

Small Things Often
The Gottman Institute
Give your relationships a boost in 5 minutes or less with Small Things Often from The Gottman Institute. We provide simple, proven, quick tips to help you deepen and enhance your relationships!
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Apr 22, 2020 • 3min
Self-Soothing
Explore the vital role of self-soothing in maintaining healthy relationships. Discover practical techniques like deep breathing and visualization to manage emotions during intense conversations. Learn how these skills can help you regain composure and communicate with loved ones more effectively. Embrace the power of taking a break to enhance your relational interactions!

Apr 20, 2020 • 3min
Two Sides of Stonewalling
This discussion dives into the complex topic of stonewalling in relationships. It highlights how emotional withdrawal during conflicts can create barriers between partners. Practical strategies are shared, including the use of a 'timeout signal' to navigate overwhelming feelings. The goal is to encourage healthier conversations and reconnect with each other, transforming conflicts into opportunities for growth.

Apr 15, 2020 • 3min
Difficult emotions
Tackle challenging emotions like anger and sadness through mindfulness techniques. Discover a six-step method to recognize, accept, and respond to your feelings. Enhance your emotional intelligence and improve interactions with those around you. Find calm and peace even in turbulent times!

Apr 13, 2020 • 3min
Magic Ratio
Discover the transformative power of the 5 to 1 interaction ratio in relationships. This insightful discussion delves into the importance of having five positive interactions for every negative one, especially during conflicts. Real-life examples illustrate how fostering positive communication can significantly strengthen your bond with your partner. Tune in to learn how this magic ratio can enhance your relationship dynamics!

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Apr 8, 2020 • 2min
Celebrate your partner
Discover the power of celebrating your partner's achievements! This discussion emphasizes how recognizing even small successes can strengthen your emotional bond. Learn why these joyful moments are crucial for fostering closeness and unity in relationships. Don't let achievements go unnoticed—make celebrating each other's victories a regular part of your love life!

Apr 6, 2020 • 3min
Complaints vs Critcism
Does your partner sometimes do things that annoy or upset you? Do you tell them? On this episode of Small Things Often, find out the difference between complaining and criticizing and how each could impact your relationship in a big way. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Apr 1, 2020 • 4min
Intentional Choices to Connect with Your Family
Feeling overwhelmed by the current state of the world? Discover strategies for intentional family connections during stressful times. Learn how communication, creativity, and self-care can help you nurture deeper relationships. Embrace the 'new normal' and make the most of your time together, even when stuck indoors.

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Mar 30, 2020 • 3min
Redefining Rituals
Explore the impact of adjusting daily rituals on relationships during challenging times. Delve into the importance of open communication to articulate individual needs. Discover practical questions designed to foster dialogue and set boundaries. Learn how redefining routines can enhance well-being and coexistence with loved ones. Embrace meaningful connections by addressing the changing dynamics of your household.

Mar 25, 2020 • 3min
Staying Connected Through Times of Great Stress
Discover effective strategies to maintain emotional intimacy with your partner during stressful times. The discussion emphasizes the importance of intentionality in relationships. Listeners will find practical tips to foster connection and understanding, even amidst uncertainty. Learn how to navigate feelings of anxiety and support each other through challenges.

Mar 23, 2020 • 3min
Attunement
Dive into the art of attunement and discover how it can enhance emotional connections in relationships. Learn the ATTUNE acronym, which offers practical steps for fostering awareness, empathy, and trust. This discussion highlights the crucial role of being in sync with your partner, ultimately guiding you toward a more harmonious relationship.


