How do pornstars last so long?  Just how fake is porn? What happens behind the scenes? Join male pornstar Erik Everhard and I in a fascinating discussion about all things porn vs reality.Erik Everhard is a male porn star turned men’s coach, who has over 20 years of professional experience in the porn industry. He estimates that he has had sex with over 5000 women, which is absolutely mind-blowing to me. He brings a super unique perspective to sex and life that we can all learn something from. How to last longer, how to overcome performance anxiety, and how to get an erection on command are just a few of the topics we go into.This is my favorite episode of the podcast so far. If you like it too, please share this with a friend! We all need to be having the porn vs reality discussion.EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS03:51 How long do you have to last for a porn shoot?06:09 What would Erik tell his younger self about sex?13:00 Does sexual chemistry matter between pornstars?23:50 Mental performance & sexual performance32:15 How to get an erection anytime you want44:23 Presence is everything in sex48:50 The reality of anal sex in porn1:02:02 What is the impact of porn? Is porn unhealthy?CONNECT WITH ERIKErik’s WebsiteErik’s Course: Crushing Performance AnxietyErik’s Instagram: (@erikeverhardofficial)RESOURCES FROM TAYLOROrgasmic Mastery CourseTaylor’s InstagramTaylor’s Youtube ChannelFREE 7-Day Semen Retention ChallengeFREE Ejaculation Control GuideSupport the show

If you’re curious about Conscious Kink & BDSM, and you want a simple set of tools to help you explore this with your partner, this episode is for you. Kimi Inch is a somatic therapist, professional Kink & BDSM expert, and professional dominatrix, who loves helping people explore and heal their sexuality. I first met Kimi at a Tantra festival last year where she taught a workshop on Conscious Kink. I went, and had my mind blown by some of the exercises we did. Thanks for that Kimi. :)If you’re someone who wants to explore kinky things with your partner, this episode is for you. You’ll learn some easy conversation tools & techniques to make it easy for you to explore these realms. (And remember, the main thing that makes something kinky is your own subjective feelings around the act itself). One person’s kink is another person’s vanilla. I hope you enjoy! And as always, if you like the episode, please share it with a friend.Episode Times & Topics:08:43 What is kink?10:39 Do kinks come from our childhood? Are they bad?22:42 Is the “good girl” kink an unhealthy expression?30:48 How to begin your own kink journey45:31 Surprise - Kimi guides Taylor through an exercise53:03 Dominance & Masculinity59:10 Shame & MasculinityConnect with Kimi InchKimi’s Instagram Kimi’s Website (for the Kink Checklist)Connect with Taylor:Orgasmic Mastery CourseTaylor’s InstagramTaylor’s Youtube ChannelFREE 7-Day Semen Retention ChallengeFREE Ejaculation Control GuideSupport the show

Mushrooms and plants can be our allies to help us thrive in a society that doesn’t support optimal health. The philosophy and magic of Daoist tonic herbalism is here to help - with herbs for better sex, and herbs for a better life in general. This conversation is more of a casual hang out and discussion of life and sex, and I want to give you that heads up in case you’re coming here in search of a clearly outlined educational lecture on the topic of herbs for better sex. It’s not that… even though we do hit that topic really well in the last quarter of the episode. :)Mason Taylor is the founder of Superfeast, an international company (with a branch in the USA) that helps bring high-quality tonic herbs to people around the world. I personally take the Jing mixture almost every morning as part of my morning ritual, and you’ll hear me talk about why in the episode. If you visit the Superfeast store, use the code EROSRISING for a discount on everything.Episode Times & Topics:08:33 Who is Mason Taylor?17:51 Using herbs to protect yourself from illness and other deficiencies 21:04 The epidemic of exhaustion in today’s society23:41 How does “Jing” energy express in daily life?29:50 What are ways men lose Jing?33:17 Can herbs cure erectile dysfunction? 39:58 Men And longevity with herbs and sex energy45:69 What is Daoist tonic herbalism? (How does it work?)51:40 Tonic herbs for better sex & life in general1:04:45 Learn to listen deeply to lifeMason Interviews Me on the Superfeast Podcast:Semen Retention, Premature Ejaculation & Self-LoveMen’s Sexual & Mental HealthEducational Resources from the Superfeast Website:7 Sexy Benefits of ShisandraThe Top Adaptogens for MenThe Benefits of AshwagandaAs always, if you like this episode please share it with a friend. Thank you! I hope you have a beautiful rest of your day.-TaylorConnect with Mason Taylor & SuperfeastSuperfeast’s Instagram Superfeast’s USA Website Mason Taylor’s InstagramConnect with Taylor:FREE 7-Day Semen Retention ChallengeFREE Ejaculation Control GuideOrgasmic Mastery CourseTaylor’s InstagramTaylor’s Youtube ChannelTaylor’s WebsiteSupport the show

If you want to understand male pelvic floor health, you’ll get a LOT out of this interview. It’s deeply informative and thought provoking, and I learned a lot during the interview too. Dr. Susie Gronski is a pelvic floor physical therapist who specializes in helping men overcome pelvic pain and other pelvic problems like erectile dysfunction, pelvic tightness, prostate inflammation, premature ejaculation and more. (Episode times & topics below).So if you’ve ever wondered if you can break your penis, or if you can do too many Kegels, this episode is for you.We even talked about how emotions get stuck in the pelvic floor, anal pleasure, anal healing and prostate inflammation from the practice of semen retention. Dr. Gronski recommends the use of anal toys for pleasure & healing too, and if you want to explore those I put together a guide of the best anal toys for men. Side note, if you're someone who wants to overcome premature ejaculation and last longer in bed, check out my article & podcast about what causes premature ejaculation. It'll give you a good understanding of why PE happens, and will give you some great techniques to fix it tooEPISODE TIMES & TOPICS:03:40 Why did Dr. Susie get into men’s pelvic health?07:16 Sexual health as integrative medicine11:47 Why men come to see Dr. Susie Gronski18:51 Can you break your penis?23:00 The myth of men “needing to be hard instantly”24:05 Understanding erectile dysfunction33:23 Emotional healing through anal (personal story)42:19 Where to find a pelvic floor physical therapist or sex therapist 49:05 Can you do too many kegels?50:54 Premature ejaculation from too many kegels?55:45 Semen retention and pelvic pain?1:07:40 Nitric oxide and erection strength?As always, if this episode has been helpful for you, please leave a review and share it with a friend. Thank you!-TaylorConnect with Dr. Susie GronskiSusie’s WebsiteSusie’s InstagramSusie’s Youtube ChannelConnect with Taylor:FREE 7-Day Semen Retention ChallengeFREE Ejaculation Control GuideOrgasmic Mastery CourseTaylor’s InstagramTaylor’s Youtube ChannelTaylor’s WebsiteSupport the show

This episode is a truly wild personal story that’s still hard to believe it actually happened. I chose sexual abundance over scarcity/anger, and it changed the entire outcome of my night. This story really is one of the wildest dating experiences I’ve had. One night in Asheville, I had to decide how I would respond to a stimulus that was potentially very challenging/triggering. Part of my system wanted to get angry, but I took a breath, paused, centered myself, and chose a different option.The saying “freedom comes in the moment between stimulus and response” refers to the fact that you can always be at choice with how you respond to external stimuli. Instead of reacting with autopilot behavior, you can give yourself freedom by taking a pause after a challenging thing happens. In that pause, you can CHOOSE how to react. Anger might not always be your best option. In this story, I chose something different…And my choice turned into one of the most surprisingly delightful evenings I’ve had while being a single guy in the dating world. It’s still one of my favorite stories to tell too. I hope it’s thoroughly entertaining for you. :)As always, if you like this episode, please share it with a friend!Thank you.-TaylorCONNECT WITH TAYLOR:FREE 7-Day Semen Retention ChallengeFREE Ejaculation Control GuideThe Orgasmic Mastery CourseTaylor’s InstagramTaylor’s Youtube ChannelTaylor’s WebsiteCONNECT WITH JON HANDELMAN:Jon’s WebsiteSupport the show

This is the story of how I had my first amazing threesome. (I had many bad ones before this). In this episode you’ll learn how to have a threesome, how to avoid bad threesomes, how to talk about threesomes, AND you’ll get an awesome technique to actually begin a threesome too.YOU CAN HAVE AN AMAZING THREESOME TOO!You might think that because I’m a sex coach, I’ve had the most amazing sex life for many years. A sex life full of all kinds of threesomes, while getting all of my fantasies met. Not true. Remember that people often go into a profession that they desperately needed to improve in themselves. That was me. I used to be a sexual mess. (I’ve done a lot of work since then).In this episode you’ll hear a mix of personal story with practical action steps you can take if you want to have a threesome too. One of those important steps is communication. You have to talk about it. Use this framework: The Better Sex Conversation. (FYI There are images on that page that are not safe for work. In fact, I don’t recommend looking at any of my content on any work-related device).If this episode is helpful for you, please share it with a friend!Thank you.-TaylorEPISODE TIMES & TOPICS:01:50 Are there bad threesomes?04:02 Threesomes are a very common fantasy07:09 Is it toxic for men to want a threesome with two women?08:55 Threesome VS Play Party (Sex Party)11:09 How I initiated this threesome15:25 Should you drink alcohol to take the edge off?16:30 The helpful conversation framework (how to avoid landmines)23:50 Why it’s important to have this conversation26:24 How to begin a threesome (we played rotational dom)33:57 What’s the first step to having a threesome?CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:FREE 7-Day Semen Retention ChallengeFREE Ejaculation Control GuideThe Orgasmic Mastery CourseTaylor’s InstagramTaylor’s Youtube ChannelTaylor’s WebsiteCONNECT WITH JON HANDELMAN:Jon’s WebsiteSupport the show

Explore the transformative impact of men's groups on personal growth and the importance of authentic connection and vulnerability. Learn how to start and structure a men's group, and hear personal stories from experiences in men's groups. Delve into emotional vulnerability, societal pressures on male physical intimacy, and the liberation of expressing emotions. Express gratitude and encouragement for sharing and reviewing.

Have you ever thought someone was hot, and then realized there was zero chemistry between you? In this episode we’ll explore the difference between sexual attraction and energetic attraction, how to notice energetic attraction, and why it’s important to pay attention to it. Energetic attraction can be your “radar” that you can use to improve all areas of your life, including business, family, romantic, etc…🔴 🎥 - You can also watch this episode on Youtube.There is a huge difference between sexual attraction and energetic attraction, and it's important to understand this difference. In this personal story episode, you’ll hear about the time I went to a sexual energy dance workshop in Thailand, and how I learned this difference in a first-hand, surprising way. (I was most attracted to a woman who could have been my grandmother, and ended up having a super erotic dance with her. It was a trip… and a HUGE learning experience for me about the difference between energetic attraction and sexual attraction.EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS:02:37 – Sexual Attraction without Energetic Attraction?03:10 – Living on Koh Phangan, Thailand06:07 – The sexual energy dance workshop 11:07 – Noticing where your energetic body goes 12:40 – Energetic attraction & sexy dance with an elderly woman17:39 – Energetic attraction & dance with another man21:25 – How to begin exploring energetic attraction23:55 – How to explore energetic sex with your partner(s).The workshop I talked about in this episode was led by Lion Galban, and after you listen, I recommend checking out the previous episode where I interviewed Lion about: How to Unlock Your Wild, Primal, Sexual SelfTo check out the full episode show notes, click here: Sexual Attraction vs Energetic AttractionConnect with Taylor:Taylor’s WebsiteTaylor’s InstagramTaylor’s Youtube ChannelThe Orgasmic Mastery CourseFREE 7-Day Semen Retention ChallengeFREE Ejaculation Control GuideSupport the show

In this episode, Lion and I explore how to be fully embodied, and why this is THE key to unlocking your wild, primal, sexual self. Unlocking this part of yourself allows you to create the kinds of relationships and sexual experiences you truly desire, in a safe way that builds connection and trust. You can’t just think your way into sexual and relationship success though, and this is where most people get stuck. You have to practice embodying it, and understand what that actually means.IN THIS EPISODE…What does embodiment actually mean?How and why embodiment is the key to unlocking your wild, primal, sexual selfHow to open your heart, and why you need to feel your emotions fullyWhy learning have non-ejaculatory orgasms can save your relationshipINTRODUCING LION GALBANI met Lion Galban in Thailand a few years ago, and was immediately inspired and triggered by him at the same time. The way he moved on the dance floor with multiple women blew my mind, and I realized that I was actually jealous of the freedom he appeared to have. On that dance floor, he was embodied in a way that I’ve RARELY seen in any other man.Without putting him on a pedestal, I decided I wanted to learn about this aspect of being alive from him… So I went to one of his embodiment/dance workshops back when we were both living in Thailand. It was kind of like a dance-oriented play party. And if you’ve never heard of the term play party before, it usually refers to a kind of gathering where different people can explore being sensual and sexual with each other, within the context of a certain set of agreements to make the space as safe as possible. (If you want me to make a podcast episode about play parties, let me know).If you look at Lion’s Instagram, you’ll see lots of videos of him moving in wild ways, and you might even see some things that trigger you. It’s worth looking at - pun intended. If you have any questions about today’s episode, please feel free to reach out to Lion and/or myself. We’re both here in service of your life.EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS7:00 – My first impression of Lion (when I got triggered)13:57 – What does embodiment mean?26:09 – Energetic attraction vs sexual attraction30:57 – What does “allow her to feel your heart” mean?37:40 – How to work with your emotions in an intelligent way40:49 – Why feeling your feelings can improve your entire life43:57 – How to honor and be your unique, primal, sexual self46:30 – How to navigate sexual shame around desires54:53 – Why learning to have an orgasm without ejaculation can save a relationshipCONNECT WITH LIONLion’s WebsiteLion’s InstagramLion’s Facebook PageCONNECT WITH TAYLORTaylor’s WebsiteTaylor’s InstagramTaylor’s Youtube ChannelThe Orgasmic Mastery CourseSupport the show

This episode will give you an in-depth understanding of what causes premature ejaculation, plus how to fix it. We'll explore: The most common causes of premature ejaculationHow to cure premature ejaculation naturallyEvolutionary reasons most men struggle with premature ejaculationHow porn, stress, fear of intimacy, shallow breathing and more can all contribute to premature ejaculationHow to last longer in bed (with concrete strategies)--- TIMES & TOPICS ---3:33: Quick Overview: 13 Causes of Premature Ejaculation12:48: In-Depth: Evolutionary Advantages of Premature Ejaculation16:34: 13 Causes of Premature Ejaculation16:51: 1 - Poor Masturbation Habits18:52: 2 - Porn and Premature Ejaculation21:56: 3 - Too Much Focus on Ejaculation25:36: 4 - Hyperfocus on Sensations in Your Penis26:19: 5 - Too Many Kegels Can Cause Premature Ejaculation30:43: 6 - Too Much Tension in Your Body32:54: 7 - Too Much Stress in Your Life34:51: 8 - Performance Anxiety37:44: 9 - You're Not Breathing Deeply Enough40:54: 10 - You're Thrusting Too Quickly43:24: 11 - You Need to Develop Mental Resolve46:32: 12 - You Have a Fear of Deep Intimacy53:48: 13 - You're In the Wrong Relationship57:11: Free Ejaculation Control Guide57:40: The Orgasmic Mastery CourseHOW TO OVERCOME PREMATURE EJACULATION I’ve helped thousands of men go from only lasting 30 seconds to well over 20 minutes, and you can do it too. Check out my Free Ejaculation Control Guide, or go through a comprehensive journey to completely reprogram and upgrade your sexual response system: The Orgasmic Mastery Course.For the record, I used to massively struggle with premature ejaculation, to the point where I would even avoid women I was attracted to because I was afraid of one day having sex with them and cumming too soon. (Because that’s what happened). I was that guy - I used to ejaculate in 30 seconds on the regular, and it destroyed my confidence and identity as a man. I get it.Today, on the other side of this journey, it's my mission to help you. I'm happy to say that it's 100% possible for you to overcome premature ejaculation and have the sex life you want. WE ALL HAVE THE POTENTIAL TO BE EPIC LOVERSThat means YOU. Underneath the conditioning of society, underneath the impact of porn and masturbation habits, underneath whatever you have experienced that’s holding you back, is the magnificent, epic lover that you are. There's an incredible, mind-expanding, heart-opening and multi-orgasmic world of lovemaking that's available to you. Here's a personal story from my life of what's possible: The First Time I had a Tantric Orgasm IT'S A JOURNEY - HAVE COMPASSION FOR YOURSELFIf you’ve experienced premature ejaculation, you’re not alone. It can feel frustrating, sad, annoying, confidence-destroying and hopeless... but remember, it is 100% possible for you to overcome premature ejaculation and have the sex life you want! I'm here to help you.LINKS:Orgasmic Mastery CourseFREE Ejaculation Control GuideFREE 7-Day Semen Retention ChallengeTaylor’s InstagramSupport the show