
Psychology Has It Backwards
We're offering mental health professionals a fresh look at the fundamental cause of stress and distress, and the fundamental source of cure. It's simpler than it has seemed, and the result is sustained mental well-being. Psychology has had it backwards.
Latest episodes

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Sep 7, 2024 • 34min
Episode 174: Accountability and Responsibility
Explore how understanding the Three Principles empowers individuals to take charge of their thoughts and emotions. Uncover the importance of accountability in personal growth and how misinterpreted feelings can block progress. Hear transformative stories from veterans finding connections beyond their past. Delve into the journey of self-identity and how understanding thoughts can reshape one's narrative, regardless of adversity. Lastly, appreciate the value of listening and kindness in fostering deeper human connections.

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Aug 31, 2024 • 30min
Episode 173: Perfectionism
Chris shares his personal journey with habitual perfectionism, detailing its emotional weight and origins in childhood. Judy highlights the importance of embracing our imperfections and letting go of unrealistic standards. They discuss how accepting humanity and finding humor in mistakes can transform our view on self-criticism. By recognizing that perfectionism stems from insecurity, they advocate for a compassionate shift toward self-acceptance, emphasizing that everyone is doing their best in this imperfect journey.

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Aug 24, 2024 • 32min
Episode 172: Anger: Taking Things Personally Without Realizing It
Anger often signals that we're taking things too personally. It can stem from misunderstandings, especially during sensitive conversations. The discussion emphasizes the need to recognize our emotional triggers and maintain calm. By understanding that each person speaks from their own mindset, we can lessen defensive reactions. Anecdotes illustrate how differing perspectives can enrich relationships, urging listeners to question their beliefs and adopt a compassionate approach to avoid unnecessary conflicts.

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Aug 3, 2024 • 29min
Episode 171: Diagnoses Reveal Insecure Thoughts
Explore how mental health diagnoses can misrepresent true identity as mere snapshots in time. Discover the concept that insecurities are temporary and can be recontextualized for healing. Learn about the detrimental effects of labels on self-perception and personal growth. The discussion emphasizes the transient nature of thoughts and how recognizing this power allows individuals to reclaim their identities beyond psychiatric labels. It's about shifting perspectives for deeper self-understanding and mental wellness.

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Jul 27, 2024 • 33min
Episode 170: Escaping Negative Thinking
Discover how embracing less can lead to more peace of mind as you learn to navigate negative thoughts without taking them seriously. Delve into the importance of mindfulness and the value of supportive relationships in fostering emotional resilience. With humorous anecdotes, the discussion highlights that nurturing negative thoughts only feeds into darkness, while shifting your perspective opens pathways to clarity and insight. Find glimmers of hope by connecting with positive memories and recognizing your inherent mental health.

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Jul 20, 2024 • 29min
Episode 169: Caught Up in Negative Thinking?
Exploring the impact of negative thoughts and strategies to overcome them, including not engaging in a battle with negativity. Embracing fun and surprises in the workplace can boost morale. Shifting focus from negative self-talk to appreciating compliments can improve self-worth and well-being.

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Jul 6, 2024 • 24min
Episode 168: When Am I Ready To Share What I Understand?
The podcast delves into how people know when they're ready to share their understanding of the 3 Principles. It explores the power of sharing personal insights authentically and how it can lead to meaningful connections and inspire change. The speakers also discuss overcoming anxiety and being authentic while sharing insights, highlighting the importance of embracing one's unique way of understanding.

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Jun 22, 2024 • 32min
Episode 167: What We Do With Problems
The podcast explores the shift towards viewing individuals as inherently healthy in psychology, empowering clients to change their own lives by shifting perspectives and understanding the impact of thoughts. It challenges traditional approaches to mental health treatment and emphasizes the importance of staying connected to inner wisdom to address challenges from a deeper level.

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Jun 15, 2024 • 29min
Episode 166: What's the Big Deal About "Mixing?"
Exploring the Three Principles and the idea of not 'mixing' approaches. Discussing innate mental health vs. circumstances affecting people. Reflecting on assisting trauma victims and enabling healing. Transitioning from consulting to therapy, emphasizing presence and wisdom. Navigating overwhelm, perfectionism, and embracing self-trust.

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Jun 8, 2024 • 31min
Episode 165: Words We Use That Are Often Misinterpreted by the Intellect
Exploring language's limitations in capturing inner experiences, the podcast discusses profound topics like true listening and understanding beyond intellect. Delving into ego, wisdom, and the power of feelings, it offers insights on navigating life with a fresh perspective.