Sexual trauma happens to men too, and it's important to talk about it. In this episode we're joined by licensed therapist Papillon DeBoer, who specializes in helping men work with and heal sexual trauma.You'll learn how trauma affects men, how women are a common cause of trauma in men, what trauma actually is, how generational trauma works, plus techniques and resources to help heal trauma too. We even talk about circumcision trauma. You can find the topics & times below:🔸 You can also watch this episode on Youtube.EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS:04:25 - Trauma Defined06:53 - Trauma happens on a spectrum.09:10 - My Personal Trauma Stories16:56 - Does Trauma Ever Go Away?23:58 - How Trauma Affects Men...30:29 - Healing Trauma While in Relationship35:01 - Working With Trauma in Sexual Contexts41:25 - Healing Trauma By Ourselves47:04 - Why Trauma Exists...48:44 - Suffering is Inevitable51:07 - What is Generational Trauma?52:53 - Circumcision Trauma57:52 - Resources for Healing Sexual trauma-----------CONNECT WITH PAPILLON:🔸 Papillon's Website🔸 Papillon's Survivor Stories Podcast 🔱 GET MY FREE SEXUAL MASTERY GUIDES:🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide🔱 WORK WITH ME:🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course🔸 Semen Retention Mastery🔱 CONNECT WITH ME:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnsonWebsite: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/Support the show

This episode is about the SECOND time I went to a sex party. I actually participated here, and it changed my life in a big way. We all took a micro dose of MDMA, and what happened might surprise you...🔸 Watch this episode on Youtube here.🔸 Watch the FIRST Sex Party episode here.🎙️ View All Podcast Episodes Here👇 (Free guides & resources below)THOUGHTS ON MDMA:Just to be clear - I'm not saying that everyone should go out and take MDMA to have a therapeutic experience. There are lots of risks to consider. One of the biggest dangers of MDMA is the fact that the vast majority of "MDMA" being sold is cut or laced with another substance. This can be dangerous, and in many cases deadly when laced with fentanyl. IF you are going to try MDMA in a recreational way, please please please at least get a fentanyl test kit and test whatever you get before you take it. Also remember that I'm not a doctor or health care provider of any kind. This episode is just about me sharing my own personal experience.Also, MDMA is being used in therapeutic contexts around the country, and there is lots of academic research happening around it right now too. The potential of this substance - when used with intention - is massive.Personally, I don't like to take any substance to the point where I feel unable to function. I am open to OCCASIONALLY exploring micro amounts of substances in very specific experiences, but drugs & alcohol taken in the stereotypical party context are not interesting to me.🔱 GET MY FREE SEXUAL MASTERY GUIDES:🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge 🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide 🔱 WORK WITH ME:🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course🔸 Semen Retention Mastery🔱 CONNECT WITH ME:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnsonWebsite: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/Support the show

This episode is about the first time I went to a sex party. It happened over 10 years ago in Asheville, NC, USA, and it blew my mind - in ways I wasn't prepared for.🔺 Watch the episode on Youtube here.People often ask me to share personal stories from the past, and this is one I've thought about sharing for a while. It's more of an edutainment episode, because there's not a big lesson or takeaway from this episode other than pure fascination and entertainment... which is definitely a worthy reason to listen to a podcast. And... I was actually paid to go! And that makes for a good story. :) 🎙️ VIEW ALL PODCAST EPISODES:https://www.taylorjohnson.life/podcast/📝 GET MY FREE GUIDES 📝🔺 FREE Ejaculation Control Guide 🔺 FREE 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge🔱 SEXUAL MASTERY TRAININGS & COURSES 🔱🔺 Orgasmic Mastery Course🔺 Semen Retention Mastery Course🔺 New Anal CourseCONNECT WITH ME:Instagram My WebsiteSupport the show

This episode is a MUST LISTEN for anyone who wants to have a thriving long-term relationship. Why? Because creating this kind of relationship takes a certain set of skills that 99.7% of people didn't learn growing up. I certainly didn't...I've studied with Steve Torma for years, and practicing what I've learned from him has fundamentally changed EVERYTHING about my romantic and sexual relationships  (and even my business, friendship and family relationships too).Almost all of my close friends have studied with him, and some of my family has too. These tools are invaluable, and I'm excited for you to learn them.IN THIS EPISODE:The 3 important levels of intimacyHow to translate judgements into empathyHow to overcome the negativity biasHow to understand you and your partners needs on a deeper levelHow to compassionately create boundariesPractical tools to create deeper relationshipsAn intro to Nonviolent Communication (NVC)Critiques of Nonviolent CommunicationAnd some of the most valuable communication advice out there🔱 LEARN WITH STEVE:REALationship 101 (Steve's Intro Class)Steve's Full Schedule of Classes (Online & In-Person)*Steve has an older website, but the practices are up to date and invaluable. 🔱 LEARN WITH TAYLOR:Orgasmic Mastery CourseFREE 7-Day Semen Retention ChallengeFREE Ejaculation Control GuideTaylor’s InstagramTaylor’s Youtube ChannelTaylor’s WebsiteSupport the show

I didn't expect this episode to go the direction it did, but it ended up being perfect. Thank you Jeddy for getting real with me, and for having the awareness and intuition to pivot the conversation when something juicy came up.Jeddy is the host of the Rising Man Podcast, and he regularly leads in-person workshops for men too around rights of passage and vision quests in the desert. You can find links to his work below.And on the note of pivoting the conversation, if you're part of the organization I named in this episode, please know that I chose not to edit your name out because part of what your organization talks about is bringing light to shadow... and owning the more challenging aspects that require growth. I see you doing the work, and I'm happy about it.---------------🔱 CONNECT WITH JEDDY:The Rising Man PodcastIn-Person Self Mastery Program (Sept. 7th-10th, 2023)In-Person Vision Quest ProgramJeddy's Instagram🔱  CONNECT WITH TAYLOROrgasmic Mastery CourseTaylor’s InstagramTaylor’s Youtube ChannelTaylor’s WebsiteFREE 7-Day Semen Retention ChallengeFREE Ejaculation Control GuideSupport the show

Discover the transformative power of semen retention as a lifestyle choice. Learn how personal motivation and optimal ejaculation frequency can enhance your journey. Dive into body awareness techniques that promote emotional release and deepen personal connections. Hear a captivating personal transformation story from a recent workshop, featuring professionals exploring somatic practices. Uncover how your sexual choices shape your body and its energy, truly linking intimacy to overall well-being.

Today we're going to hear how semen retention helped Jeremy create a multi-million dollar business, and how this practice helps him get closer to the magic of life too.We explore:Semen retention as an integrative lifestyleThe magic and beauty of intentional ejaculationsCreating other forms of life besides human babiesHow sexual choices impact business successThe practice of building sexual energy, transmuting it and using it as fuel to power our creative projectsHow to tune into the magic of lifeWhy men need to unleash their "Wild Man"The Celtic Mysteries of Beltaine, Lughnasadh, Samhain & ImbolcAnd so much more...You'll find links to the upcoming events mentioned in this episode below... And or a quick overview of the Celtic Wheel of the Year, where these mysteries come from, check out this Wikipedia article. Within the next month I'll have a blog post up specifically about this. For now, the wiki is a good first step!🔱 JEREMY'S UPCOMING EVENTS:May 25th-29th - Wild Man Wilderness Immersion in Asheville, NC, USAAugust 18th-20th - 9th Annual Wild Man Gathering in Asheville, NC, USA🔱 CONNECT WITH JEREMY:Main WebsiteAbout Jeremy🔱 TAYLOR'S UPCOMING EVENTS:April 16th - May 6th - Semen Retention Mastery - a 21-day online course and mastermind group for men🔱  CONNECT WITH TAYLOROrgasmic Mastery CourseTaylor’s InstagramTaylor’s Youtube ChannelTaylor’s WebsiteFREE 7-Day Semen Retention ChallengeFREE Ejaculation Control GuideSupport the show

This episode is for ANYONE who wants a successful relationship (monogamous or polyamorous). I've personally hired Kenya as a coach back when I was experiencing growth pains in a non-monogamous relationship. She's an expert in helping with that, AND she also helps anyone in any relationship style too...Kenya has multiple husbands, and her husbands have multiple partners too. They live together, and they're all staring in a new TV show called "Seeking Brother Husband" that just premiered last night (March 26th, 2023) on TLC.In this interview you'll learn  the main things that create disconnection in long-term relationship, and the key things needed to keep passion, connection and love alive. IN THIS EPISODE:How to deal with fading desire in long term relationshipHow to "divorce-proof" any marriageHow most people put too many needs on one partnerConditional VS unconditional loveWhy polyamory can be a network of loveand much more...🔱 CONNECT WITH KENYA:Kenya's WebsiteKenya's Instagram🔱  CONNECT WITH TAYLOROrgasmic Mastery CourseTaylor’s InstagramTaylor’s Youtube ChannelTaylor’s WebsiteFREE 7-Day Semen Retention ChallengeFREE Ejaculation Control GuideSupport the show

If you've ever looked into Semen Retention, you've probably come across videos from both Johnathan and I. We both teach semen retention as a lifestyle, we both teach sexual mastery for men, and now we both even live in the same city! (Asheville, NC, USA).So when we decided to make this episode, we wanted to make something unique for you. Not just another "how-to" guide... But something fresh. Something personal.And I think you'll really enjoy it.We explore:Non-ejaculatory orgasmsProstate orgasmsThe power of being singleThe alpha male vs beta male thingHow the fear of vulnerability limits usHow competition between men can limit usPersonal stories from our own livesSexual energy transmutationKeeping sexual charge alive in long term relationshipAnd a quick note on our beliefs about aliens. 👽🎙️ THE BACKSTORY: A few months ago we met up for the first time, and ended up talking about sex & energy for hours. Everything from non-ejaculatory orgasms and qigong, to porn, viagra, prostate orgasms, aliens and everything in between.During that conversation in a hot tub, while drinking Gynostemma tea and overlooking the Asheville mountains, we decided we wanted to collaborate. Last week recorded a Youtube Live together, and today we have this podcast to share with you! If you enjoy it, please share it with a friend!Thank you!- Taylor🔱 CONNECT WITH JOHNATHAN:Johnathan's WebsiteJohnathan's InstagramJohnathan's Sexual Kung Fu Youtube Channel🔱  CONNECT WITH TAYLOROrgasmic Mastery CourseTaylor’s InstagramTaylor’s Youtube ChannelTaylor’s WebsiteFREE 7-Day Semen Retention ChallengeFREE Ejaculation Control GuideSupport the show

One of the most important and underrated aspects of sexual mastery is COMMUNICATION. This is something you should focus on IF you want a thriving sex life and relationship.So in today's episode we're going to explore some very practical and powerful communication skills you can start using TODAY, to create the intimate reality you want.We're joined by David Chambers, who's an intimacy, communication and relationship coach for men. Multiple people requested that I interview him for this podcast, and I'm very glad I did because the conversation was awesome. IN THIS EPISODE:How to deal with challenging emotionsHow to be a more SKILLFUL listener (and why this will transform your relationship)How to express authentic desireHow to transmute limiting self-beliefsHow to deal with subconscious fear of feeling emotionsWhy staying committed to your purpose in relationship is important (and how to do it)and much more...🔱  CONNECT WITH DAVID:David's WebsiteDavid's Podcast: The Authentic ManDavid's Instagram🔱  CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:Orgasmic Mastery CourseTaylor’s InstagramTaylor’s Youtube ChannelFREE 7-Day Semen Retention ChallengeFREE Ejaculation Control Guide---------MUSIC CREDIT:Song: "Pink Dolphins" (Numatic Remix)Written by: Tony Moss/Sunny Solwind/Shireen Jarrahian/David BrownRemixed by: NumaticSupport the show