

Beautifully Complex
Penny Williams
Join parenting coach and mom-in-the-trenches, Penny Williams, as she helps parents, caregivers, and educators harness the realization that we are all beautifully complex and marvelously imperfect. Each week she delivers insights and actionable strategies on parenting and educating neurodivergent kids — those with ADHD, autism, anxiety, learning disabilities... Her approach to decoding behavior while honoring neurodiversity, and parenting the individual child you have will provide you with the tools to help you understand and transform behavior, reduce your own stress, increase parenting confidence, and create the joyful family life you crave. Penny has helped thousands of families worldwide to help their kids feel good so they can do good.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support.
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Apr 18, 2024 • 16min
261: Extreme Language Around Emotions, with Penny Williams
Penny Williams, parenting expert, discusses the extreme language kids use to express emotions. She emphasizes the need for parents to guide children in understanding and communicating feelings accurately. Strategies include social emotional learning, emotional regulation, and being a calm anchor for kids.

Apr 17, 2024 • 30min
259: Insights on Bullying: Understanding Aggression, Building Resilience, with Brooks Gibbs, Ph.D.
Brooks Gibbs, Ph.D. is joining me for a conversation on Insights on Bullying: Understanding Aggression, Building Resilience. His expertise in social psychology shines a light on the intricate dance between aggression and resilience — especially in the lives of our neurodivergent kids. In this episode, you'll hear stories close to my heart, including my son's journey through the world of teasing and the delicate balance of parenting a child who sees the world literally. Dr. Gibbs offers thought-provoking perspectives on empathy, teaching us about rational compassion and how it can be a game-changer in our parenting toolkit. We'll also discuss the provocative idea of the therapeutic role of horror and drama films in building mental flexibility, and Dr. Gibbs will introduce questions that can profoundly shift our approach to challenges. Moreover, we'll address the emotional challenges faced by individuals with autism and alexithymia, emphasizing the need for strong advocacy and support. As we dissect the shortcomings of traditional anti-bullying campaigns, Dr. Gibbs proposes a fresh focus on mental health and resilience. And I'll share my evolution from overprotective parenting to encouraging my child's growth in frustration tolerance and independence.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support.

Apr 11, 2024 • 32min
260: Navigating Life Challenges with Purpose and Progress (not perfection), with Shari Leid
Shari Leid, Founder of An Imperfectly Perfect Life, discusses purposeful living and parenting, highlighting the value of embracing imperfections and celebrating gradual progress. The podcast delves into the significance of recognizing children's strengths, navigating societal expectations, and emphasizing resilience and authenticity in modern parenting.

Mar 28, 2024 • 16min
258: What to Do When Your Kid Isn’t Listening, with Penny Williams
Penny Williams offers practical advice for parents on how to handle situations when their kids aren't listening. She discusses recognizing distractions, accommodating slow processing speeds, engaging physically, providing written instructions, and being mindful of individual needs to foster better communication and cooperation.

Mar 21, 2024 • 26min
257: The Control Trap, with Penny Williams
Explore the damaging impact of control on kids and the importance of a humanistic approach to behavior with Penny Williams. Discover 8 key elements for feeling good without control, empower neurodivergent kids, and nurture their individuality. Learn about the complexities of parenting, education, and meeting the needs of troubled teens.

Mar 13, 2024 • 28min
256: Breaking Down Motivation: Helping Teens and Young Adults Find Their Path to Success, with Melanie McNally, Psy.D.
In this episode of the Beautifully Complex podcast, I sit down with Dr. Melanie McNally, a clinical psychologist and brain coach who specializes in working with tweens, teens, and young adults. Together, we explore the struggles that many young adults face in finding motivation and direction. Dr. Melanie shares her expertise on helping young adults build their interpersonal skills and increase their motivation. She breaks down the components of motivation into three skill sets: drive, grit, and goals, offering valuable insights for parents navigating the complexities of raising motivated teens. We also delve into the challenges of this generation's unique landscape, touch on the impact of social media, and discuss the changing dynamics of adolescence and parenting. I found Dr. McNally's approach to be insightful and empowering, offering practical strategies for parents and young adults alike. If you're a parent navigating the complexities of raising neurodivergent teens and young adults, Dr. Melanie’s wisdom is sure to provide valuable guidance and support.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support.

Mar 7, 2024 • 20min
255: 7 Steps to Help Kids & Teens with Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria, with Penny Williams
Penny Williams, an expert in rejection sensitive dysphoria, discusses 7 key steps to help kids and teens facing this challenge. Topics include recognizing signs, fostering communication, building self-esteem, challenging negative thoughts, teaching coping strategies, practicing self-compassion, and seeking professional support. Parents play a crucial role in helping neurodivergent kids thrive and grow into confident, resilient adults.

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Feb 29, 2024 • 35min
254: How to Be a Neuro-Affirming Parent or Teacher, with Emily Kircher-Morris, M.A., M.ED., LPC
Explore neuro-affirming parenting and teaching with Emily Kircher-Morris. Learn about embracing authenticity, recognizing strengths, and creating safe environments for neurodivergent kids. Discuss the challenges of masking behaviors, diverse communication styles, and the importance of self-advocacy. Discover the 'double empathy problem' and the celebration of individuality within the neurodiverse community.

Feb 21, 2024 • 28min
253: Beyond the Power Struggles, with Richard Selznick, Ph.D.
Today, I get to talk to the incredible Dr. Richard Selznick—a renowned psychologist specializing in dyslexia and learning disabilities. We dive into the traps parents often fall into when communicating with their children, especially those with neurodivergent needs. Dr. Selznick emphasizes the importance of giving our kids choices. It's eye-opening to hear about the challenges of motivating children with learning struggles and how we tend to blame ourselves as parents. Dr. Selznick's insight shifts the focus to understanding and supporting our kids in the best possible way.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support.

Feb 15, 2024 • 30min
252: Transforming Behavior: When You Know Better You Do Better, with Penny Williams
In this episode of Beautifully Complex, I’m sharing a deeply personal story about a challenging experience with my son and the valuable insights it brought us regarding challenging behavior and supporting our neurodivergent kids. Through sharing this experience, I emphasize the need for flexibility and understanding in dealing with challenging behaviors, as well as the role of an individual’s nervous system and behavior. I’m also sharing info about the upcoming Transforming Behavior workshop series, which will provide free workshops for parents and caregivers.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/beautifully-complex--6137613/support.