

Healing Honeys (formerly OPENHOUSE with Louise Rumball)
Louise Rumball
Healing Honeys is your modern guide to wellness and healing. This is *the* podcast for girls with big dreams who are trying to balance it all and heal along the way. Join Louise Rumball—serial entrepreneur, fiery Sagittarius, type-A overachiever, healing girlie, holistic wellness coach, and relationship expert (someone once called her the "Jesus of modern dating" so you know this is going to be fun).Louise’s healing journey has been anything but calm. Think: savage dating stories, harrowing breakups, 20 cigarettes a day, daddy issues, an anxious attachment style, and even an autoimmune disorder too. Fast forward to today, after spending thousands on healing and therapy, she’s here to guide you, love you, and laugh with you as she shares the tips, tricks, and rituals that saved her—and that ACTUALLY work.With new episodes every Wednesday, expect girl talk, psychology, nervous system insights, and conversations about love, sex, dating, wellness, fitness, a touch of business, and a sprinkle of spirituality too. So, get in, honey—we’re balancing healing, hustling, and life, and trust us, the best is yet to come!
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Mar 11, 2024 • 47min
147 - The psychology of being attracted to the wrong people
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Sick of ‘everyone turning out the same’? Could your whole dating life be explained by schema chemistry, schema traps and schema jigsaws? Welcome to schema chemistry school - the reason that you might have been attracting the same partner on repeat over the duration of your lifetime (and why those relationships always turn out the same!)
This week Louise is joined by clinical psychologist and trauma expert Dr. Laura Williams as they dive into:
Schema therapy
What schema chemistry is (and why Louise is obsessed with it)
The concepts of surrendering, avoiding and counter attacking against schemas we develop in childhood
The abandonment schema (and why it’s so prevalent in adult dating)
The schemas of mistrust/abuse, self-sacrifice, and defectiveness/shame, and how they manifest in relationships.
Perfectionism
How schema chemistry can lead to unrealistic fantasy bonding
Advice for breaking cycles; and more.
The pair also discuss how schema chemistry can relate to your relationship with yourself, not just others.
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HEAL WITH LOUISE
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Mar 5, 2024 • 45min
146 - Ready for love: how to attract your soulmate
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Get ready to call in a girlfriend/boyfriend! Heavily requested, finally delivered! Join Louise on this fun solo episode as she takes you on an 8 stage journey to finding your next partner, including:
How she found her man
How to move forward by looking back
Understanding your Unconscious Attraction & Communication Cycles
The power of a Previous Partner Audit & Previous Power Dynamics
Reflect on your Parental Patterns
Identifying Attachment Hunger
Understanding Falling In Love With Potential (so you don’t!)
Get clear on your dating app / offline dating strategy (& intention!)
Stop wasting your time on dating apps
Stop filtering potential with excessive requirements
The importance of Dating Standards & Communication
Moving forward with commitment & celebration!
Louise also shares her own answers to these questions - including sharing her own Previous Partner Audit too. Welcome to what feels like a podcast with your fun, caring, loving but straight-talking friend.
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💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline
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HEAL WITH LOUISE
✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion
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Feb 28, 2024 • 1h 8min
145 - Relationship red flags + when to dump him
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Ready for a real talk about relationships? Today, we're getting down to the nitty-gritty as we explore the 9 not-so-obvious signs of toxic relationships. We get it, the word 'toxic' might bring up images of major drama, but in reality, it's not always that in-your-face.
Think of this as a low-key guide to spotting the not-so-cool stuff that might be lurking beneath the surface of your relationships. No frills, no drama, just a straight-up chat between Louise & Dr. Tari Mack about the subtle signs that things might be a bit off-kilter.
The pair talk you through:
The reality of gaslighting (so many people get this wrong)
One party always being the decision maker
The importance of having a voice in a relationship (and how easy it is to lose yours)
Believing you can't leave because the partner is dependent on you
Double standards in a relationship
Isolation from friends and family by the partner in any format
Unhealthy boundaries, including surveillance and lack of trust
ANY sort of criticism, belittling or manipulation
And a lot more.
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💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline
💌 TRASH TALKS: Submit Your Awful Dating Stories
HEAL WITH LOUISE
✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion
✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop
✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up
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Feb 21, 2024 • 54min
144 - Workaholism, burnout and adrenal fatigue + healing
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Join me & Sarah as we get into:
What happens to your nervous system when you’re heading towards burnout
The impact of stress on the body *AND* mind
The role of electrolytes in stress management
How mental health is mineral health
The stress-relieving benefits of supplementing with Shilajit
The importance of magnesium supplementation
Herbal remedies, exploring products like Anima Mundi Apothecary designed to support nervous system function and induce relaxation
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The role of amino acids in mental health and stress management
The bio-psycho-social model of anxiety and stress management
The benefits of breathwork, specifically the 4-8 breathing technique
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🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍
https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys
https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/
https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_
https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/
💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline
💌 TRASH TALKS: Submit Your Awful Dating Stories
HEAL WITH LOUISE
✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion
✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop
✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up
✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feb 12, 2024 • 58min
143 - How to stop people pleasing (+ how to set boundaries)
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Are you constantly saying "yes" when you really mean "no"? Do you show up to plans when you’re exhausted and you’d rather go to bed? Ever find yourself agreeing to tasks you secretly dread? Or going on dates with people you don’t want to because you don’t want to ‘hurt their feelings’? Whether or not you identify yourself as a ‘people pleaser’. it's time to decode the art of saying "no" and reclaiming your energy so you can learn to love all of your layers and celebrate yourself and your truth this year
In this week’s episode of the OPENHOUSE Podcast, sponsored by Sol de Janeiro, Louise & psychotherapist Stephanie Therapy dive into:
What people-pleasing is
How it forms
Why we’re scared to say no (or maybe why you hate conflict)
The healing hack in asking yourself ‘what is the fear behind this feeling’?
How this is often a coping mechanism to childhood
Identifying whether you are people-pleasing for those who wouldn't do the same for you
Where to start with breaking the cycle of people pleasing
The concept of ‘baby boundaries’
How to communicate your new boundaries to those around you - and so much more.
On a journey to help you love all of your Layers, this episode is recorded in partnership with Sol de Janeiro to support the launch of their new Delícia Drench Body Butter.
Get your hands on this whipped, ultra-rich body butter that supports the skin's barrier and penetrates deep below the surface to lock in moisture and relieve extra dry skin.
Shop the product here: ⭐ HERE ⭐
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💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline
💌 TRASH TALKS: Submit Your Awful Dating Stories
HEAL WITH LOUISE
✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion
✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop
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Feb 5, 2024 • 1h 9min
142 - Pressure to be pretty + body image insecurities
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Ever felt like ‘If I just looked prettier, life would be easier?’ Or maybe everyone else has better hair, better teeth, and a better body? And why can’t I have that too? Today, Louise & psychotherapist Stephanie Therapy, in partnership with Sol de Janeiro, discuss the pressure we all feel to ‘glow up’ and how this pressure and desire are often rooted in something much deeper: the wound of not feeling ‘enough’.
The pair discuss:
The story behind Sol de Janeiro & the celebration of the Brazilian Culture
Body image and the pressure to look a certain way (+ the pressure to conform)
The filler revolution
The connection to childhood and the wound of ‘not enough’ and ‘validation’
The fine line between making personal changes that make you feel good versus changing for external validation
The challenges of projecting the best version of oneself in the dating world
What self-care really means
The healing power of true connection in relationships, beyond superficial appearances
An Inner Child Exercise and
The power of rituals to start to connect with your body.
On a journey to help you love all of your Layers, this episode is recorded in partnership with Sol de Janeiro to support the launch of their new Delícia Drench Body Butter.
Get your hands on this whipped, ultra-rich body butter that supports the skin's barrier and penetrates deep below the surface to lock in moisture and relieve extra dry skin.
Shop the Delícia Drench Body Butter & Cheirsoa 59 new products here: ⭐ HERE ⭐
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🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍
https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys
https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/
https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_
https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/
💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline
💌 TRASH TALKS: Submit Your Awful Dating Stories
HEAL WITH LOUISE
✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion
✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop
✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up
✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 24, 2024 • 55min
141 - Breaking cycles and intergenerational trauma ft. Dr Mariel Buqué
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WTF does breaking cycles actually mean? Today, we tell you. Are you the chosen one who is breaking your family’s cycle by ‘doing the work’ Are you ready to shed intergenerational trauma, break your ‘destined patterning’ and step into a legacy of abundance and peace instead? Do you feel like the ‘black sheep’ in your family who is out there doing the work alone? Or maybe you’re clear on your cycles but you need more help on this journey because things can get hard and heavy.
If yes, this episode is for you. This week, join Louise Rumball & Dr. Mariel Buqué, PhD, a Columbia University–trained trauma-informed psychologist and practitioner of holistic healing as today they discuss all things intergenerational trauma and CYCLE breaking.
The pair dive into:
What intergenerational trauma *actually* is
How trauma can be transferred across generations through biology and psychology
The power our environment has on our gene expression and how we are not *destined* to live with our genes
The importance of ‘grounding’ and ‘identifying and excavating’ past wounds before being able to move forward
The importance of finding the right practitioner to avoid re-traumatization
The pair also discuss some of the most common generational cycles that Dr. Mariel sees in practice - ranging from patriarchal structures, family communication styles, socioeconomic backgrounds to ‘depression running in the family’, autoimmune disorders substance abuse and more as well as:
The starting points for breaking generational cycles
How you can cycle break without 1-1 therapy; and
Dr. Mariel’s new book that can help you do exactly that.
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🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍
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https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/
https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_
https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/
💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline
💌 TRASH TALKS: Submit Your Awful Dating Stories
HEAL WITH LOUISE
✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion
✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop
✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up
✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 17, 2024 • 60min
140 - Micromoments, evolution & building OPEN ft. Raed Khawaja
Louise Rumball and leading therapists are joined by Raed Khawaja, CEO of OPEN, to discuss the power of micro moments in personal transformation, the impact of playfulness and meaning in life, the importance of curiosity and authenticity, and how business and wellness can go hand in hand. They also touch on the recent collaboration with Anxious Attachment Bootcamp and Nervous System Regulation Reset. Join them for a free 30-day trial of OPEN.

Jan 10, 2024 • 1h 14min
139 - Breaking Cycles ft. Dr Nicole LePera (The Holistic Psychologist)
Dr. Nicole LePera, a trailblazer in holistic psychology, joins Louise to discuss the importance of integrating the body and nervous system awareness for change. They explore the difference between the conscious and subconscious mind, the power of ego stories, and the universal belief of feeling unworthy. They also discuss trauma-based attractions, self-love struggles, and the biggest changes they've seen since doing this work.

Jan 1, 2024 • 1h 2min
138 - Goodbye Resolutions, Hello Realizations (2024/2025)
Dive into the transformative lessons learned over the past year! Discover how our nervous systems influence relationships and why feeling good can sometimes mislead us. Explore the significance of addressing our inner child's needs and the importance of shadow work. Unpack the complexities of love bombing, red flags, and the inadequacy wound. Plus, gain insights on navigating anxious attachment styles. Ultimately, it's about embracing growth and fostering healthier connections for an incredible year ahead!