

Now We're Getting Somewhere
Katie Seaver
I’m Katie + I’m a certified life coach, and I’ve also been a management consultant at McKinsey and a product manager at a tech start-up. In other words: I know what it’s like to have a life that looks pretty good on paper, but doesn’t feel as good as I want it to.
I help my professional clients develop lives that are more meaningful, happy, and successful — and I want to share the same practical insights with you.
Learn more about my coaching work at www.katieseaver.com.
I help my professional clients develop lives that are more meaningful, happy, and successful — and I want to share the same practical insights with you.
Learn more about my coaching work at www.katieseaver.com.
Episodes
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Mar 13, 2024 • 54min
32: Communicating with men (advice for women + everyone else)
In this podcast, the hosts share tips on communicating with men in relationships, including the importance of clear communication and understanding emotional needs. They provide examples of effective communication strategies and discuss the power of setting boundaries and making requests instead of demands. The episode aims to help women better communicate with men and improve relationship dynamics for everyone.

Feb 28, 2024 • 51min
31: Communicating with women (advice for men + everyone else)
In coaching my male clients, I realized that there were some common challenges that they encountered, in communicating with their female partners — and that I could often help them communicate far more effectively! Truthfully, I hesitated to make this episode. I don't always love making gender-based generalizations - but I also felt like this was a topic that could help a lot of people. So this week, I'm doing it. I'm sharing my best ideas about how to communicate with women, and I'm joined by a very special guest: my husband, Gil! You'll hear my super-tactical suggestions, Gil's genius theoretical principles (he says things like "embrace the vortex" - and it is *so freaking good*), plus some fun behind-the-scenes about our relationship (there's a moment when I say: "I think the fact that you believe this concept is 90% of why we have a happy marriage.") This episode is for you, if you're a man who sometimes struggles to communicate with women. This episode is for you, if you're a woman who sometimes struggles to explain to men why their communication isn't working. (And this episode is for you, if you are a person of any gender who wants to communicate better with anyone - but especially women!) And stay tuned for my next episode, when we'll be talking about how to communicate with men! Subscribe to my newsletter for encouraging + helpful insights every Sunday: katieseaver.com/newsletter Follow me on Instagram: @thisiskatieseaver Learn more about working with me, or just learn more about my background + why I became a coach: katieseaver.com

Feb 14, 2024 • 56min
30: Julie’s Story
On today’s podcast, I’m sharing an interview I did with my former client, Julie. Our coaching work together covered many things – including a deep dive into decision-making + how to get better at it. In our conversation, Julie and I talk about: + The list of super-useful thoughts she cultivated about decision-making (which you should absolutely steal). + The 4-part decision-making process she developed in our work together (which she now uses to help the people she loves – like her roommate — make big decisions). + Her ability to tell the difference between feelings/thoughts that are “swirl” vs. “navigational.” + And more — including more about what it feels like to get coached! I found myself grinning throughout this interview – Julie is such an insightful + creative person — and I’m sure you’re going to love it, too. Subscribe to my newsletter for encouraging + helpful insights every Sunday: katieseaver.com/newsletter Follow me on Instagram: @thisiskatieseaver Learn more about working with me, or just learn more about my background + why I became a coach: katieseaver.com

Jan 31, 2024 • 26min
29: “What actually happens during a life coaching engagement?”
One of the most common questions I hear is some form of: so what actually *happens* on a coaching engagement? This is a great question. After all, life coaching is a relatively new profession, so many people aren’t familiar with it. And different coaches run their coaching engagements in different ways. Today I answer this question in two ways: from a more high-level arc of the overall engagement, and on the micro level within each coaching session. I hope this episode gives you more insight on what coaching with me would be like. Subscribe to my newsletter for encouraging + helpful insights every Sunday: katieseaver.com/newsletter Follow me on Instagram: @thisiskatieseaver Learn more about working with me, or just learn more about my background + why I became a coach: katieseaver.com

Dec 27, 2023 • 22min
28: Two Intentional Technology Ideas
In this episode, the hosts discuss intentional technology and share strategies to manage distractions and improve overall well-being. They talk about the benefits of removing email from the phone and how to minimize distractions and increase productivity. They also reflect on the positive impact of removing distractions from the phone and not using it.

Dec 13, 2023 • 16min
27: Loving, functional families + individuation
The podcast explores the challenges of individuation in loving families and the impact it has on personal growth and autonomy. It also discusses the significance of individuation in different cultures, particularly in Asian cultures, and explores the process of separation and healing in relationships.

Nov 29, 2023 • 14min
26: Take the Next Day Off
Explore the concept of taking one day off after a task or practice, the challenges and benefits of this approach, and how it can be applied during the holiday season. Learn about the positive impacts of taking one day off from certain practices on well-being and how it can make new practices more manageable and consistent.

Nov 15, 2023 • 25min
25: “What Happened” Conversations
Today I am talking about “what happened” conversations. A “what happened” conversation is a type of conversation that is incredibly useful when you are in a difficult, resentful, angry, or frustrated situation with someone. In this episode I explain more about what a “what happened” conversation is, why it’s useful, and when to do it. I get specific, sharing some scripts + common mistakes (and how to avoid them). This episode will help you to more easily resolve challenges with partners, family, friends, and colleagues. Hope you enjoy! Subscribe to my newsletter for encouraging + helpful insights every Sunday: katieseaver.com/newsletter Follow me on Instagram: @thisiskatieseaver Learn more about working with me, or just learn more about my background + why I became a coach: katieseaver.com

Nov 1, 2023 • 19min
24: Making Decisions
This podcast episode discusses the challenges of making decisions and offers strategies for overcoming hesitation and anxiety. It emphasizes the importance of trusting oneself, understanding the reality of decision-making, and embracing and fixing decisions. It also explores strategies for building confidence and personal growth through a life coach.

Oct 11, 2023 • 28min
23: 10 Bread-and-Butter Coaching Topics
The podcast discusses common coaching topics such as addressing dissatisfaction and increasing energy, addressing behaviors that don't serve us, exploring challenging work situations, and achieving productivity and well-being. Real client examples are shared to demonstrate the impact of coaching in overcoming obstacles and achieving balance in various aspects of life.