On Attachment

Stephanie Rigg
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4 snips
Aug 19, 2025 • 22min

#202: How Attachment Styles Influence Friendship Dynamics

Dive into the intriguing world of how attachment styles shape our friendships. Explore why feeling anxious or hurt in friendships can be just as profound as in romances. Discover the dynamics of anxious, avoidant, and fearful avoidant individuals and how they influence interactions. Learn the importance of honest communication for overcoming conflicts and deepening connections. Reflect on your own friendship experiences and find strategies to navigate your emotional needs with clarity and compassion.
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Aug 12, 2025 • 22min

#201: How to Actually Heal from a Breakup

Ending a relationship can unearth deep wounds, especially for those with anxious attachment. Discover the importance of grieving fully and differentiating it from mere rumination. Learn how the stories we tell ourselves shape our suffering post-breakup. Embrace powerful self-closure and the lessons learned for future relationships. This journey isn’t just about surviving heartbreak but finding your way back to clarity and compassion. Heal with intention and courage, whatever your breakup history.
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Aug 5, 2025 • 23min

#200: How to Like Yourself More

A deep dive into self-acceptance reveals practical ways to foster self-love. The discussion emphasizes identifying misalignments with personal values and the power of boundaries in building self-trust. Listeners learn to recognize toxic influences in their lives and the importance of prioritizing their own well-being. Engaging with actionable steps, the focus shifts from abstract self-love to cultivating a version of oneself that inspires pride and authenticity.
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Jul 30, 2025 • 54min

#199: How Our Early Imprints Shape Our Lives & Relationships with Lael Stone

In this episode, I’m joined by educator, speaker, and author Lael Stone to explore the powerful role that early imprints play in shaping the stories we carry — about ourselves, others, and the world around us.We dive into how our earliest experiences — especially within our family system — inform the narratives we unconsciously live by. We talk about what it means to bring those stories into conscious awareness, and how to begin rewriting the ones that no longer serve us.Whether you’re deep in your healing journey or just beginning to explore your inner world, this conversation is a reminder that we’re not defined by our past — and that we have the power to tell a new story.Connect with Lael StoneInstagram: @laelstoneWebsite: laelstone.com.auPurchase Lael's new book, Own Your StoryHighlighted Links Free Break-Up Training: The 3 Shifts That Help Anxiously Attached People Heal After a Break-up How to Heal Anxious Attachment and (Finally) Feel Secure in Life & Love Additional Resources Download the FREE Anxious Attachment Starter Kit here Join my email list 💌 Explore my library of free guides, classes & meditations Visit my website
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Jul 22, 2025 • 22min

#198: What Anxiously Attached People Need to Thrive in a Relationship

When you have an anxious attachment style, it can be hard to know what you actually need to feel secure — especially if past relationships have left you second-guessing yourself or trying to manage your anxiety by suppressing your needs.In this episode, we’re exploring five key ingredients that help anxiously attached people thrive in relationships. These aren’t about seeking constant reassurance or outsourcing your self-worth — they’re about being in relational environments that support security, growth, and genuine connection.What we cover in this episode:How consistency supports nervous system regulation and builds trust over timeThe importance of emotional validation in helping you feel understood and connectedWhy clear and reliable communication matters more than constant contactThe role of safe conflict in creating long-term security and repairHow having a shared vision helps settle the fear of uncertainty and misalignmentWhether you’re currently dating or in a relationship, this episode will help you get clearer on what’s supportive for you — and how to recognise when your needs are being met versus when you’re stuck in a cycle of over-functioning or hoping for crumbs.Highlighted Links Free Break-Up Training: The 3 Shifts That Help Anxiously Attached People Heal After a Break-up How to Heal Anxious Attachment and (Finally) Feel Secure in Life & Love Additional Resources Download the FREE Anxious Attachment Starter Kit here Join my email list 💌 Explore my library of free guides, classes & meditations Visit my website
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Jul 15, 2025 • 22min

#197: What Avoidant People Need to Thrive in a Relationship

In today’s episode, we’re exploring what avoidant attached people actually need to feel safe and secure in a relationship — and how partners can support that without self-abandoning.Avoidant attachment is often misunderstood — labelled as cold, distant, or commitment-phobic. But when we look beneath those surface-level behaviours, what we often find is a deep need for space, safety, and self-reliance.We’ll cover:Why space needs to be respected, not punishedThe importance of having a partner who can self-regulate rather than emotionally offloadHow clear, direct, and honest communication builds safetyThe value of each partner having a full, meaningful life outside the relationshipWhy pacing matters — and how moving too fast can trigger shutdownBalancing lightness and heaviness Whether you’re avoidant yourself or in a relationship with someone who is, this episode will help you better understand the conditions that allow these relationships to thrive.Highlighted Links Free Break-Up Training: The 3 Shifts That Help Anxiously Attached People Heal After a Break-up How to Heal Anxious Attachment and (Finally) Feel Secure in Life & Love Additional Resources Download the FREE Anxious Attachment Starter Kit here Join my email list 💌 Explore my library of free guides, classes & meditations Visit my website
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Jul 8, 2025 • 19min

#196: How & Why We Self-Abandon in Relationships

Explore the intricate dance between the fear of abandonment and self-abandonment in relationships. Discover how anxious attachment can lead to neglecting your own needs while striving for connection. Delve into the costs of disconnecting from your truth and the vital importance of cultivating a healthy relationship with yourself. Uncover why recognizing these patterns is the first step towards healing and developing more authentic connections.
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Jul 1, 2025 • 11min

#195: Two Simple Principles for a Healthy Nervous System

Discover the surprising truth about nervous system health—not just relaxation, but also deliberate stress exposure. Learn how to build resilience and capacity by balancing activation with recovery. Explore the necessity of nourishing yourself through rest and co-regulation, and reflect on your current support strategies. This insightful conversation offers a compassionate reframe on emotional well-being, perfect for anyone feeling burnt out or curious about nervous system care.
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Jun 24, 2025 • 19min

#194: When You Don’t Feel Like a Priority in Your Relationship

Feeling sidelined in relationships? This discussion dives into the challenges faced by those with anxious attachment, highlighting the emotional toll of feeling unchosen. It unpacks how these dynamics often play out, especially in anxious-avoidant partnerships. Listeners will learn about the roots of these feelings and practical strategies to reclaim personal power. Discover ways to foster healthier interactions and enhance self-worth, whether you're navigating current relationships or reflecting on past experiences.
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Jun 17, 2025 • 12min

#193: The Gifts of Anxious Attachment

Discover the hidden treasures of anxious attachment! This discussion reveals how traits like emotional attunement and loyalty can transform struggles into strengths. Learn to navigate the intricacies of relationships by embracing your unique qualities. Gain insights on shifting from a fear-based mentality to secure self-expression, and uncover how to acknowledge the beauty within yourself. It's a journey of recognition and empowerment for those seeking healthier connections.

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