The Mate Preview, Pt. 11: The Agreeableness & Assertiveness Traits (Nice Guys Vs. Assholes)

Chapter 9: The Tender Defender

In this episode, the podcast explores the concept of the 'Tender Defender' discussed in chapter nine of the upcoming book, Mate, How to Become the Man Women Want. The chapter explains the two major psychological traits of agreeableness and assertiveness and emphasizes that women desire a balance of both qualities. Women want men who are tough and assertive in the world but also kind and caring towards them and their family. The chapter delves into why women value agreeableness, which represents kindness and empathy, and how agreeable guys make good partners and fathers. It also discusses why men need to possess assertiveness to be of value to women, as it demonstrates the ability to protect and handle conflict. The chapter offers insights on improving agreeableness and assertiveness and provides practical advice on displaying these traits to attract women.