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Conversation Reveals Traits
- Conversation's purpose in mating is to reveal traits and proofs, not transfer information.
- Show attractive traits through stories, jokes, and banter rather than claiming them.
Start By Hosting The Interaction
- Be a good host: ease initial self-consciousness by facilitating the interaction.
- Use warm, open body language like smiling and open posture to comfort her.
Build Commonality First
- Establish commonality via small talk to create social overlap and emotional safety.
- Use shared context (like mutual connections or the weather) to make her feel you belong to a network.