

Therapist Uncensored Podcast
Sue Marriott LCSW, CGP & Ann Kelley PhD
Ranked as one of Apple’s Top 10 Social Science podcasts, Therapist Uncensored delivers trusted, science-backed insights on mental health and secure relationships. With over 11 million downloads worldwide, this female-led, independent podcast puts you right in the therapy room, making powerful psychological insights accessible and actionable. Co-hosts Sue Marriott, LCSW CGP and Ann Kelley, PhD break down complex ideas into practical wisdom you can use immediately. They’re joined by top neuroscientists, world-renown relationship experts and outside-the-box perspectives to share cutting-edge research and strategies for building stronger connections with yourself and others. Shownotes at www.therapistuncensored.com Transform how you understand your mind, your relationships, and yourself.
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May 7, 2024 • 26min
Shifting Activation Levels: Part II of Secure Relating with Ann & Sue (236)
Authors Ann and Sue discuss understanding attachment spectrum colors, recognizing internal activations, and shifting activation levels. They explore blue leaning patterns, dismissing attachment activation, preoccupied patterns, trauma resolution, and the importance of learning how our body responds when activated.

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Apr 30, 2024 • 52min
Holding Your Own – Behind the Scenes and Part I of Secure Relating with Ann & Sue (235)
Authors Ann and Sue discuss themes from their book 'Secure Relating: Holding Your Own in an Insecure World'. They emphasize the importance of secure connections, healing, personal growth, and collaboration to overcome division. They break down the three sections of the book, highlighting the healing process and building agency in relationships.

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Apr 24, 2024 • 58min
Integrative Attachment Therapy with Dr. David Elliott (234)
Dr. David Elliott, co-author of 'Attachment Disturbances in Adults' and creator of Integrative Attachment Therapy Training, joins the discussion on enhancing therapeutic relationships through attachment theory. He emphasizes the importance of collaboration and mental imagery in fostering new internal working models. The conversation reveals how these techniques can aid in symptom reduction and well-being, while Ann and Sue share their experiences crafting a book on attachment insecurity. They advocate for more therapists trained in this innovative approach, highlighting its potential impact.

Apr 16, 2024 • 47min
Information Processing: Sunglasses, Early Attachment & More with Ann & Sue (233)
Ann and Sue dive into the world of information processing, using sunglasses as a metaphor to explain how our attachment experiences shape our perceptions. They discuss the impact of different 'states' reflected by various sunglasses, emphasizing the importance of self-reflection and curiosity in building healthy relationships.

Apr 9, 2024 • 1h 2min
The Neuroscience Behind Our Collective Dysregulation: Navigating Today’s Social Crisis (232)
Delving into societal challenges, Ann and Sue discuss the impact of political rhetoric, COVID-19, collective distrust, and trauma. They emphasize self-awareness, accountability, vulnerability, and connection in promoting healing. Addressing polarization, they advocate for open-mindedness and empathy to foster constructive dialogue. Explore the transformative power of emotions like anger and the role of connection in driving positive societal change.

Apr 2, 2024 • 1h 5min
Hypnosis for Healing: Understanding the Powerful Science with Dr. David Spiegel (231)
Dr. David Spiegel discusses the benefits of hypnosis, highlighting its role in mental health, pain management, and relaxation. He emphasizes the accessibility of hypnosis and its app R E V E R I for personal growth. The podcast explores the power of hypnosis to rewire the brain and break negative habits, showcasing its efficacy in tackling various issues.

Mar 26, 2024 • 1h 6min
Mind, Body, Heart, Spirit: Embodying Liberation Psychology with Dr. Shena Young (230)
Dr. Shena Young discusses liberation psychology, decolonizing minds, and embodying holistic healing through ancestral traditions. She explores the conflict between intuition and traditional psychology, connecting with nature, and healing traumas. The conversation highlights the importance of mind-body-heart-spirit care, creating safe spaces for discourse, and direct contributions to marginalized communities for collective liberation efforts.

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Mar 19, 2024 • 56min
Setting Boundaries that Stick with Juliane Taylor Shore (229)
Juliane Taylor Shore, an expert in relationships and boundaries, joins the conversation to share her innovative approaches. They discuss the evolving nature of boundaries and their vital role in emotional safety and connection. With concepts like 'the jello wall,' Juliane emphasizes how understanding the brain can enhance compassion in relationships. The discussion also touches on practical strategies for setting boundaries, including mindfulness and communication tips, all aimed at promoting healthier relationships and personal growth.

Mar 12, 2024 • 38min
Decolonizing Mental Health Delivery with Melody Li (Part 2, Episode 228)
Discomfort is a necessary part of liberating ourselves from patriarchal and white supremacist ideology
Art by Nisha K. Sethi
This is part two of a two-part series with the founder of Inclusive Therapists, Melody and TU Co-host, Sue Marriott. This episode features challenging yet important conversations on active anti-racist practices, exploration of oppression, and dismantling whiteness in mental health structures. Melody emphasizes the need for white clinicians to examine their own complicity in upholding oppressive systems and to listen to and center the experiences of marginalized communities. They also highlight the interconnectedness of healing and the power of collective liberation through rehumanizing.
“…if I uphold a system that I know is dehumanizing someone, I become less human myself.” – Melody Li, LMFT (they/佢)
About our Guest – Melody Li, LMFT (they/佢)
Melody Li, LMFT (they/佢) is the founder of Inclusive Therapists: a mental health directory, resource hub & community centering marginalized communities. They also founded Mental Health Liberation, a non-profit bridging Black, Indigenous, and People of Color with free, quality therapy, and empowering Students & Clinicians of Color. Their activism focuses on decolonizing mental health care and dismantling the industrial complex. The colony-born migrant and settler on Turtle Island advocates for Landback, Indigenous Sovereignty, and Black Liberation as a priority.
Time Stamps for Decolonizing the Mental Health System (Part 2)
2:18 – Definition of QTBIPOC
3:22 – Deep dive into anti-oppressive and liberators practices
8:20 – Understanding cis-gender identity
9:49 – Structural oppression is not about your feelings
15:34 – How white feminism can be exclusionary
17:06 – Dismantling whiteness from the mental health field
23:30 – Actions items for white clinicians to be more inclusive
25:52 – Top down versus bottom-down healing
30:40 – The core of oppression is to dehumanize
Resources for today’s episode – Decolonizing the Mental Health System (Part 2)
Pedagogy of the Oppressed by Paulo Freire – Literature recommendation by Melody Li
Melody Li’s Website
Melody Li’s Instagram Profile
Inclusive Therapists Resource Library
Open Letter: End Mental Health Field’s Complicity to Genocide
Steadfast for Collective Liberation Newsletter: Confronting our Bullshit & Toxicity
Palestinian Liberation: Lessons in Solidarity for Mental Health Providers
Palestinian Liberation Resources
When is exploring whiteness clinically relevant? (Melody Li, LMFT)
Dismantling whiteness, white feminism and supremacy delusion: resources by Black, Indigenous and People of Color (Li advised against buying white authors on this subject)
Decolonizing Therapy (Dr. Jenn Mullan)
Stages of Colonialism in Africa: From Occupation of Land to Occupation of Being (Hussein A. Bulhan)
All psychologies are indigenous psychologies: Reflections on psychology in a global era (Anthony J. Marsella)
Mental Health Liberation: Website | Instagram | Facebook | BIPOC Therapy Fund | Liberatory Student Support Circle
Inclusive Therapists: Website | Instagram | Facebook
And of course, our book is also a great resource – it’s for professionals and life-long learners of all kinds. If you’ve read it we’d love to hear from you and if you support it, PLEASE leave a review on either Amazon or Goodreads. Tk you!!
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Mar 8, 2024 • 41min


