

Sex Upgraded
Taylor Johnson - Sex Coach for Men
Helping men and their lovers experience the best sex and relationship lives possible.You'll hear wild personal stories, interviews with guest experts, and practical how-to episodes as well.TLDR: In each episode you'll get practical tools & insights you can start using today to improve your sex life AND entire life.Why?Because I (Taylor) used to struggle massively with sex. I never had a good mentor, and my struggle negatively impacted my entire life. Now after a huge journey studying sex around the world, I'm thriving, and I want to help you thrive in your sex life too. Why? Because it feels amazing! AND because the world needs more men who can embody their sexual power with confidence and integrity.Thank you for being here!-Taylor• Web: www.taylorjohnson.life• Insta: www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnson• Youtube: www.youtube.com/@taylorclarkjohnson
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Feb 27, 2023 • 11min
UPDATE: This Podcast Has a New Name!
ANNOUNCEMENT: The name of this podcast will change next week. It started off as "Eros Rising," and I do like that name because it's representative of my intentions for this podcast... But the problem is most people have no idea what "Eros Rising" actually means. From a marketing perspective, that's no good.The new name will be simple and clear, so whenever anyone sees it in the podcast directory, they'll know exactly what the podcast is about. For the name change I decided to upgrade my wardrobe too, and create a new podcast cover with me in a suit jacket & collared shirt.Why?Because appearances do matter on some level. I found a fascinating article about what makes a good portrait, and decided to try making the "perfect" portrait (according to their metrics). It also feels like it's time for me to refine things a bit. This year I'm enrolling in two major professional trainings & certification programs, and I want to start embodying layers of that professionalism in a deeper way (while still remaining down to earth and casual). Experimenting with my wardrobe is a fun way to do it.STARTING NEXT WEEK:You can expect regular episodes from again. I hired a production team to take care of all the pieces that held me back from creating regular episodes in the past, and I'm very excited to share the next season with you. SIX interviews have already been recorded, and a bunch more episodes are planned.Please let me know if you have any topic requests for the future!-Taylor-----------------🔱 Free Resources:FREE 7-Day Semen Retention ChallengeFREE Ejaculation Control GuideThe Complete Semen Retention GuideThe Best Anal Sex Toys for Men🔱 Online Trainings:The Orgasmic Mastery Course (Next round begins July 2023)The NEW Anal Sex CourseSemen Retention Mastery (Next round begins April 2023)Semen Retention FoundationsEcstatic Lovers Course (Intimacy Course for Couples)🔱 Connect with Taylor:Taylor’s InstagramTaylor’s Youtube ChannelTaylor’s WebsiteSupport the show

Dec 29, 2022 • 46min
Financial Abundance from Semen Retention 💰 (Personal Story)
Today we're going to talk about sex and money! Specifically, how semen retention helped me make more money in my previous business (before I started teaching about sex and retention).In this episode you'll hear how I went from:struggling to start a businessfinancial scarcityporn addictionpremature ejaculationerectile dysfunctionand sexual anxiety...To creating success in my business, and experiencing financial abundance for the first time in my life. Sexual energy transmutation and semen retention were the foundational practices I used to make this happen. That included Qigong, Yoga, breathwork, meditation, journaling and other practical exercises too.And the most important thing?These practices can work for you too!If you want to experience the benefits for yourself, take my FREE 7-DAY SEMEN RETENTION CHALLENGE. Thousands of men have done this and experienced great results.------------------Online Trainings:The Orgasmic Mastery Course (Next round begins January 12th!)The NEW Anal Sex CourseSemen Retention MasterySemen Retention FoundationsEcstatic Lovers CourseFree Resources:FREE 7-Day Semen Retention ChallengeFREE Ejaculation Control GuideThe Complete Semen Retention GuideThe Best Anal Sex Toys for MenConnect with Taylor:Taylor’s InstagramTaylor’s Youtube ChannelTaylor’s WebsiteConnect with Jon:Conscious Coaching in Asheville, NC-------------------Episode Music:“Pink Dolphins” (Numatic Remix)Written by: Tony Moss/Sunny Solwind/Shireen Jarrahian/David BrownRemixed by: NumaticSupport the show

Dec 19, 2022 • 59min
Natural Birth Control & Semen Retention for Successful Pregnancy Prevention - with Naema Pierce
My girlfriend and I have successfully prevented pregnancy using the Fertility Awareness Method and Semen Retention for almost three years now. We're both fertile (just confirmed with my own sperm analysis test), and I do occasionally ejaculate inside her. 🔱 IN THIS EPISODE YOU'LL LEARN:Why women are NOT fertile all the time (unlike men)How Naema and I practice natural birth control in our relationshipHow the Fertility Awareness Method can be 99.4% effective at preventing pregnancy (that's more effective than condoms)How to confirm ovulation & the fertile window via cycle trackingHow to get off hormonal birth controlA big danger of period tracking appsWhat Naema thinks about my Semen Retention PracticeAnd check out…🔱 NAEMA’S CHART EXAMPLES:In this episode we talked about including some cycle tracking chart examples. At this link you’ll see an actual chart Naema used to confirm her ovulation by tracking her basal body temperature. I’ve overlaid some graphics on top of the chart just to make things crystal clear. --------------------🔱 RESOURCES FROM NAEMA:FREE Guide to Getting Off Hormonal Birth ControlMonthly Pelvic Mapping Workshop (Hands On Self-Healing for Women)Natural Birth Control & Cycle Tracking Self-Study CoursePelvic Bodywork & Mayan Abdominal Massage in AshevilleConnect with Naema on Instagram🔱 RESOURCES FROM TAYLORFREE 7-Day Semen Retention ChallengeFREE Ejaculation Control GuideThe Orgasmic Mastery CourseSemen Retention 101 CourseConnect with Taylor on InstagramSupport the show

Oct 17, 2022 • 44min
Overcoming Premature Ejaculation - (Raw & Real Talk Part 2)
This is a followup conversation to episode 16, where Banks and I got real about his struggle with premature ejaculation - BEFORE he took my Orgasmic Mastery Course.Today you'll hear what his life is like now, after taking my course and after being in sex therapy too. If you're someone who wants to overcome premature ejaculation, this episode should give you some hope and inspiration.It may feel hopeless for you right now, but I promise you it isn't. I used to feel that way too, and so have many millions of other men.Check out my FREE Ejaculation Control Guide if you want to overcome premature ejaculation and feel free and powerful in bed. It IS possible for you. You just have to put in the effort. -Taylor--------------------------🔱 WORK WITH ME:Unlocking the Root: A self-study course to master the art of anal sexOrgasmic Mastery Course: A 10-week self-study training to master your sexual energy and learn to have non-ejaculatory orgasmsSemen Retention Foundations: A 7-day journey to build your sexual energy energy and use it to supercharge your entire life.--------------------------🔱 FREE GUIDES:Ejaculation Control Training (Free)7-Day Semen Retention Challenge (Free)--------------------------🔱 CONNECT WITH ME:Sexual Mastery Youtube ChannelInstagram: @taylorclarkjohnsonMain Website: www.taylorjohnson.life--------------------------🔱 Resources:Will Anal Turn Straight Men Gay? (Video)The Best Anal Toys for Men (Article)Interview with a Male Porn Star (Podcast)--------------------------Gratitudes:Thank you Banks for having this conversation in public with me. I deeply appreciate your vulnerability. Link to the New Moon Brotherhood: https://newmoonbrotherhood.com/The music for this episode is: “Pink Dolphins” (Numatic Remix)Written by: Tony Moss/Sunny Solwind/Shireen Jarrahian/David BrownRemixed by: NumaticSupport the show

Oct 11, 2022 • 23min
I Went to an Anal Sex Party... (Personal Story)
About 5 years ago, I went to an anal sex party in Asheville. It was a wild experience that broke my brain, left me speechless and opened my eyes to things that I had never seen before.I think you'll like this story. :D After listening, check out my new anal sex course that'll give you everything you need to master the art of anal sex (both giving and receiving), including:anal anatomypain-free penetration techniquesanal energeticsprostate pleasureanal orgasmsrituals to open the rootand more...If you like this episode, please share it with a friend.Cheers to your success & pleasure!-Taylor--------------------------🔱 WORK WITH ME:Unlocking the Root: A self-study course to master the art of anal sexOrgasmic Mastery Course: A 10-week self-study training to master your sexual energy and learn to have non-ejaculatory orgasmsSemen Retention Foundations: A 7-day journey to build your sexual energy energy and use it to supercharge your entire life.--------------------------🔱 CONNECT WITH ME:Sexual Mastery Youtube ChannelInstagram: @taylorclarkjohnsonMain Website: www.taylorjohnson.life--------------------------🔱 Resources:Will Anal Turn Straight Men Gay? (Video)The Best Anal Toys for Men (Article)Interview with a Male Porn Star (Podcast)--------------------------Gratitudes:The music for this episode is: “Pink Dolphins” (Numatic Remix)Written by: Tony Moss/Sunny Solwind/Shireen Jarrahian/David BrownRemixed by: NumaticSupport the show

Oct 3, 2022 • 51min
Anal Sex Mistakes - (That Most Men Make)
Millions of women want to receive anal sex from a man, but most men make substantial mistakes with anal that result in pain, disconnection and a complete lack of pleasure. There's good news though. With the help of this episode, you can easily learn how to avoid these mistakes so you can have amazing, orgasmic, pain-free and deeply pleasurable anal sex with your lover.Check out my new anal sex course called Unlocking the Root - IF you want to master the art of anal. It'll give you everything you need to have amazing anal with complete confidence (giving or receiving).*NOTE: The majority of content in this episode will apply to all bodies, but extra focus has been given to heterosexual anal sex where the woman is penetrated by the man. This is intentional, because there are some extra dynamics going on here that are important to talk about. ------------------------Questions answered in this episode:How does anal anatomy impact anal pleasure?Is anal sex in porn real?Is pain normal during anal sex ?Can women orgasm from anal?Can men orgasm from anal?Will anal pleasure turn straight men gay?How long does anal warmup take?What's the deal with anal and poop?What are the best anal sex positions?--------------------------🔱 ONLINE TRAININGS:Unlocking the Root: A self-study course to master the art of anal sexOrgasmic Mastery Course: A 10-week self-study training to master your sexual energy and learn to have non-ejaculatory orgasmsSemen Retention Foundations: A 7-day journey to build your sexual energy energy and use it to supercharge your entire life.--------------------------🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:Sexual Mastery Youtube ChannelInstagram: @taylorclarkjohnsonMain Website: www.taylorjohnson.life--------------------------🔱 Resources:Will Anal Turn Straight Men Gay? (Video)The Best Anal Toys for Men (Article)Interview with a Male Porn Star (Podcast)--------------------------Gratitudes:This episode was recorded in my home in Asheville, with my good friend Jon Handelman who is a full time life coach. The music for this episode is: “Pink Dolphins” (Numatic Remix)Written by: Tony Moss/Sunny Solwind/Shireen Jarrahian/David BrownRemixed by: NumaticSupport the show

Jul 26, 2022 • 53min
The Shame of Premature Ejaculation - (Raw & Real Talk Part 1)
Millions of men struggle with premature ejaculation, but we RARELY talk about the reality of the struggle, and that's a problem. The impact on our lives and relationships can be massive and debilitating...For example, men who regularly struggle with premature ejaculation might also experience:Low self-worthLow self-confidenceHigh sexual shameHigh sexual anxietyIsolationHopelessnessDepressionPorn addictionOther addictions as coping mechanisms...IN THIS EPISODE...I'm joined by my friend Banks, who is currently struggling with premature ejaculation. We decided to have a raw and vulnerable conversation about this specifically for the podcast - because we thought it could be a great service to men and their partners around the world.It's extremely rare to hear two men talk openly about struggles like this... and you'll hear the vulnerability and tenderness when you listen.Thank you Banks for doing this. I'm grateful, and I can't fully imagine the potential fear and/or discomfort that might be present when choosing to speak openly and publicly about an active challenge like this. THANK YOU!OUR FOLLOW-UP INTERVIEW WILL HAPPEN IN 10-12 WEEKSAs an exchange for having these conversations, I've given Banks enrollment in the current round of my Orgasmic Mastery Course. It's a 10-week journey for men to completely overcome premature ejaculation, master their sexual energy and thrive - so they can create the sex lives (and entire lives) that they want.In 10-12 weeks, after Banks goes through this course, we're going to have an honest follow-up conversation to see how (and if) anything has changed. My belief and hope is that things will massively change for him over these next 10 weeks - IF he does the practices and exercises in the course. It's always up to the man to create the change he wants.Time will tell... :DBanks is one if the Co-Founders of the New Moon Brotherhood: a community of men that gather on the new moon to honor the darkest night of the month, and the darkness within. They provide a brave space for men to open their hearts in the spirit of brotherhood, helping men turn inward to open to their power rather than enforcing power over others. In our conversation, Banks referenced a TEDx video that talked about the power of self-pleasuring in front of a mirror. The talk was given by Emily Nagoski, and you can check it out here: Confidence and Joy are the Keys to a Great Sex Life. IT IS POSSIBLE TO OVERCOME PREMATURE EJACULATION!Just a quick note of encouragement - it is 100% possible to cure premature ejaculation naturally and have the sex life you want. It just takes consistent effort over time. Reach out if you need help.-Taylor-----------------------RESOURCESORGASMIC MASTERY COURSEInstagram: @taylorclarkjohnsonYoutube ChannelWebsiteFREE 7-Day Semen Retention ChallengeFREE Ejaculation Control Guide---------------------Episode Music: “Pink Dolphins” (Numatic Remix)Written bySupport the show

Jul 26, 2022 • 18min
Habits, Willpower & Semen Retention - (End of Season 1)
It takes 66 days to form a habit... and you'll need strong self-discipline and willpower to do it. The problem is most of us are killing our ability to have strong willpower. How? Willpower is a FINITE resource, and if we don't take good care of our physical, emotional and spiritual health, our willpower reserves disappear.Crappy lifestyle = low willpower.Low willpower = bad habits.Bad habits = low success.Low success in life = you can imagine.*Your life right now is the result of the thousands of tiny decisions and habits you've made up until this point. Your life 1 year from now will be the direct result of all the habits and decisions you make between now and then. CHOOSE WISELY!---------------------THIS EPISODE IS THE END OF SEASON 1!And I want to say thank you to everyone who has tuned in so far. This has been an awesome journey, and to be real, it has taken a lot more time and energy than I thought it would. I've needed to take some time to reflect on the previous episodes - to figure out how I want to move forward.Happy to say that this podcast will continue, but I'm only going to create new episodes when true inspiration hits. I'm not going to share episodes weekly just for the sake of being on a production schedule. And that being said...The next episode is pretty wild (at least I bet you've never heard anything like it before).---------------------THE NEXT EPISODE...The first episode of season 2 will be VERY unique & raw. It's a vulnerable conversation with a friend of mine who's currently struggling with premature ejaculation (and all the shame, pain and identity issues that come with it).Most men feel alone with this... but the truth is millions of men are silently struggling. And when we don't talk about it, when we push things down, we're actually hurting ourselves - and hurting our ability to create and have the sex lives we want.It's incredibly rare to hear two men having a real, down to earth conversation about challenges in the sexual realms... We decided to record our conversation to shine light on the reality of the struggle, and I think we all need to hear this. Check out the next episode, and let me know what you think.Thank you!-Taylor -----------------------RESOURCESORGASMIC MASTERY COURSEInstagram: @taylorclarkjohnsonYoutube ChannelWebsiteFREE 7-Day Semen Retention ChallengeFREE Ejaculation Control Guide---------------------Episode Music: “Pink Dolphins” (Numatic Remix)Written by: Tony Moss/Sunny Solwind/Shireen Jarrahian/David Brown Remixed by: NumaticSupport the show

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Jun 13, 2022 • 55min
Semen Retention & Men’s Sexual Mastery with Jah Sun
Jah Sun, founder of the 30-Day Tantra Challenge, dives into the fascinating world of semen retention and its impact on men's sexual mastery. He discusses the benefits and potential dangers, emphasizing that intentional practice is key. Jah also highlights the sacred nature of ejaculation and introduces concepts like non-ejaculatory orgasms and prostate pleasure. In this insightful conversation, he reinforces the importance of community and self-care in enhancing men's sexual health, while challenging traditional views on masculinity.

Jun 6, 2022 • 1h 15min
Porn VS Reality - with Male Pornstar Erik Everhard
How do pornstars last so long? Just how fake is porn? What happens behind the scenes? Join male pornstar Erik Everhard and I in a fascinating discussion about all things porn vs reality.Erik Everhard is a male porn star turned men’s coach, who has over 20 years of professional experience in the porn industry. He estimates that he has had sex with over 5000 women, which is absolutely mind-blowing to me. He brings a super unique perspective to sex and life that we can all learn something from. How to last longer, how to overcome performance anxiety, and how to get an erection on command are just a few of the topics we go into.This is my favorite episode of the podcast so far. If you like it too, please share this with a friend! We all need to be having the porn vs reality discussion.EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS03:51 How long do you have to last for a porn shoot?06:09 What would Erik tell his younger self about sex?13:00 Does sexual chemistry matter between pornstars?23:50 Mental performance & sexual performance32:15 How to get an erection anytime you want44:23 Presence is everything in sex48:50 The reality of anal sex in porn1:02:02 What is the impact of porn? Is porn unhealthy?CONNECT WITH ERIKErik’s WebsiteErik’s Course: Crushing Performance AnxietyErik’s Instagram: (@erikeverhardofficial)RESOURCES FROM TAYLOROrgasmic Mastery CourseTaylor’s InstagramTaylor’s Youtube ChannelFREE 7-Day Semen Retention ChallengeFREE Ejaculation Control GuideSupport the show