

Small Things Often
The Gottman Institute
Give your relationships a boost in 5 minutes or less with Small Things Often from The Gottman Institute. We provide simple, proven, quick tips to help you deepen and enhance your relationships!
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Mar 18, 2020 • 3min
Destress with your Partner
Discover key strategies for couples to de-stress after challenging days. Learn the importance of having daily 'stress-reducing conversations' to foster emotional support. Venting together can strengthen your connection and improve your relationship dynamics. Explore effective ways to communicate and support each other through tough times.

Mar 16, 2020 • 2min
Disconnect to connect
Unplugging can revitalize your romantic connection. Discover how putting down your devices fosters deeper emotional ties with your partner. Practical tips are shared for creating no-phone zones that encourage meaningful interactions. Strengthening relationships might just be a disconnect away!

Mar 11, 2020 • 2min
Listen to understand
Discover the transformative power of mindful listening in relationships. Learn why pausing to understand your partner's feelings can create stronger bonds. The importance of truly hearing each other, rather than waiting to respond, is highlighted. By embracing this approach, couples can foster deeper connections and improve their communication skills.

Mar 9, 2020 • 3min
Understanding must precede advice
Discover the importance of listening and showing empathy in relationships before offering advice. Prioritize understanding over providing quick solutions to your partner's problems.

Mar 4, 2020 • 3min
You don't have to solve your problems
Some relationship challenges are simply perpetual and may never be fully resolved. Embracing these issues can actually strengthen your partnership. Open communication is key to navigating these differences. Self-reflection can help you manage enduring problems constructively, showing that relationships can thrive even amidst unresolved conflicts.

Mar 2, 2020 • 3min
Trust is built in very small moments
Trust isn’t instant; it’s crafted through small, meaningful moments. Discover how everyday interactions contribute to building deeper relationships. Learn about 'sliding door moments' that test our priorities, urging us to choose connection over individual desires. These seemingly minor choices can significantly strengthen trust over time.

Feb 26, 2020 • 2min
Move from me to we
Explore the importance of 'we-ness' in relationships and how it fosters unity between partners. Discover strategies for prioritizing collective thinking to resolve conflicts effectively. Learn how shifting focus from individual perspectives to shared values can strengthen connections and enhance relational harmony.

Feb 24, 2020 • 2min
Self-care isn't selfish
Think self-care is selfish? Think again! Discover how investing time in yourself can actually strengthen your relationships. The discussion dives deep into the science behind self-care and its crucial role in maintaining healthy connections. Neglecting personal needs can lead to pitfalls, while prioritizing your well-being helps you thrive. Tune in for insightful tips from experts that will encourage you to make me-time a priority, benefiting both you and your loved ones!

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Feb 19, 2020 • 2min
Catch your partner doing something right
Small moments of appreciation can yield big changes in a relationship. Recognizing your partner's positive actions helps to build a stronger bond. Focusing on their strengths, rather than flaws, creates a more loving atmosphere. Acknowledging even the smallest gestures fosters connection and trust, making it easier to navigate challenges together.

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Feb 17, 2020 • 2min
What can you do in five minutes?
Discover how just five minutes can transform your relationship. Small acts of connection can lead to big changes. Learn practical tips to express affection and appreciation in a short time. These moments are crucial for fostering emotional closeness and intimacy. Find out how little things can make a huge difference!


