Cultivating Secure Relating – TU Updates & Book Sneak Peeks with Ann & Sue (218)
Nov 7, 2023
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Ann and Sue discuss the importance of secure relating in their upcoming book. They delve into the three R healing spiral, recognition, reflection, and rewiring. They also address how to be secure when others aren't and the privilege of true safety. The podcast emphasizes the accessibility of secure relating to all individuals.
Secure relating is accessible to all individuals regardless of their history, age, or habits.
The book 'Secure Relating: Holding Your Own in an Insecure World' focuses on recognition, reflection, and rewiring to foster deep change and create secure relating within communities.
Deep dives
Recognizing the importance of mutuality and secure relating
The podcast emphasizes the importance of individuals being on the journey of mutuality, justice, and human rights. It highlights that secure relating is not limited to gender, political affiliation, or ideology, but is a path for anyone willing to uncover their own issues and be their best, wisest, and big-hearted self. The focus is on supporting and creating fairness beyond oneself.
A new book: 'Secure Relating: Holding Your Own in an Insecure World'
The podcast discusses a recently published book called 'Secure Relating: Holding Your Own in an Insecure World'. The authors, Dr. Anne Kelly and Sue Marriott, draw on their years of experience as therapists and experts in the field of attachment to provide insights and guidance on neurobiology, secure relating, and building connections. The book aims to help individuals deepen their sense of security and navigate an uncertain world.
The three-part structure of the book
The book is divided into three parts: recognition, reflection, and rewiring. In the recognition section, the authors delve into the importance of self-awareness and providing an overview of neuroscience and attachment. The reflection section explores ways to actively work on personal growth and deepen security in oneself and relationships. The rewiring section focuses on treatment, fostering deep change, and creating secure relating within communities.
Building connections within a community
The podcast highlights the importance of building connections and secure relating within a community. It emphasizes the need for individual recognition and growth, deepening security in relationships, and promoting secure relating within society. The authors encourage listeners to join the podcast's community and engage in conversations, reading pods, and other learning opportunities to foster connections and create a sense of security.
Relating from a place of inner security is not about an attachment category, and it can't stop with us as individuals. Ann and Sue share exciting news and community updates for TU. With secure relating at the forefront, this episode includes a sneak peek into the structure of their new book, Secure Relating Holding Your Own in an Insecure World. They explain the three R healing spiral, cultivating community, and much more! Now is a great time to join our online Neuronerd community www.therapistuncensored.com/join! Find shownotes at www.therapistuncensored.com/tu218.
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