
The Mating Grounds Podcast
The Mating Grounds Podcast is a collaboration between #1 bestselling author, Tucker Max, and renowned evolutionary psychologist, Professor Geoffrey Miller, to teach men how to be successful with women, dating and relationships.
Through discussions and interviews with the worlds leading experts in human sexuality, psychology, animal behavior, genetics and behavioral studies, they explain in clear and actionable terms precisely what men need to know about sex, dating, relationships, and women, and how to improve yourself in all of those areas.
Plainly put: this is the advice that men wish they had heard when they were 16, that teaches them all the important lessons about sex and dating they are desperate to learn.
Latest episodes

Sep 16, 2015 • 11min
The Mate Preview, Pt. 22: Having Sex
In this preview series, we go over each chapter in our upcoming book, Mate: Become the Man Women Want, explaining key takeaways and what to expect.
In Part 22 of The Mate Preview, Tucker, Nils, and Dr. Miller talk about how to look at sex as a means to an end, not an end in itself. It is just another part, the most intense part, of courtship or mating.
They also go over why penis size isn't as important as you think. Women care about many other traits first, which they explain here.
And because Mate did not include a lot about sex, they point you to the right resources to learn what you need to know about sex.

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Sep 14, 2015 • 1h 6min
Helping Joe, Episode 31
In this special episode of Helping Joe, Tucker and Charlie talk with Joe about changing the direction of this podcast series. They go over Joe’s recent successes (ex. Joe made a female friend) and his increased emotional health and happiness over the last 6 months. And because he is now dating multiple women, they have to set a new goal for him or fix another important part of his life.

Sep 10, 2015 • 20min
Helping Joe, Episode 30 Part 2
Joe discusses his recent dates and seeks advice on ending short romantic relationships with maturity. The importance of treating women with respect and recognizing their ability to make their own decisions is emphasized. The podcast also explores open communication, understanding, and the concept of 'benevolent chauvinism' in relationships.

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Sep 9, 2015 • 15min
The Mate Preview, Pt. 21: How To Go Out On First Dates
In this preview series, we go over each chapter in our upcoming book, Mate: Become the Man Women Want, explaining key takeaways and what to expect.
In Part 21 of The Mate Preview, Tucker, Nils, and Dr. Miller explain what a date actually is, what the most important parts of a first date are, and why the checklist details don't matter that much.
They also go over what makes a great date place, spending money, and displaying your strengths.

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Sep 8, 2015 • 19min
The Mate Preview, Pt. 20: How To Talk To Women
In this preview series, we go over each chapter in our upcoming book, Mate: Become the Man Women Want, explaining key takeaways and what to expect.
In Part 20 of The Mate Preview, Tucker, Nils, and Dr. Miller talk about the #1 question that they get from guys ("How do I talk to girls?" or "What do I say to her?"), and why it's not the most important thing to focus on.
Your traits and proofs (see past episodes) are fundamental to your mating success. Talking to women is just a way to reveal or signal those attractive traits and proofs.
They go over the different levels of communication and how to be a great conversationalist in this episode.

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Sep 7, 2015 • 43min
Helping Joe, Episode 30 Part 1
This week on Helping Joe, Joe talks about what he thinks are his 5 biggest issues and patterns on this podcast and in his life. Tucker and Nils tell him what the best, most fundamental thing he can do right now to work with all of these at the same time. They also give him new goals to work on each week alongside dating women.

Sep 2, 2015 • 14min
The Mate Preview, Pt. 19: How & Where To Meet The Women You Want
Discover why volunteering is a better way to meet women than going to bars and clubs. Learn how to make your mating life an extension of your social life. Explore different ways to meet women that align with your interests. Get valuable tips on creating an appealing online dating profile and actively seeking out the type of women you're interested in.

Sep 1, 2015 • 14min
The Mate Preview, Pt. 18: Mate Preferences And How To Pick Women
Learn about mate preferences and how to pick women by improving your mate value, understanding post-sex choice, and identifying specific mate preferences based on short, medium, and long-term mating goals. Explore the preferences and behaviors of women interested in short-term relationships and discover key traits to look for in selecting a woman for a long-term commitment. Recognize and embrace personal preferences for long-term relationships, challenging societal expectations.

Aug 31, 2015 • 31min
Helping Joe, Episode 29 Part 2
Joe shares an interaction with two girls and his fear of women. They discuss the misconception of needing to be perfect in dating. They explore the importance of feeling good over looking cool. The hosts address self-absorption and narcissism. They also talk about handling conflict and personal growth.

Aug 26, 2015 • 15min
The Mate Preview, Pt. 17: Where To Meet Women (Mating Markets)
In this preview series, we go over each chapter in our upcoming book, Mate: Become the Man Women Want, explaining key takeaways and what to expect.
In Part 17 of The Mate Preview, Tucker, Nils, and Dr. Miller explain what a mating market is and how to adjust your mating market to meet a lot more women. In short, it's the supply & demand of dating.
They go over the different levels of picking a mating market from your country down to your neighborhood and even your job, giving many specific examples.
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