

Healing Honeys with Louise Rumball
Louise Rumball
Healing Honeys is your modern guide to wellness and healing. This is *the* podcast for girls with big dreams who are trying to balance it all and heal along the way. Join Louise Rumball—serial entrepreneur, fiery Sagittarius, type-A overachiever, healing girlie, holistic wellness coach, and relationship expert (someone once called her the "Jesus of modern dating" so you know this is going to be fun).Louise’s healing journey has been anything but calm. Think: savage dating stories, harrowing breakups, 20 cigarettes a day, daddy issues, an anxious attachment style, and even an autoimmune disorder too. Fast forward to today, after spending thousands on healing and therapy, she’s here to guide you, love you, and laugh with you as she shares the tips, tricks, and rituals that saved her—and that ACTUALLY work.With new episodes every Wednesday, expect girl talk, psychology, nervous system insights, and conversations about love, sex, dating, wellness, fitness, a touch of business, and a sprinkle of spirituality too. So, get in, honey—we’re balancing healing, hustling, and life, and trust us, the best is yet to come!
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May 7, 2024 • 28min
155 - Long Distance Relationship Tips
Relationship expert Louise Rumball shares tips on managing long-distance relationships, emphasizing communication, trust, and thoughtful gestures. She dives into her own experience, the importance of maintaining trust, and ways to spice up virtual interactions. This episode is a survival guide for anyone in or considering a long-distance relationship.

Apr 28, 2024 • 47min
154 - Why situationships can f**k you up
Situationships can be crazy, soul crushing, exhilarating journeys. Who can relate? One moment you’re on top of the world, the next you’re desperately waiting for them to text you back feeling like the world is going to end. You’re not alone if you’ve been left wondering how so much damage could be caused by such a short-lived experience. Today, in a highly requested solo episode, Louise dives deep into the REAL WHY behind how and why these situationships can f**k you up.
Louise gets into the juicy details of:
How situationships can be tied to early life experiences, brain structure, nervous system, and neurotransmitter function (yes really).
The rollercoaster of emotions that come with a situationship
How the concepts of hope & silence can drive our inner child crazy (and how inconsistency of the highs and lows can exacerbate this cycle)
The biochemistry of obsession
The concept of fantasy bonding & maladaptive daydreaming (and how it is actually a coping mechanism)
How imbalanced neurotransmitters can leave you craving situationships
And more.
Louise has been there. You’re not alone. You’re not going crazy and when you listen to this episode you will understand WHAT is going on a biochemical level and HOW this person has such a grip over you. Welcome to clarity, peace and healing!
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Apr 23, 2024 • 51min
153 - Inner child healing: where to start
Psychotherapist Tasha Bailey and Louise delve into inner child healing, childhood shaping adulthood, age regressions, inner critic, boundaries, and the importance of play for healing. They discuss societal influences on self-worth, hustle culture, reconnecting with hobbies, addressing past traumas, and reparenting for inner child healing.

Apr 16, 2024 • 34min
152 - Why am I exhausted (the Freeze response)
Sarah Murphy, an expert on shifting out of 'freeze mode' and helping transition the body out of a frozen state, discusses practical tips to heal the nervous system. Topics include the importance of a 'felt sense of safety', somatic experiencing, and methods like morning sunlight, intermittent fasting, and psychedelics. They also explore energization techniques and the concept of 'bringing your life force back into your body'.

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Apr 1, 2024 • 58min
151 - How to reprogram your subconscious mind ft. Em On The Brain
Neuroscientist Em On The Brain and Louise delve into subconscious mind hacks for healing, brainwave states, dopamine's role in creating a new future, and practical strategies like meditation and visualization for brain rewiring.

Mar 30, 2024 • 44min
150 - Healing sexual trauma, feminine energy + your sacred slut ft. Christina Zayas
Welcome to meet your sacred slut, she’s been WAITING for you.
Ashamed of your past and consciously or subconsciously living a life where you keep things secret, hidden or denied?
Hate the question ‘what’s your body count’? And don’t know how to handle the answer.
Harboring any type of shame, regret, or guilt?
In this sensitive and vulnerable episode, join Christina Zayas as she courageously opens up about her journey of overcoming childhood sexual trauma and transitioning through adult sex working and escorting to reclaim her love, truth and every part of herself and her sacred sensuality that she once denied.
Together, Louise & Christina explore:
How society teaches us to suppress our truth, sexuality, and shadows, leading to a cycle of avoidance and denial.
How denying ourselves mirrors the partners we attract, leading to recurring patterns in our lives.
The transformative power of shadow work (and sobriety) in confronting and integrating our darkest aspects, paving the way for stepping into the light.
Rediscovering autonomy over one's sexuality and rights to pleasure;
As well as taking charge of self-care, self-love, and self-worship and how a sacred pleasure practice plays a huge part in this.
Christina candidly shares her own personal experience of reclaiming power, control and compassionate agency in her sexuality and offers actionable steps to initiate a practice of self-care and self-love and even self-worship. This episode invites you to look back at your past with love and gratitude, rather than with shame, regret or anger.
Trigger Warning: this episode discusses sexual abuse and substance abuse. Listener discretion is advised.
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Mar 26, 2024 • 52min
149 - The Death/Rebirth Cycle
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Join me in this life update episode as I share everything about my time in London, what’s going on in my life, my recent death/rebirth moment, how I’ve got SO much clarity after a few ‘ouchy’ moments and also the announcement of the new course I have been working on for what feels like FOREVER now. I also chat what I’m packing for Tulum, the items I’m obsessing over at the moment and how it’s not okay to accept sub-par behavior from friends.
Daily Devotion™ is now live on the App Store & Google Play — unlock your healthiest, happiest, highest self with somatic daily wellness rituals, free for 7 days → [REDEEM]
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https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/
💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline
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HEAL WITH LOUISE
✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion
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Mar 20, 2024 • 58min
148 - Healing shame and de-shaming ft. Dana Doswell
Are you ready to de-shame and radically change your life? While the whole world is talking about the nervous system and nervous system regulation, very few people are talking about the one emotion that will keep your nervous system consistently dysregulated: shame.
Today, Louise & her friend Dana Doswell, an expert in shame, de-shaming and trauma meet to discuss:
What actually is shame
Implicit shame vs. explicit shame
How you don’t have to be bullied to be full of shame or feel ashamed
How shame trickles out into your body, mind and psyche and your relationships around you
The importance of shame detoxing
The connection to the nervous system
De-shaming and somatic shame healing
And more!
The pair also discuss their own experiences with shame - from being a wild gal at university to body count, STIs, body image and more.
Daily Devotion™ is now live on the App Store & Google Play — unlock your healthiest, happiest, highest self with somatic daily wellness rituals, free for 7 days → [REDEEM]
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💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline
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HEAL WITH LOUISE
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Mar 11, 2024 • 44min
147 - The psychology of being attracted to the wrong people
Sick of ‘everyone turning out the same’? Could your whole dating life be explained by schema chemistry, schema traps and schema jigsaws? Welcome to schema chemistry school - the reason that you might have been attracting the same partner on repeat over the duration of your lifetime (and why those relationships always turn out the same!)
This week Louise is joined by clinical psychologist and trauma expert Dr. Laura Williams as they dive into:
Schema therapy
What schema chemistry is (and why Louise is obsessed with it)
The concepts of surrendering, avoiding and counter attacking against schemas we develop in childhood
The abandonment schema (and why it’s so prevalent in adult dating)
The schemas of mistrust/abuse, self-sacrifice, and defectiveness/shame, and how they manifest in relationships.
Perfectionism
How schema chemistry can lead to unrealistic fantasy bonding
Advice for breaking cycles; and more.
The pair also discuss how schema chemistry can relate to your relationship with yourself, not just others.
Daily Devotion™ is now live on the App Store & Google Play — unlock your healthiest, happiest, highest self with somatic daily wellness rituals, free for 7 days → [REDEEM]
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Mar 5, 2024 • 42min
146 - Ready for love: how to attract your soulmate
Get ready to call in a girlfriend/boyfriend! Heavily requested, finally delivered! Join Louise on this fun solo episode as she takes you on an 8 stage journey to finding your next partner, including:
How she found her man
How to move forward by looking back
Understanding your Unconscious Attraction & Communication Cycles
The power of a Previous Partner Audit & Previous Power Dynamics
Reflect on your Parental Patterns
Identifying Attachment Hunger
Understanding Falling In Love With Potential (so you don’t!)
Get clear on your dating app / offline dating strategy (& intention!)
Stop wasting your time on dating apps
Stop filtering potential with excessive requirements
The importance of Dating Standards & Communication
Moving forward with commitment & celebration!
Louise also shares her own answers to these questions - including sharing her own Previous Partner Audit too. Welcome to what feels like a podcast with your fun, caring, loving but straight-talking friend.
Daily Devotion™ is now live on the App Store & Google Play — unlock your healthiest, happiest, highest self with somatic daily wellness rituals, free for 7 days → [REDEEM]
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🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍
https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys
https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/
https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_
https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/
💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline
💌 TRASH TALKS: Submit Your Awful Dating Stories
HEAL WITH LOUISE
✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion
✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop
✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up
✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices