
Unfollowing Mum
Unfollowing Mum : Break Unhealthy habits and be the parent you wish you'd had is available for preorder NOW!A therapist recommended podcast for cycle breakers by someone who has lived the experience. Host Harriet Shearsmith knows first hand how challenging it can be to navigate estrangement, toxic family and dysfunctional dynamics in a digital age where setting boundaries and protecting your peace is harder than ever. In 2023 we’re unfollowing mum. We’re breaking the cycle, unsubscribing from the drama by healing generational trauma and putting ourselves and our mental health first. Each week I will answer your anonymous questions, discuss experiences and tackle the issues surrounding estrangement, generational trauma and navigating toxic families. Sometimes I’ll speak to experts, people with lived experience and other cycle breakers to share their point of view.You’re not alone, there is a community of people navigating parenthood without solid role models, learning to love themselves after emotional abuse whilst breaking the cycle for the future generations 💜 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Latest episodes

Mar 15, 2023 • 31min
EP 8 Estrangement on Mother's Day
Exploring the challenges and complex emotions of celebrating Mother's Day with toxic or estranged parents, self-gaslighting in estranged relationships, feelings of failure, and strategies for reframing the holiday and finding peace.

Mar 8, 2023 • 43min
EP 7 Importance of community, estrangement grief & cycle breaking with Abbey Williams
Host Harriet Shearsmith talks to Abbey Williams about the importance of community, estrangement grief, and cycle breaking. They discuss the significance of community in healing and overcoming loneliness, emotional abuse from mothers, breaking cycles and consciously choosing parenting styles, setting boundaries and cutting ties, and the importance of creating a supportive family.

Mar 1, 2023 • 28min
EP 6 Lack of Self in adult children of toxic parents
Exploring the lack of self in adult children of toxic parents, including challenges, mother wounds, erosion of identity, struggle to find true voice, childhood memories, difficulties in self-discovery in a toxic environment.

Feb 22, 2023 • 1h 19min
EP5 Surviving parental alcoholism & abuse with Helene Rabbitt
In this episode host Harriet Shearsmith chats to Helene Rabbitt about her lived experience of estrangement from alcoholic and abusive parents. Lived experiences are a cornerstone of Unfollowing Mum pod, there is comfort in shared experience and knowing that you are not alone. Helene discusses how she found the strength to cut ties with her abusive, alcoholic parents and how childhood trauma has impacted her life. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Feb 15, 2023 • 1h 4min
EP4 Addressing the Motherwound with Michaila Tyson
Mentor and self worth coach Michaila Tyson discusses the Motherwound. They explore reparenting, healing from a dysfunctional or toxic dynamic with a mother, mothering without a positive role model, and the importance of setting boundaries and challenging negative thoughts.

Feb 8, 2023 • 35min
EP3 Access denied :: Cutting off toxic Grandparents
On this episode, host Harriet Shearsmith talks about the legality behind cutting off toxic grandparents and talking to children about estrangement. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Feb 1, 2023 • 39min
EP2 Gratitude, scapegoating & accountability.
This podcast explores gratitude towards parents, the concept of scapegoating in family dynamics, and the resistance to accountability. It also discusses generational differences in understanding gratitude and the validity of different perspectives in sibling dynamics.

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Jan 25, 2023 • 34min
EP1 Welcome to Unfollowing Mum
This podcast explores dysfunctional and toxic parent-child relationships and aims to break the silence on emotional abuse. The host shares their own experiences and discusses enmeshment as a form of abuse. They also delve into the challenges of establishing a healthier relationship with a controlling mother and navigating estrangement between grandparents and grandchildren. The impact of social media on parent-child relationships is also explored.

Jan 19, 2023 • 2min
Introducing Unfollowing Mum
A podcast for cycle breakers by someone who has been there, who has navigated estrangement, toxic family dynamics and generational trauma in a digital age where setting boundaries has never been harder. You are not alone. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.