Why Spiritual Men (New Age) Often Fail in Life & Dating - with Jasper Brown
Sep 25, 2023
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Former sensitive and undesirable new age guy, Jasper Brown, discusses the struggles of conscious men in dating, balancing spirituality with practical living, developing the inner feminine as a man, and restoring trust and safety with women. They also talk about understanding conflict and communication, dealing with urges and addictions, and exploring the conscious masculine.
Balancing spirituality with practical living is crucial for men seeking fulfillment in life and dating.
Developing the inner feminine as a man can lead to better relationships and personal growth.
Understanding conflict, practicing conscious communication, and establishing trust are essential for maintaining healthy relationships.
Deep dives
Course Announcement and Description
The podcast host announces an upcoming group course called Orgasmic Mastery, designed to help individuals become incredible lovers. The course aims to enhance orgasmic pleasure, develop non-ejaculatory orgasms, improve endurance, and create transformative sexual experiences. It will be conducted as a group, with weekly coaching calls and a private mastermind group for support and accountability.
Introduction to the Sex Upgraded Podcast
The podcast host welcomes listeners to the Sex Upgraded podcast, which combines authentic conversations, personal stories, and practical advice to guide individuals towards an amazing sex life. The host emphasizes that a thriving sex life can significantly impact overall well-being and aims to provide actionable tips for improvement.
Exploring Masculinity, Sex, and Relationships
The guest, Jasper, joins the host to discuss masculinity, sex, and relationships. They explore the challenge of finding conscious men and discuss the impact of pursuing spirituality and personal growth to the point of neglecting stability and direction. They also talk about the importance of balance and finding a middle ground between masculine and feminine energies. The conversation touches on personal experiences, societal dynamics, and the need for men to take responsibility in relationships.
The Importance of Integration and Balance
The guest shares how he transitioned from a spiritual focus to developing stability and foundations in his life. He emphasizes the importance of integrating survival needs, developing emotional intelligence, learning self-defense, and finding direction. The guest explains that this balance allows him to show up more fully in his relationships and pursue personal growth from a place of groundedness and stability.
Creating Safe Spaces and Effective Communication
The conversation dives into the significance of creating safe spaces in relationships and the value of effective communication. The guest highlights the need to understand conflict, practice conscious communication, and hold the truth in challenging moments. He emphasizes the importance of articulating needs and boundaries while considering the other person's perspective. The guest suggests that conscious communication helps maintain emotional intimacy, trust, and harmony in relationships.
"There aren't enough good men!" said the woman after ecstatic dance... She couldn't find any at the cacao ceremony or didgeridoo sound healing either... why?
What makes a man actually DESIRABLE? That's the real question here... And in this episode you'll hear some of the steps both Jasper and I took to change our lives from being sensitive, and ultimately undesirable new age guys, to being men who have happy and thriving lives and relationships.
EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS: 0:00 Intro 2:25 "Conscious Men" as F*ckboys 6:29 Do Women Like New Age Guys? 14:10 Balancing Spirituality with Practical Living 23:10 Developing the Inner Feminine as a Man 27:40 The Inner Masculine & Feminine... 33:12 We Need to Talk About Healthy Masculinity 38:48 Victim Mindset Problems... 42:28 Restoring Trust & Safety with Women 48:41 Understanding Conflict & Communication 56:30 Learn How to Deal with our Urges/Addictions
