

Beautifully Complex
Penny Williams
Join parenting coach and mom-in-the-trenches, Penny Williams, as she helps parents, caregivers, and educators harness the realization that we are all beautifully complex and marvelously imperfect. Each week she delivers insights and actionable strategies on parenting and educating neurodivergent kids — those with ADHD, autism, anxiety, learning disabilities... Her approach to decoding behavior while honoring neurodiversity, and parenting the individual child you have will provide you with the tools to help you understand and transform behavior, reduce your own stress, increase parenting confidence, and create the joyful family life you crave. Penny has helped thousands of families worldwide to help their kids feel good so they can do good.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support.
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Jun 26, 2024 • 49min
271: ADHD and Dads: Creating the Fatherhood You Crave, Larry Hagner
Larry Hagner, founder of the Dad Edge podcast and father of four, shares his journey of parenting with ADHD in a heartfelt discussion. He offers tips on building connections through empathy and open-ended questions. Larry emphasizes the importance of advocating for personalized education in a rigid system while reflecting on his regrets about pressuring his son. The conversation highlights creating supportive communities where fathers can embrace authenticity and vulnerability—crucial aspects of navigating the complexities of parenting children with ADHD.

Jun 20, 2024 • 31min
270: 3 Steps to Empower Confidence in Your Teen, with Kristi Simons
Feeling like your teen or young adult is struggling to find their confidence and navigate the ups and downs of life? In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I sit down with teen life coach, Kristi Simons, to provide strategies to empower confidence in your teen. Kristi delves into the importance of allowing your teen to experience their own emotions and challenges, while also equipping them with self-reflection tools and affirmations. You'll learn why it's essential to create a safe space for your teen to express fears and anxieties, and how being open and authentic can foster stronger, more supportive relationships.Together, Kristi and I explore powerful strategies like the "anchor activity," which helps teens ground themselves and manage emotions through joyful activities. We also highlight the need for setting realistic expectations and modeling confidence and authenticity. If you’re worried about your kid’s poor self-esteem, this episode will resonate deeply. Kristi shares actionable insights and small steps that you can take to help your teen start building their confidence today. Tune in to discover how you can support your teen in becoming their most confident, authentic self.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support.

Jun 13, 2024 • 33min
269: Reclaiming Community: Climate, Parenting, and Social Connections, with Bill Weir
We’ve all but outright rejected the old adage, “It takes a village to raise a child,” in American culture. We’re more fragmented and lonely than ever. Yet, there’s clear evidence that community and connection are key to happiness. It certainly takes a community to raise a happy and resilient child, even if “community” looks different in modern life.In this episode, I'm joined by the amazing CNN journalist and storyteller, Bill Weir, who takes us deep into the emotional journey of being human. Bill shares his personal path toward acceptance and learning what comes next, while also discussing the crucial role of community and nature for happiness and resilience.We explore his global travels, the shared humanity he’s discovered, and the impact of climate change on future generations. Together, we dive into crucial parenting insights from Abraham Maslow, discuss the importance of balance between virtual and real worlds, and the necessity of giving ourselves and others grace.This episode will resonate with you if you (or your child) are struggling to find balance and connection in today’s fast-paced, fragmented world. It’s packed with heartfelt stories and valuable advice. Tune in to discover how accepting life’s challenges and asking “What’s next?” can lead to action-oriented solutions that foster a healthier, more connected world. Don’t miss it. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support.

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Jun 6, 2024 • 20min
268: What to Do When Importance Doesn’t Create Motivation, with Penny Williams
Penny Williams, ADHD expert, discusses motivating neurodivergent kids with actionable strategies like using external rewards, setting specific goals, and leveraging interests. Break tasks into smaller chunks to spark intrinsic motivation. Personalized learning boosts success. Celebrate small victories and share feedback to navigate the beautifully complex journey of raising neurodivergent kids.

May 30, 2024 • 23min
267: The Myth of Laziness, with Adam Price, Ph.D.
Today, I'm so excited to be talking with Dr. Adam Price, a nationally known clinical psychologist and best-selling author with over 30 years of experience working with kids and adults. He's the author of "He's Not Lazy: Empowering Your Son to Believe in Himself" and "The He's Not Lazy Guide to Better Grades and a Great Life."In this episode, we’re talking about the myth of laziness — that’s right, I said “myth.” We explore why adults often jump to labeling kids as lazy and Dr. Price shares valuable insights about motivation, empathy, the importance of understanding our kid’s unique challenges, and how to foster autonomy and competence in them. We also share how crucial it is to build a strong connection with your kids and find ways to help them feel seen, heard, and understood.If you're ready to reframe your perspective on laziness and learn practical strategies to better support your neurodivergent child, you won't want to miss this conversation. So, let's get started! Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support.

May 23, 2024 • 24min
266: A Summertime Plan that Can Work for Everyone, with Penny Williams
Expert Penny Williams shares strategies for neurodiverse families to make summer rewarding: create visual plans, explore interests, embrace challenges, and foster connections. Tips include using tools like Post-it calendars, trying new activities, and prioritizing bonding time. Summer is about growth and relationships, not just managing tasks.

May 16, 2024 • 36min
265: Strategies for Young Autistic Learners, with Tara Phillips, SLP
In this episode, I’m joined by Tara Phillips, speech language pathologist and founder of Autism Little Learners. She shares some transformative tools and techniques which have significantly benefited her students, such as the use of visual supports and predictable routines. Together, Tara and I explore the importance of positive connections and a strengths-based approach in early education, practical tips for implementing adapted board books, and strategies to reduce anxiety for both children and parents. Whether you’re a parent, educator, or therapist, this episode is packed with resources and actionable advice to support the development of young autistic learners. Tune in to transform your approach and enrich your toolkit.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support.

May 9, 2024 • 28min
264: Handling Behavior Struggles with Dignity, with Wendy Snyder
This time on Beautifully Complex, I'm exploring behavior struggles and conscious discipline with my guest, Wendy Snyder, a positive parenting educator and family life coach. We discuss how understanding behaviors as communication changes our perspective, helping us view challenges as signals of need and teaching opportunities. Join us as we dive into how creating a sense of belonging and safety at home allows our kids to thrive under our guidance. Wendy shares her expertise on managing our own triggers and approaching parenting with empathy and intention. Tune in for practical advice to help you be the parent your kids need.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support.

May 2, 2024 • 16min
263: Understood Explains IEPs from Understood.org
The terms IEP and 504 plan may come up a lot when you’re looking into special education for your child. These school supports do some of the same things, but one can provide more services and the other is easier to get. And it’s important to know the differences in order to get your child the support they need. On this episode of Beautifully Complex, you will hear an episode of Understood Explains, where host Juliana Urtubey breaks down the differences between IEPs and 504 plans, and which one might be right for your child.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support.

Apr 25, 2024 • 27min
262: Emotional Support Animals, with Dan Maigler, LCSW
In this episode, I'm chatting with my guest Daniel Maigler, about the transformative roles of emotional support animals. Dan's insights as a social worker and mental health advisor for Paws for Patrick reveal how emotional support animals can aid those facing mental health challenges. Dan shares the poignant story behind Paws for Patrick, emphasizing the support ESAs can offer, especially to young people. Throughout this episode, he differentiates between therapy dogs, service animals, and emotional support animals, clarifying common misconceptions. From legalities to the non-requirement of training for ESAs, we're tackling the myths and discussing the urgency for more emotional support options in schools. For any listener interested in the healing potential of animals and understanding the process for obtaining an ESA, this episode provides clarity and heartfelt testimony.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support.