Tucker and Dr. Miller talk about the evolutionary psychology behind what women find attractive, i.e., why women pick the traits they pick. Dr. Miller explains what sexual selection is and how it impacts female mating choices, the dating issues of a 17-year old hunter gatherer, and intra-gender competition.

In this preview series, we go over each chapter in our upcoming book, Mate: Become the Man Women Want, explaining key takeaways and what to expect.  In Part 20 of The Mate Preview, Tucker, Nils, and Dr. Miller talk about the #1 question that they get from guys ("How do I talk to girls?" or "What do I say to her?"), and why it's not the most important thing to focus on.  Your traits and proofs (see past episodes) are fundamental to your mating success. Talking to women is just a way to reveal or signal those attractive traits and proofs.  They go over the different levels of communication and how to be a great conversationalist in this episode. 

Every guy has issues--that doesn't make you weak, it makes you human. Facing and dealing with your shit is what makes you a man.  There's a right way and a wrong way to do it. If you're too open about it, you'll come off as desperate, weird and very unattractive to a girl. But if you do it right, you show that you're a man who can both admit that you have problems (like everyone) and deal with them yourself. In this Q&A Tucker, Nils and Dr. Miller tell you how to find the right balance, so you can build trust with women while still being attractive.