

Therapist Uncensored Podcast
Sue Marriott LCSW, CGP & Ann Kelley PhD
Ranked as one of Apple’s Top 10 Social Science podcasts, Therapist Uncensored delivers trusted, science-backed insights on mental health and secure relationships. With over 11 million downloads worldwide, this female-led, independent podcast puts you right in the therapy room, making powerful psychological insights accessible and actionable. Co-hosts Sue Marriott, LCSW CGP and Ann Kelley, PhD break down complex ideas into practical wisdom you can use immediately. They’re joined by top neuroscientists, world-renown relationship experts and outside-the-box perspectives to share cutting-edge research and strategies for building stronger connections with yourself and others. Shownotes at www.therapistuncensored.com Transform how you understand your mind, your relationships, and yourself.
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Feb 27, 2024 • 12min
Love Letter To Group Psychotherapy (Replay – Episode 226)
Love Letter to Group Psychotherapy
While Ann and Sue are in DC at the American Group Psychotherapy Association Conference, we thought this was the perfect opportunity to replay one of our favorite episodes.
Co-hosts Sue Marriott and Patty Olwell interview colleagues at the American Group Psychotherapy 2016 Association Annual Meeting in New York. They talk about why they love group therapy and why it is so valuable to their clients. We want to thank our interviewees for their help and insights.
Interviewees for this Episode…
Tammy Brown – Austin TX tammybrowntherapy.com
Jamie Moran – San Francisco CA jamiemoran.com
Rita Drapkin – Indiana University of Pennsylvania (724)357-2621
Pierre Choucroun – Austin TX Pierre M Choucroun on Psychology Today
Kelly Inselmann – Austin TX kellyinselmann.com
Liz Rosenblatt – Los Angeles CA Dr Elizabeth Rosenblatt on LAGPA
RESOURCES:
Additional resources for this episode:
Austin Group Psychotherapy Society: Organization that promotes group therapy and provides training for clinicians
American Group Psychotherapy Association: National organization that promotes group therapy as a cost effective and clinical valuable treatment.
Psychodynamic Group Psychotherapy Scott Rutan Walter Stone and Joseph Shay. These are masters of group. An excellent text for therapists and others eager to learn about group. You can trust these authors
And of course, our book is also a great resource – it’s for professionals and life-long learners of all kinds. If you’ve read it we’d love to hear from you and if you support it, PLEASE leave a review on either Amazon or Goodreads. Tk you!!
Get your copy of Secure Relating here!!
Click here to see our past and upcoming events!!
Please consider giving to Mental Health Liberation
We support mental health access to those traditionally left out of mainstream healthcare and use a portion of the income we receive from corporate sponsors to do just that! We can only do that with the help of our Patrons – joining as a TU Neuronerd Podsquad premium subscriber, you support this mission and get a dedicated ad-free feed plus occasional very cool and unique study opportunities, reading groups, and unique surprises! We invite you to join our community. Click here to join!
Mental Health Liberation is our primary partner at this time – please consider giving whatever you can to support mental health access for those traditionally left behind and support training for BIPOC therapists.
We support mental health access to those traditionally left out of mainstream healthcare and use a portion of the income we receive from corporate sponsors to do just that! We can only do that with the help of our Patrons – joining as a TU Neuronerd Podsquad premium subscriber, you support this mission and get a dedicated ad-free feed plus occasional very cool and unique study opportunities, reading groups and who knows what else may come! We invite you to join our community. Click here to join!

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Feb 13, 2024 • 1h 10min
A Neuroscience-Proven Expressive Writing Protocol with Dr. James Pennebaker (225)
Learn about a neuroscience-proven expressive writing protocol with Dr. James Pennebaker, discussing its impact on emotional and physical healing. Explore the power of writing without boundaries to process trauma and uncover deep-seated emotions. Discover the transformative effects of expressive writing on overall health, social behavior, and cognitive functioning.

Jan 30, 2024 • 54min
How Good Boundaries Actually Bring Us Closer, with Juliane Taylor Shore – REPLAY (224)
Expert Juliane Taylor Shore discusses the importance of setting boundaries in relationships for fostering closeness. The podcast explores the impact of boundaries on brain function, emotional well-being, and relationship dynamics. It emphasizes the significance of practicing self-care and communicating effectively for healthy connections.

Jan 16, 2024 • 46min
Believing Chronic Fatigue – Living with Long Covid, ME/CFS (Myalgic Encepholomyelitis) and Hard to Diagnose Chronic Illnesses (223)
The 2020 COVID-19 pandemic has had lasting effects on our world – one of the most difficult being long COVID, which has shed light on chronic illnesses worldwide such as ME/CFS…
In this episode, Ann and Sue share their research as well as personal experiences as caregivers for those with the illness and discuss the stigmas, invisibility, psychology of denial, support in advocating for your health, discussion of how to be a supportive caregiver, and secure relating in regards to chronic disease.
“…the notion is to come to accept something you might not have chosen, and strive to find peace with where you are at now … It’s not necessarily about getting back to where you were. It’s about growing from where you are today.” – Sue Marriott
Time Stamps for Long Covid and ME/CFS
00:05 – Information about the May Modern Attachment Conference
7:55 – The difference between the names Myalgic Encephalomyelitis and Chronic Fatigue Syndrome
12:21 – How we use attribution error in coping with long COVID
19:04 – Understanding deep fatigue post-infection and the effects
24:42 – Markers of long covid
32:39 – Touching base with Westernized culture stigmas
34:37 – Impactful ways to emotionally support someone struggling with chronic illness
39:17 – The power in being able to tap in with our bodies
42:11 – Discussion of the book “Grappling with Cure” by Eli Clare
44:15 – Important reminders on taking your medical care seriuosly/advocate for yourself
Resources for today’s episode Long Covid
Brilliant Imperfection: Grappling with Cure by Eli Clare – A book Sue has been using as a resource for understanding and supporting chronic illness
The Lonely, Isolating, and Alienating Implications of Myalgic Encephalomyelitis/Chronic Fatigue Syndrome – Samir Boulazreg, Samir and Rokach, Ami – NIH Article
Post-Exertional Symptom Exacerbation (PESE) – Long Covid Physio
A discovery in the muscles of long COVID patients may explain exercise troubles – NPR
Controversies related to chronic fatigue syndrome – Wikipedia article
ME/CFS Research Published 26 December 2023 – 1 January 2024 – The ME Association
The psychological impact of COVID-19 on the mental health in the general population – National Library of Medicine, Oxford University Article
A Discussion on Secure Relating & Chronic Illness (223) – Transcripts
Please consider giving to Mental Health Liberation
We support mental health access to those traditionally left out of mainstream healthcare and use a portion of the income we receive from corporate sponsors to do just that! We can only do that with the help of our Patrons – joining as a TU Neuronerd Podsquad premium subscriber, you support this mission and get a dedicated ad-free feed plus occasional very cool and unique study opportunities, reading groups, and unique surprises! We invite you to join our community. Click here to join!
Mental Health Liberation is our primary partner at this time – please consider giving whatever you can to support mental health access for those traditionally left behind and support training for BIPOC therapists.
We support mental health access to those traditionally left out of mainstream healthcare and use a portion of the income we receive from corporate sponsors to do just that! We can only do that with the help of our Patrons – joining as a TU Neuronerd Podsquad premium subscriber, you support this mission and get a dedicated ad-free feed plus occasional very cool and unique study opportunities, reading groups and who knows what else may come! We invite you to join our community. Click here to join!
And of course, our book is also a great resource – it’s for professionals and life-long learners of all kinds. If you’ve read it we’d love to hear from you and if you support it, PLEASE leave a review on either Amazon or Goodreads. Tk you!!
Get your copy of Secure Relating here!!
Click here to see our past and upcoming events!!

Jan 2, 2024 • 1h 22min
Trailblazers in Love: Understanding & Advocating for the LGBTQ+ Community with Jeff Lutes (222)
Welcome 2024!
We are kicking off the new year with a special conversation between co-host Sue Marriott and special guest Jeff Lutes. Both members of the LGBTQ+ community, this discussion dives into raising families, the evolution of the community, allyship, gender, and the importance of advocacy. While there has been some progress, the LGBTQ+ community still actively faces discrimination. Whether you’re a practicing therapist with clients in the community or have LGBTQ-identifying loved ones, this episode is for you. Through a personal and professional lens, this conversation offers new perspectives and shines a light on the significance of staying educated and being an active voice.
“There are a lot of therapists that see themselves as affirming, but I think you have to get actively involved in order to be an ally.” – Jeff Lutes
Time Stamps for Advocating for the LGBTQ+ Community
2:00 – Jeff’s anecdotes about religion and sexuality
11:18 – How advocacy can be a thankless job
12:00 – Introduction to the Contemporary Relationships Conference
14:34 – The difference between being trained in accepting versus educated
16:48 – The importance of knowing the correct terminology
20:39 – What we can learn from the polyamorous community
22:58 – Definition of queer and who that represents
24:37 – Let’s talk about pronouns
31:21 – Explanation of dead naming and why it is wrong
42:15 – Conversion therapy research and findings
47:00: Trailblazers in Love, Jeff’s book
Resources for today’s episode Advocating for the LGBTQ+ Community
Jeff Lute’s Website – Information, credentials, presentations and publications
Contemporary Relationships Conference – Conference information and proposals
Get your copy of his book, Trailblazers in Love, here!!
About our Guest – Jeff Lutes, LPC
Jeff specializes in creating collaborative conversations with clients that generate new possibilities for change. Using a postmodern approach, he listens carefully to each client’s story and strives to understand how they might make meaning of themselves, others, and the world around them. He founded the Contemporary Relationships Conference and has presented to audiences around the country, including the American Association of Marriage & Family Therapy, the American Family Therapy Academy, the American Counseling Association, and the Texas Psychological Association. He is also the author of Trailblazers In Love, as well as chapters in three counseling textbooks. Lutes also wrote a children’s book about adoption, deaf culture, and non-traditional families and has been a contributing writer at Bilerico and Therapy Matters.
We support mental health access to those traditionally left out of mainstream healthcare and use a portion of the income we receive from corporate sponsors to do just that! We can only do that with the help of our Patrons – joining as a TU Neuronerd Podsquad premium subscriber, you support this mission and get a dedicated ad-free feed plus occasional very cool and unique study opportunities, reading groups and who knows what else may come! We invite you to join our community. Click here to join!
And of course, our book is also a great resource – it’s for professionals and life-long learners of all kinds. If you’ve read it we’d love to hear from you and if you support it, PLEASE leave a review on either Amazon or Goodreads. Tk you!!
Get your copy of Secure Relating here!!
Click here to see our past and upcoming events!!
Please consider giving to Mental Health Liberation
We support mental health access to those traditionally left out of mainstream healthcare and use a portion of the income we receive from corporate sponsors to do just that! We can only do that with the help of our Patrons – joining as a TU Neuronerd Podsquad premium subscriber, you support this mission and get a dedicated ad-free feed plus occasional very cool and unique study opportunities, reading groups, and unique surprises! We invite you to join our community. Click here to join!
Mental Health Liberation is our primary partner at this time – please consider giving whatever you can to support mental health access for those traditionally left behind and support training for BIPOC therapists.

Dec 19, 2023 • 47min
TU 2023 Year in Review: Building Internalized Secure Voices (221)
Reflecting on impactful guests & topics of the year, exploring secure relating in an insecure world, lessons from the Dream series, failed mourning concept explanation, practicing self-care, deeper look into systems of poverty, important lessons from Dacher Keltner, upcoming Austin IN Connection Live Event Announcement for 2024

Dec 5, 2023 • 1h
Healing Body-Focused Repetitive Behavioral Disorders with Stacy Nakell – Replay – (220)
Stacy Nakell, a psychotherapist and body-focused repetitive behavioral expert, discusses the treatment of self-soothing strategies that can become body-focused repetitive behavioral disorders. Topics include attachment-informed psychodynamic models, shame-associated behaviors, and the role of distress in these behaviors.

Nov 21, 2023 • 50min
Ditching Invulnerability: Embracing Our Most Authentic Selves (219)
The podcast discusses the importance of embracing vulnerability and letting go of invulnerability. They explore the toxic nature of invulnerability, the impact of social media on vulnerability, and the challenges faced by younger generations. They also highlight the importance of setting boundaries and cultivating compassion.

Nov 7, 2023 • 48min
Cultivating Secure Relating – TU Updates & Book Sneak Peeks with Ann & Sue (218)
Ann and Sue discuss the importance of secure relating in their upcoming book. They delve into the three R healing spiral, recognition, reflection, and rewiring. They also address how to be secure when others aren't and the privilege of true safety. The podcast emphasizes the accessibility of secure relating to all individuals.

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Oct 24, 2023 • 48min
The Amygdala Unpacked with Dr. Joseph LeDoux – Replay (217)
Delve into the complexities of the amygdala's threat detection system, explore avoidance behaviors and neural mechanisms, and unravel the mysteries of protein synthesis in memory formation. Discover how traumatic memories and fear responses shape our experiences, and explore deep dive resources on interconnectedness and brain functions.


