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The Psychology of your 20s

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26 snips
Nov 8, 2024 • 36min

246. How to cope with political anxiety

Political anxiety is running high, but there's hope. The discussion emphasizes stoicism and the importance of focusing on what you can control. Mindful consumption of news and the dangers of doomscrolling are examined. Grounding techniques, such as reconnecting with nature, are highlighted as essential for mental balance. Community support and healthy conversations about politics are also encouraged, showing that amidst uncertainty, inner peace is achievable.
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17 snips
Nov 4, 2024 • 43min

245. The psychology of the middle child

Middle children often feel overlooked, navigating the unique challenges of their family position. Their agreeable nature makes them natural conflict mediators, but this can lead to resentment over time. The discussion highlights their independence and how they navigate friendships, relationships, and workplace dynamics. Plus, insights into the complexities when there are multiple middle children add depth to understanding their experiences. Strategies for reparenting middle children are also explored, offering guidance for growth and healing.
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32 snips
Nov 1, 2024 • 38min

244. 5 steps for creating a 'soft life'

Discover the concept of a 'soft life' that prioritizes joy and simplicity over hustle culture. Explore five practical steps to embrace this lifestyle, including innovative ways to approach your to-do list and the importance of regulating your nervous system. Learn about savoring small moments and mindful living to enhance well-being. The discussion also touches on gut health and reconnecting with nature for better mental health. Redefining success and engaging in community practices are highlighted as key components of a more fulfilling life.
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41 snips
Oct 29, 2024 • 37min

243. Why having hobbies is so important

Discover why hobbies are just as crucial as friendships in your 20s. Delve into the psychological benefits of engaging in leisure activities and the challenges many face in prioritizing them. Explore the 'Rule of Four' to help you balance time and motivation for personal interests. Uncover how hobbies can enhance fulfillment and happiness, transforming your experiences during this decade. Learn the three major obstacles to pursuing your passions and ways to conquer them, ensuring you make the most of your leisure time!
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30 snips
Oct 25, 2024 • 41min

242. The psychology of maladaptive daydreaming

Discover the intriguing world of maladaptive daydreaming, where fantasy can overshadow reality. The hosts discuss its emotional toll, how it often emerges from childhood experiences, and its links to anxiety and OCD. They explore signs to watch for, providing a 16-item scale to gauge severity. Learn how to transform unproductive daydreams into motivational visualization techniques, encouraging personal growth and goal achievement. Strategies for managing these escapist tendencies are also shared, promoting healthier coping mechanisms.
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30 snips
Oct 22, 2024 • 39min

241. Are we our own worst critic?

The podcast delves into the harsh reality of being our own worst critic. It explores how self-criticism is rooted in childhood experiences and societal pressures. The conversation highlights the role of social media in exacerbating these feelings, encouraging listeners to embrace radical self-compassion. Techniques like cognitive diffusion are discussed to help combat negative self-talk. Ultimately, it emphasizes the need for self-acceptance and recognizing that others are not scrutinizing us as closely as we think.
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48 snips
Oct 17, 2024 • 35min

240. Overcoming dating burnout

Dating in your 20s can feel like an exhausting whirlwind, often leading to burnout. Discover the signs of dating fatigue and how swipe-based apps can amplify loneliness. The discussion covers the emotional toll of repeated disappointments and emphasizes the importance of self-care. Learn practical tips to transform dating into a fun experience and the benefits of taking a break for self-rediscovery. It's a reminder that the journey of finding love should be exciting, not just a checklist.
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29 snips
Oct 14, 2024 • 35min

239. What is the 'loneliest' chapter of our 20s?

In the journey through your 20s, loneliness often strikes, leading to feelings of detachment. This podcast delves into the reasons behind this so-called 'loneliest chapter' and personal stories of isolation. Listeners learn to embrace solitude as a pathway to self-discovery, gaining insight into the benefits of loneliness. It also offers practical tips for making new connections and highlights the importance of self-care. Discover how to navigate these emotional challenges and emerge with a stronger sense of self.
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23 snips
Oct 11, 2024 • 45min

238. High functioning codependency and caring too much ft. Terri Cole

Terri Cole, a psychotherapist and boundary expert, dives deep into high-functioning codependency, a phenomenon often seen in overachievers and people-pleasers. She unpacks how caring too much can strain relationships and mask underlying control issues. Terri shares personal stories from her journey and emphasizes the importance of setting boundaries. The conversation also touches on familial dynamics and the emotional toll of managing expectations, urging listeners to prioritize self-care and foster healthier connections.
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35 snips
Oct 8, 2024 • 38min

237. The psychology of shame

Shame grips many, impacting identities and choices, especially in our twenties. The discussion reveals how shame intertwines with trauma and self-worth. It differentiates between shame and guilt, highlighting their hidden manifestations. Listeners learn methods to connect with their inner child, manage shame spirals, and cultivate self-compassion. Personal stories like body shaming underscore the struggle, but the journey toward releasing shame promises a more fulfilling life. Embracing authenticity and self-acceptance emerges as a key takeaway.

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