
Sex Upgraded
Helping men and their lovers experience the best sex and relationship lives possible.You'll hear wild personal stories, interviews with guest experts, and practical how-to episodes as well.TLDR: In each episode you'll get practical tools & insights you can start using today to improve your sex life AND entire life.Why?Because I (Taylor) used to struggle massively with sex. I never had a good mentor, and my struggle negatively impacted my entire life. Now after a huge journey studying sex around the world, I'm thriving, and I want to help you thrive in your sex life too. Why? Because it feels amazing! AND because the world needs more men who can embody their sexual power with confidence and integrity.Thank you for being here!-Taylor• Web: www.taylorjohnson.life• Insta: www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnson• Youtube: www.youtube.com/@taylorclarkjohnson
Latest episodes

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Mar 27, 2023 • 56min
Polyamory + How to "Divorce-Proof" any Marriage - with Kenya Stevens
This episode is for ANYONE who wants a successful relationship (monogamous or polyamorous). I've personally hired Kenya as a coach back when I was experiencing growth pains in a non-monogamous relationship. She's an expert in helping with that, AND she also helps anyone in any relationship style too...Kenya has multiple husbands, and her husbands have multiple partners too. They live together, and they're all staring in a new TV show called "Seeking Brother Husband" that just premiered last night (March 26th, 2023) on TLC.In this interview you'll learn the main things that create disconnection in long-term relationship, and the key things needed to keep passion, connection and love alive. IN THIS EPISODE:How to deal with fading desire in long term relationshipHow to "divorce-proof" any marriageHow most people put too many needs on one partnerConditional VS unconditional loveWhy polyamory can be a network of loveand much more...🔱 CONNECT WITH KENYA:Kenya's WebsiteKenya's Instagram🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOROrgasmic Mastery CourseTaylor’s InstagramTaylor’s Youtube ChannelTaylor’s WebsiteFREE 7-Day Semen Retention ChallengeFREE Ejaculation Control GuideSupport the show

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Mar 20, 2023 • 1h 4min
Sexual Kung Fu, Prostate Orgasms & "Alpha" Males - with Johnathan White
If you've ever looked into Semen Retention, you've probably come across videos from both Johnathan and I. We both teach semen retention as a lifestyle, we both teach sexual mastery for men, and now we both even live in the same city! (Asheville, NC, USA).So when we decided to make this episode, we wanted to make something unique for you. Not just another "how-to" guide... But something fresh. Something personal.And I think you'll really enjoy it.We explore:Non-ejaculatory orgasmsProstate orgasmsThe power of being singleThe alpha male vs beta male thingHow the fear of vulnerability limits usHow competition between men can limit usPersonal stories from our own livesSexual energy transmutationKeeping sexual charge alive in long term relationshipAnd a quick note on our beliefs about aliens. 👽🎙️ THE BACKSTORY: A few months ago we met up for the first time, and ended up talking about sex & energy for hours. Everything from non-ejaculatory orgasms and qigong, to porn, viagra, prostate orgasms, aliens and everything in between.During that conversation in a hot tub, while drinking Gynostemma tea and overlooking the Asheville mountains, we decided we wanted to collaborate. Last week recorded a Youtube Live together, and today we have this podcast to share with you! If you enjoy it, please share it with a friend!Thank you!- Taylor🔱 CONNECT WITH JOHNATHAN:Johnathan's WebsiteJohnathan's InstagramJohnathan's Sexual Kung Fu Youtube Channel🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOROrgasmic Mastery CourseTaylor’s InstagramTaylor’s Youtube ChannelTaylor’s WebsiteFREE 7-Day Semen Retention ChallengeFREE Ejaculation Control GuideSupport the show

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Mar 13, 2023 • 59min
Relationship Communication Mastery - with David Chambers
One of the most important and underrated aspects of sexual mastery is COMMUNICATION. This is something you should focus on IF you want a thriving sex life and relationship.So in today's episode we're going to explore some very practical and powerful communication skills you can start using TODAY, to create the intimate reality you want.We're joined by David Chambers, who's an intimacy, communication and relationship coach for men. Multiple people requested that I interview him for this podcast, and I'm very glad I did because the conversation was awesome. IN THIS EPISODE:How to deal with challenging emotionsHow to be a more SKILLFUL listener (and why this will transform your relationship)How to express authentic desireHow to transmute limiting self-beliefsHow to deal with subconscious fear of feeling emotionsWhy staying committed to your purpose in relationship is important (and how to do it)and much more...🔱 CONNECT WITH DAVID:David's WebsiteDavid's Podcast: The Authentic ManDavid's Instagram🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:Orgasmic Mastery CourseTaylor’s InstagramTaylor’s Youtube ChannelFREE 7-Day Semen Retention ChallengeFREE Ejaculation Control Guide---------MUSIC CREDIT:Song: "Pink Dolphins" (Numatic Remix)Written by: Tony Moss/Sunny Solwind/Shireen Jarrahian/David BrownRemixed by: NumaticSupport the show

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Mar 6, 2023 • 1h 3min
Sex & Desire in Long Term Relationships - with Laurie Handlers
Do you believe it's possible to keep sexual charge alive in long term relationships? Do you believe that sex gets better with age? Turns out both things are possible, and in this episode with Laurie Handlers, you'll learn some great ways to do this.Laurie is an international sex educator, retreat leader, and overall badass woman who helps couples create and sustain thriving romantic & sexual relationships over the long term. She's in her 70s, and she says her sex life keeps getting better with age... which blows my mind (and I think it should blow yours too). In this episode you'll learn some transformational concepts you can applying to your relationship(s) starting today, so you can thrive in the long term too.🔱 CONNECT WITH LAURIE:Laurie's WebsiteLaurie's Instagram🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:Orgasmic Mastery CourseTaylor’s InstagramTaylor’s Youtube ChannelFREE 7-Day Semen Retention ChallengeFREE Ejaculation Control GuideSupport the show

Feb 27, 2023 • 11min
UPDATE: This Podcast Has a New Name!
ANNOUNCEMENT: The name of this podcast will change next week. It started off as "Eros Rising," and I do like that name because it's representative of my intentions for this podcast... But the problem is most people have no idea what "Eros Rising" actually means. From a marketing perspective, that's no good.The new name will be simple and clear, so whenever anyone sees it in the podcast directory, they'll know exactly what the podcast is about. For the name change I decided to upgrade my wardrobe too, and create a new podcast cover with me in a suit jacket & collared shirt.Why?Because appearances do matter on some level. I found a fascinating article about what makes a good portrait, and decided to try making the "perfect" portrait (according to their metrics). It also feels like it's time for me to refine things a bit. This year I'm enrolling in two major professional trainings & certification programs, and I want to start embodying layers of that professionalism in a deeper way (while still remaining down to earth and casual). Experimenting with my wardrobe is a fun way to do it.STARTING NEXT WEEK:You can expect regular episodes from again. I hired a production team to take care of all the pieces that held me back from creating regular episodes in the past, and I'm very excited to share the next season with you. SIX interviews have already been recorded, and a bunch more episodes are planned.Please let me know if you have any topic requests for the future!-Taylor-----------------🔱 Free Resources:FREE 7-Day Semen Retention ChallengeFREE Ejaculation Control GuideThe Complete Semen Retention GuideThe Best Anal Sex Toys for Men🔱 Online Trainings:The Orgasmic Mastery Course (Next round begins July 2023)The NEW Anal Sex CourseSemen Retention Mastery (Next round begins April 2023)Semen Retention FoundationsEcstatic Lovers Course (Intimacy Course for Couples)🔱 Connect with Taylor:Taylor’s InstagramTaylor’s Youtube ChannelTaylor’s WebsiteSupport the show

Dec 29, 2022 • 46min
Financial Abundance from Semen Retention 💰 (Personal Story)
Today we're going to talk about sex and money! Specifically, how semen retention helped me make more money in my previous business (before I started teaching about sex and retention).In this episode you'll hear how I went from:struggling to start a businessfinancial scarcityporn addictionpremature ejaculationerectile dysfunctionand sexual anxiety...To creating success in my business, and experiencing financial abundance for the first time in my life. Sexual energy transmutation and semen retention were the foundational practices I used to make this happen. That included Qigong, Yoga, breathwork, meditation, journaling and other practical exercises too.And the most important thing?These practices can work for you too!If you want to experience the benefits for yourself, take my FREE 7-DAY SEMEN RETENTION CHALLENGE. Thousands of men have done this and experienced great results.------------------Online Trainings:The Orgasmic Mastery Course (Next round begins January 12th!)The NEW Anal Sex CourseSemen Retention MasterySemen Retention FoundationsEcstatic Lovers CourseFree Resources:FREE 7-Day Semen Retention ChallengeFREE Ejaculation Control GuideThe Complete Semen Retention GuideThe Best Anal Sex Toys for MenConnect with Taylor:Taylor’s InstagramTaylor’s Youtube ChannelTaylor’s WebsiteConnect with Jon:Conscious Coaching in Asheville, NC-------------------Episode Music:“Pink Dolphins” (Numatic Remix)Written by: Tony Moss/Sunny Solwind/Shireen Jarrahian/David BrownRemixed by: NumaticSupport the show

Dec 19, 2022 • 59min
Natural Birth Control & Semen Retention for Successful Pregnancy Prevention - with Naema Pierce
My girlfriend and I have successfully prevented pregnancy using the Fertility Awareness Method and Semen Retention for almost three years now. We're both fertile (just confirmed with my own sperm analysis test), and I do occasionally ejaculate inside her. 🔱 IN THIS EPISODE YOU'LL LEARN:Why women are NOT fertile all the time (unlike men)How Naema and I practice natural birth control in our relationshipHow the Fertility Awareness Method can be 99.4% effective at preventing pregnancy (that's more effective than condoms)How to confirm ovulation & the fertile window via cycle trackingHow to get off hormonal birth controlA big danger of period tracking appsWhat Naema thinks about my Semen Retention PracticeAnd check out…🔱 NAEMA’S CHART EXAMPLES:In this episode we talked about including some cycle tracking chart examples. At this link you’ll see an actual chart Naema used to confirm her ovulation by tracking her basal body temperature. I’ve overlaid some graphics on top of the chart just to make things crystal clear. --------------------🔱 RESOURCES FROM NAEMA:FREE Guide to Getting Off Hormonal Birth ControlMonthly Pelvic Mapping Workshop (Hands On Self-Healing for Women)Natural Birth Control & Cycle Tracking Self-Study CoursePelvic Bodywork & Mayan Abdominal Massage in AshevilleConnect with Naema on Instagram🔱 RESOURCES FROM TAYLORFREE 7-Day Semen Retention ChallengeFREE Ejaculation Control GuideThe Orgasmic Mastery CourseSemen Retention 101 CourseConnect with Taylor on InstagramSupport the show

Oct 17, 2022 • 44min
Overcoming Premature Ejaculation - (Raw & Real Talk Part 2)
This is a followup conversation to episode 16, where Banks and I got real about his struggle with premature ejaculation - BEFORE he took my Orgasmic Mastery Course.Today you'll hear what his life is like now, after taking my course and after being in sex therapy too. If you're someone who wants to overcome premature ejaculation, this episode should give you some hope and inspiration.It may feel hopeless for you right now, but I promise you it isn't. I used to feel that way too, and so have many millions of other men.Check out my FREE Ejaculation Control Guide if you want to overcome premature ejaculation and feel free and powerful in bed. It IS possible for you. You just have to put in the effort. -Taylor--------------------------🔱 WORK WITH ME:Unlocking the Root: A self-study course to master the art of anal sexOrgasmic Mastery Course: A 10-week self-study training to master your sexual energy and learn to have non-ejaculatory orgasmsSemen Retention Foundations: A 7-day journey to build your sexual energy energy and use it to supercharge your entire life.--------------------------🔱 FREE GUIDES:Ejaculation Control Training (Free)7-Day Semen Retention Challenge (Free)--------------------------🔱 CONNECT WITH ME:Sexual Mastery Youtube ChannelInstagram: @taylorclarkjohnsonMain Website: www.taylorjohnson.life--------------------------🔱 Resources:Will Anal Turn Straight Men Gay? (Video)The Best Anal Toys for Men (Article)Interview with a Male Porn Star (Podcast)--------------------------Gratitudes:Thank you Banks for having this conversation in public with me. I deeply appreciate your vulnerability. Link to the New Moon Brotherhood: https://newmoonbrotherhood.com/The music for this episode is: “Pink Dolphins” (Numatic Remix)Written by: Tony Moss/Sunny Solwind/Shireen Jarrahian/David BrownRemixed by: NumaticSupport the show

Oct 11, 2022 • 23min
I Went to an Anal Sex Party... (Personal Story)
About 5 years ago, I went to an anal sex party in Asheville. It was a wild experience that broke my brain, left me speechless and opened my eyes to things that I had never seen before.I think you'll like this story. :D After listening, check out my new anal sex course that'll give you everything you need to master the art of anal sex (both giving and receiving), including:anal anatomypain-free penetration techniquesanal energeticsprostate pleasureanal orgasmsrituals to open the rootand more...If you like this episode, please share it with a friend.Cheers to your success & pleasure!-Taylor--------------------------🔱 WORK WITH ME:Unlocking the Root: A self-study course to master the art of anal sexOrgasmic Mastery Course: A 10-week self-study training to master your sexual energy and learn to have non-ejaculatory orgasmsSemen Retention Foundations: A 7-day journey to build your sexual energy energy and use it to supercharge your entire life.--------------------------🔱 CONNECT WITH ME:Sexual Mastery Youtube ChannelInstagram: @taylorclarkjohnsonMain Website: www.taylorjohnson.life--------------------------🔱 Resources:Will Anal Turn Straight Men Gay? (Video)The Best Anal Toys for Men (Article)Interview with a Male Porn Star (Podcast)--------------------------Gratitudes:The music for this episode is: “Pink Dolphins” (Numatic Remix)Written by: Tony Moss/Sunny Solwind/Shireen Jarrahian/David BrownRemixed by: NumaticSupport the show

Oct 3, 2022 • 51min
Anal Sex Mistakes - (That Most Men Make)
Millions of women want to receive anal sex from a man, but most men make substantial mistakes with anal that result in pain, disconnection and a complete lack of pleasure. There's good news though. With the help of this episode, you can easily learn how to avoid these mistakes so you can have amazing, orgasmic, pain-free and deeply pleasurable anal sex with your lover.Check out my new anal sex course called Unlocking the Root - IF you want to master the art of anal. It'll give you everything you need to have amazing anal with complete confidence (giving or receiving).*NOTE: The majority of content in this episode will apply to all bodies, but extra focus has been given to heterosexual anal sex where the woman is penetrated by the man. This is intentional, because there are some extra dynamics going on here that are important to talk about. ------------------------Questions answered in this episode:How does anal anatomy impact anal pleasure?Is anal sex in porn real?Is pain normal during anal sex ?Can women orgasm from anal?Can men orgasm from anal?Will anal pleasure turn straight men gay?How long does anal warmup take?What's the deal with anal and poop?What are the best anal sex positions?--------------------------🔱 ONLINE TRAININGS:Unlocking the Root: A self-study course to master the art of anal sexOrgasmic Mastery Course: A 10-week self-study training to master your sexual energy and learn to have non-ejaculatory orgasmsSemen Retention Foundations: A 7-day journey to build your sexual energy energy and use it to supercharge your entire life.--------------------------🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:Sexual Mastery Youtube ChannelInstagram: @taylorclarkjohnsonMain Website: www.taylorjohnson.life--------------------------🔱 Resources:Will Anal Turn Straight Men Gay? (Video)The Best Anal Toys for Men (Article)Interview with a Male Porn Star (Podcast)--------------------------Gratitudes:This episode was recorded in my home in Asheville, with my good friend Jon Handelman who is a full time life coach. The music for this episode is: “Pink Dolphins” (Numatic Remix)Written by: Tony Moss/Sunny Solwind/Shireen Jarrahian/David BrownRemixed by: NumaticSupport the show