Healing Honeys (formerly OPENHOUSE with Louise Rumball)

Louise Rumball
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Mar 11, 2024 • 47min

147 - The psychology of being attracted to the wrong people

Daily Devotion™ is now live on the App Store & Google Play — unlock your healthiest, happiest, highest self with somatic daily wellness rituals, free for 7 days → [⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠REDEEM⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠]  Sick of ‘everyone turning out the same’? Could your whole dating life be explained by schema chemistry, schema traps and schema jigsaws? Welcome to schema chemistry school - the reason that you might have been attracting the same partner on repeat over the duration of your lifetime (and why those relationships always turn out the same!) This week Louise is joined by clinical psychologist and trauma expert Dr. Laura Williams as they dive into:  Schema therapy  What schema chemistry is (and why Louise is obsessed with it)  The concepts of surrendering, avoiding and counter attacking against schemas we develop in childhood The abandonment schema (and why it’s so prevalent in adult dating)  The schemas of mistrust/abuse, self-sacrifice, and defectiveness/shame, and how they manifest in relationships. Perfectionism How schema chemistry can lead to unrealistic fantasy bonding Advice for breaking cycles; and more. The pair also discuss how schema chemistry can relate to your relationship with yourself, not just others.  ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ 💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline 💌 TRASH TALKS: Submit Your Awful Dating Stories HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Mar 5, 2024 • 45min

146 - Ready for love: how to attract your soulmate

Daily Devotion™ is now live on the App Store & Google Play — unlock your healthiest, happiest, highest self with somatic daily wellness rituals, free for 7 days → [⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠REDEEM⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠]  Get ready to call in a girlfriend/boyfriend! Heavily requested, finally delivered! Join Louise on this fun solo episode as she takes you on an 8 stage journey to finding your next partner, including: How she found her man How to move forward by looking back Understanding your Unconscious Attraction & Communication Cycles The power of a Previous Partner Audit & Previous Power Dynamics Reflect on your Parental Patterns Identifying Attachment Hunger  Understanding Falling In Love With Potential (so you don’t!) Get clear on your dating app / offline dating strategy (& intention!) Stop wasting your time on dating apps Stop filtering potential with excessive requirements The importance of Dating Standards & Communication  Moving forward with commitment & celebration! Louise also shares her own answers to these questions - including sharing her own Previous Partner Audit too. Welcome to what feels like a podcast with your fun, caring, loving but straight-talking friend. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ 💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline 💌 TRASH TALKS: Submit Your Awful Dating Stories HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Feb 28, 2024 • 1h 8min

145 - Relationship red flags + when to dump him

Daily Devotion™ is now live on the App Store & Google Play — unlock your healthiest, happiest, highest self with somatic daily wellness rituals, free for 7 days → [⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠REDEEM⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠]  Ready for a real talk about relationships? Today, we're getting down to the nitty-gritty as we explore the 9 not-so-obvious signs of toxic relationships. We get it, the word 'toxic' might bring up images of major drama, but in reality, it's not always that in-your-face. Think of this as a low-key guide to spotting the not-so-cool stuff that might be lurking beneath the surface of your relationships. No frills, no drama, just a straight-up chat between Louise & Dr. Tari Mack about the subtle signs that things might be a bit off-kilter. The pair talk you through:  The reality of gaslighting (so many people get this wrong) One party always being the decision maker The importance of having a voice in a relationship (and how easy it is to lose yours) Believing you can't leave because the partner is dependent on you Double standards in a relationship Isolation from friends and family by the partner in any format Unhealthy boundaries, including surveillance and lack of trust ANY sort of criticism, belittling or manipulation And a lot more.  ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ 💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline 💌 TRASH TALKS: Submit Your Awful Dating Stories HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Feb 21, 2024 • 54min

144 - Workaholism, burnout and adrenal fatigue + healing

Daily Devotion™ is now live on the App Store & Google Play — unlock your healthiest, happiest, highest self with somatic daily wellness rituals, free for 7 days → [⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠REDEEM⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠]  ⭐ All supplements linked below with 10% off (15% for new Healf Customers) ⭐ Girlbossed a little too hard? This is the life update + supplement haul you never knew you needed. This week, join me and Integrative Health Practitioner Sarah Murphy for what I’ve been going through recently and her top recommendations on everything you need to get you through intense periods of stress, burnout and LIFE. Join me & Sarah as we get into: What happens to your nervous system when you’re heading towards burnout The impact of stress on the body *AND* mind The role of electrolytes in stress management How mental health is mineral health The stress-relieving benefits of supplementing with Shilajit The importance of magnesium supplementation Herbal remedies, exploring products like Anima Mundi Apothecary designed to support nervous system function and induce relaxation Beef liver (yes, really) The role of amino acids in mental health and stress management The bio-psycho-social model of anxiety and stress management The benefits of breathwork, specifically the 4-8 breathing technique Shop the whole Healf Store with 10% off everything (15% for new Healf customers): LMNT Electrolytes (I take the LMNT Mango Chili & I’m OBSESSED!) Thorne Magnesium Bisglycinate Ape Nutrition Beef Liver Body Health - Perfect Amino CYMBIOTIKA Mineral Shilajit Resin Sensate - Vagus Nerve Device Wellbel Glamlab Hair, Skin and Nails Redeem your free 30 days of breathwork and meditation with OPEN: HERE ⭐ Want more bonus episodes, Home Truths, Voice Notes from Lu and access to our community area The House? Join OPENHOUSE PREMIUM for all of this + live monthly Zooms to take you deeper on your healing journey. Plus, enjoy all episodes ad-free! Join OPENHOUSE Premium here: https://openhouse.supercast.com/ ⭐ ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ 💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline 💌 TRASH TALKS: Submit Your Awful Dating Stories HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Feb 12, 2024 • 58min

143 - How to stop people pleasing (+ how to set boundaries)

Daily Devotion™ is now live on the App Store & Google Play — unlock your healthiest, happiest, highest self with somatic daily wellness rituals, free for 7 days → [⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠REDEEM⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠]  Are you constantly saying "yes" when you really mean "no"? Do you show up to plans when you’re exhausted and you’d rather go to bed? Ever find yourself agreeing to tasks you secretly dread? Or going on dates with people you don’t want to because you don’t want to ‘hurt their feelings’? Whether or not you identify yourself as a ‘people pleaser’. it's time to decode the art of saying "no" and reclaiming your energy so you can learn to love all of your layers and celebrate yourself and your truth this year In this week’s episode of the OPENHOUSE Podcast, sponsored by Sol de Janeiro, Louise & psychotherapist Stephanie Therapy dive into: What people-pleasing is  How it forms Why we’re scared to say no (or maybe why you hate conflict) The healing hack in asking yourself ‘what is the fear behind this feeling’? How this is often a coping mechanism to childhood Identifying whether you are people-pleasing for those who wouldn't do the same for you Where to start with breaking the cycle of people pleasing  The concept of ‘baby boundaries’ How to communicate your new boundaries to those around you - and so much more.  On a journey to help you love all of your Layers, this episode is recorded in partnership with Sol de Janeiro to support the launch of their new Delícia Drench Body Butter. Get your hands on this whipped, ultra-rich body butter that supports the skin's barrier and penetrates deep below the surface to lock in moisture and relieve extra dry skin. Shop the product here: ⭐ HERE ⭐ ----- ⭐ Want more bonus episodes, Home Truths, Voice Notes from Lu and access to our community area The House? Join OPENHOUSE PREMIUM for all of this + exclusive access to our 'Ask A Therapist' room with guaranteed therapist responses. Plus, enjoy all episodes ad-free! Join OPENHOUSE Premium here: https://openhouse.supercast.com/ ⭐ ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ 💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline 💌 TRASH TALKS: Submit Your Awful Dating Stories HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Feb 5, 2024 • 1h 9min

142 - Pressure to be pretty + body image insecurities

Daily Devotion™ is now live on the App Store & Google Play — unlock your healthiest, happiest, highest self with somatic daily wellness rituals, free for 7 days → [⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠REDEEM⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠]  Ever felt like ‘If I just looked prettier, life would be easier?’ Or maybe everyone else has better hair, better teeth, and a better body? And why can’t I have that too? Today, Louise & psychotherapist Stephanie Therapy, in partnership with Sol de Janeiro, discuss the pressure we all feel to ‘glow up’ and how this pressure and desire are often rooted in something much deeper: the wound of not feeling ‘enough’. The pair discuss: The story behind Sol de Janeiro & the celebration of the Brazilian Culture Body image and the pressure to look a certain way (+ the pressure to conform) The filler revolution  The connection to childhood and the wound of ‘not enough’ and ‘validation’ The fine line between making personal changes that make you feel good versus changing for external validation The challenges of projecting the best version of oneself in the dating world What self-care really means The healing power of true connection in relationships, beyond superficial appearances An Inner Child Exercise and The power of rituals to start to connect with your body. On a journey to help you love all of your Layers, this episode is recorded in partnership with Sol de Janeiro to support the launch of their new Delícia Drench Body Butter. Get your hands on this whipped, ultra-rich body butter that supports the skin's barrier and penetrates deep below the surface to lock in moisture and relieve extra dry skin. Shop the Delícia Drench Body Butter & Cheirsoa 59 new products here: ⭐ HERE ⭐ ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ 💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline 💌 TRASH TALKS: Submit Your Awful Dating Stories HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Jan 24, 2024 • 55min

141 - Breaking cycles and intergenerational trauma ft. Dr Mariel Buqué

Daily Devotion™ is now live on the App Store & Google Play — unlock your healthiest, happiest, highest self with somatic daily wellness rituals, free for 7 days → [⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠REDEEM⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠]  WTF does breaking cycles actually mean? Today, we tell you. Are you the chosen one who is breaking your family’s cycle by ‘doing the work’ Are you ready to shed intergenerational trauma, break your ‘destined patterning’ and step into a legacy of abundance and peace instead? Do you feel like the ‘black sheep’ in your family who is out there doing the work alone? Or maybe you’re clear on your cycles but you need more help on this journey because things can get hard and heavy. If yes, this episode is for you. This week, join Louise Rumball & Dr. Mariel Buqué, PhD, a Columbia University–trained trauma-informed psychologist and practitioner of holistic healing as today they discuss all things intergenerational trauma and CYCLE breaking.  The pair dive into:  What intergenerational trauma *actually* is How trauma can be transferred across generations through biology and psychology The power our environment has on our gene expression and how we are not *destined* to live with our genes The importance of ‘grounding’ and ‘identifying and excavating’ past wounds before being able to move forward The importance of finding the right practitioner to avoid re-traumatization The pair also discuss some of the most common generational cycles that Dr. Mariel sees in practice - ranging from patriarchal structures, family communication styles, socioeconomic backgrounds to ‘depression running in the family’, autoimmune disorders substance abuse and more as well as: The starting points for breaking generational cycles How you can cycle break without 1-1 therapy; and Dr. Mariel’s new book that can help you do exactly that.  ⭐ Want weekly bonus episodes, access to our community room ‘The House’ + access to our ‘Ask A Therapist’ room? Join OPENHOUSE Premium. Plus, enjoy all episodes ad-free! ⭐ ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ 💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline 💌 TRASH TALKS: Submit Your Awful Dating Stories HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Jan 17, 2024 • 60min

140 - Micromoments, evolution & building OPEN ft. Raed Khawaja

Louise Rumball and leading therapists are joined by Raed Khawaja, CEO of OPEN, to discuss the power of micro moments in personal transformation, the impact of playfulness and meaning in life, the importance of curiosity and authenticity, and how business and wellness can go hand in hand. They also touch on the recent collaboration with Anxious Attachment Bootcamp and Nervous System Regulation Reset. Join them for a free 30-day trial of OPEN.
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Jan 10, 2024 • 1h 14min

139 - Breaking Cycles ft. Dr Nicole LePera (The Holistic Psychologist)

Dr. Nicole LePera, a trailblazer in holistic psychology, joins Louise to discuss the importance of integrating the body and nervous system awareness for change. They explore the difference between the conscious and subconscious mind, the power of ego stories, and the universal belief of feeling unworthy. They also discuss trauma-based attractions, self-love struggles, and the biggest changes they've seen since doing this work.
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Jan 1, 2024 • 1h 2min

138 - Goodbye Resolutions, Hello Realizations (2024/2025)

Dive into the transformative lessons learned over the past year! Discover how our nervous systems influence relationships and why feeling good can sometimes mislead us. Explore the significance of addressing our inner child's needs and the importance of shadow work. Unpack the complexities of love bombing, red flags, and the inadequacy wound. Plus, gain insights on navigating anxious attachment styles. Ultimately, it's about embracing growth and fostering healthier connections for an incredible year ahead!

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