits over specific abilities. It challenges stereotypes and emphasizes the significance of traits like understanding and connecting with others in attracting women.

Jul 22, 2015 • 15min
The Mate Preview, Pt. 7: The Physical Health Trait
Discover the crucial link between physical health and attraction. It's not just about looking good; a fit body signals deeper qualities. Forget the pressure of achieving a perfect physique; relatability is key! Learn how quality sleep and nutrition are vital for overall appeal. Understand which dietary choices can enhance health and attractiveness, and why enjoying exercise matters. Plus, explore how being physically active can boost your dating prospects and enhance connection. Prioritize your health for a more fulfilling romantic life!

Jul 21, 2015 • 16min
The Mate Preview, Pt. 6: What Women Want & Why They Want It
In this preview series, we go over each chapter in our upcoming book, Mate: Become the Man Women Want, explaining key takeaways and what to expect.
In Part 6, Tucker, Dr. Miller, and Nils go over what women want on a deep biological level and why they evolved to want these things in men. Dr. Miller is one of the world's leading experts on female mate choice. To sum up all the research, women evolved to want effective men.
For more on understanding what women want, listen to our previous podcast episodes.
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