Earn Your Happy

Growth doesn’t come from getting it right every time. It comes from staying in the game when things go wrong. In this Best of 2025 He Said She Said episode, Chris and I are bringing together three conversations that shaped us the most this year. We’re talking about the moments that tested us, the risks that stretched us, and the rooms that changed how we think, lead, and live. We share stories behind our most cringe-worthy business moments, why your comeback rate matters more than perfection, what Ferrari, Pagani, and Europe taught us about risk and legacy, and how building the right mastermind can collapse timelines faster than anything else we’ve ever done. Tune in for the mindset shifts you need to recover faster and choose better rooms. Check out our Sponsors: Shopify - Start your $1/month trial at Shopify.com/happy SKIMS - The SKIMS Holiday Shop is now open at SKIMS.com. Let them know we sent you by choosing Earn Your Happy podcast in the dropdown after you purchase. Brevo - Head to brevo.com/happy and use the code HAPPY to get 50% off Starter and Business Plans for the first 3 months of an annual subscription. Aura Frames - save on the perfect gift at AuraFrames.com - get $35 off Aura’s best-selling Carver Mat frames with promo code EARN at checkout. Northwest Registered Agent - Build your complete business identity in just 10 clicks and 10 minutes. Visit www.northwestregisteredagent.com/paidearn Blinds.com - The Black Friday deals at Blinds.com are going strong all month long! Save $50 off when you spend $500 or more - use code EARN at checkout.  HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 Why your comeback rate matters more than avoiding mistakes. 04:15 The Chris fit that accidentally made it into a paid course. 10:15 My nightmare interview where I called Natalie Ellis the wrong name. 12:45 The time Chris thought he was muting coughs, but the recording caught it all. 20:30 The priceless gift of Chris’s Italy trip with his brother. 25:30 Proof that your business can grow without you hovering. 33:30  The Ferrari story that reframes failure and legacy. 38:00 Why staying trapped in “good” keeps you from “great”. 43:45 Why staying rooted and letting your partner chase their experiences matters. 46:45 How honoring different seasons strengthens your relationship. 50:00 How do you help your mastermind members stay engaged and consistent? 57:30 How to design programs that deliver real, lasting results. 01:01:00 Why masterminds thrive when you create opportunities for leadership. RESOURCES Join the Mentor Collective Waitlist HERE! Apply for the VIP Weekend Mastermind HERE! Join the Audacity Challenge HERE! Check out our FREE 90-Day Business Blueprint HERE! Listen to my free SECRET PODCASTS SERIES - Operation: Rekindle This B*tch Get glōci HERE Use code: HAPPY at checkout for 25% off! FOLLOW Follow me: @loriharder Follow Chris: @chriswharder Follow glōci: @getgloci

High performers often feel overwhelmed as their plans crumble in unexpected ways. The hosts share a powerful glassblower metaphor, suggesting that meltdowns can lead to greater transformation. Chris reflects on his own career crisis and the blessings of forced change. They emphasize the value of choosing reinvention on one's own terms for a first-mover advantage. Additionally, the discussion highlights the benefits of guided growth through coaching and mastermind groups, setting the stage for launching new ideas in the upcoming year.

Andi Eaton Alleman, Founder and CEO of Oui, We Studio and creator of Casa Noon skincare, shares her insights on brand visibility and strategy for female entrepreneurs. She discusses the importance of having a strong point of view and how being too generic can hinder growth. Andi highlights the necessity for founders to connect authentically with their audience and strategize their online presence. Plus, she shares her journey launching a skincare brand during the pandemic, emphasizing the value of community and personal stories in branding.

Discover the art of conversation as a learnable skill that deepens connections. Explore the TALK framework, which emphasizes thoughtful topics, asking questions, and levity to foster trust. Learn how remembering details can strengthen relationships and how asking the right questions can make you more likable. Dive into the importance of creating emotional safety and the transformative power of well-structured conversations for networking and opportunities. Get ready to elevate every dialogue you engage in!

Embrace pain as a powerful motivator and a catalyst for growth. Imagine future regret to fuel your drive toward big goals. Reframe discomfort as essential training, not punishment. Beware of loved ones who may inadvertently sabotage your dreams and establish boundaries when needed. Remember, stability is an illusion—bet on yourself and act boldly. Readiness is a choice made in fear, and faith is built through hardship. Persist through rejection and invest in mentorship to accelerate your journey.

Holidays often feel rushed and surface-level, but intentional traditions can change that. Discover how to transform gatherings with meaningful conversations and the Holiday Power Nine ritual, focusing on gratitudes, excitements, and manifestations. Learn about creative keepsakes like personalized ornaments that turn into lasting memories. Facing family resistance? Simplifying rituals can help ease everyone in. Ultimately, it's all about scheduling and facilitating these traditions yearly to create cherished memories that will last a lifetime.

Join Robin Long, Founder and CEO of Lindywell, as she shares her journey from a punitive approach to fitness to embracing Pilates for sustainable wellness. Discover why high achievers often burn out and how Pilates can help recalibrate the nervous system. Robin emphasizes the power of doing less with intention, redefining consistency through short workouts, and the importance of self-compassion. She also introduces the Nourished Reset, focusing on nutrition that nourishes rather than restricts. Get ready to transform your mindset and energy!

Prepare for success in 2026 by focusing on clarity and your unique message, rather than chasing fleeting trends. Learn to build a powerful brand that teaches your thought process and stands out with energy and conviction. Upgrade your circle to boost business thinking and leverage storytelling, as personal narratives resonate where AI falls short. Simplify your offers to tackle one clear problem and strategize for the long game. Get ready to launch your dreams with fresh energy and build systems that lead to consistent growth!

Feeling disconnected? It's normal, and there's a way to reignite your spark! Explore how self-discipline and self-love can rebuild confidence. Learn that taking on challenges fuels growth and embracing discomfort is essential for renewal. Discover practical tips for tackling common obstacles and the importance of surrounding yourself with ambitious peers. Remember, your spark isn't gone; it's just buried. Commit to reclaiming your dreams and show up to meet life head-on—because now is the time for action!

Business insights can come from the most unexpected places, like the pickleball court. Learn why readiness trumps luck and how mastering the fundamentals is more valuable than raw talent. The importance of focusing on your plans instead of obsessing over results is highlighted, reminding us that the right mindset leads to success. Lastly, surrounding yourself with a higher caliber of mentors can significantly boost your growth prospects. Get ready to level up your approach to both life and work!