The Mating Grounds Podcast The Mate Preview, Pt. 21: How To Go Out On First Dates
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Sep 9, 2015 AI Snips
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Dating Is Mutual Evaluation
- Dating is a mutual information-gathering context where both people evaluate traits and signals.
- The specific venue matters only insofar as it lets you display traits and connect through conversation and activities.
Pick Dates That Showcase Strengths
- Choose dates that allow conversation, touch, and joint activities so you can display strengths.
- Prioritize contexts that let you show traits, not expensive displays of wealth.
Don't Buy Attraction With Money
- Avoid equating more spending with date success and sexual outcomes.
- Build sustainable, repeatable date plans you can afford over months or years.