The Dr. Psych Mom Show with clinical psychologist Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten

Brandi Stupica, a Developmental Psychology PhD turned real estate professional, shares her poignant journey of recovery from betrayal trauma after her husband came out as transgender. She candidly discusses the decline of intimacy in her marriage and how attachment theory shaped her choices. Brandi highlights the pivotal moment of discovery, her emotional collapse, and her use of EMDR and IFS therapy for healing. With a blend of humor and honesty, she reflects on rebuilding her life, dating with caution, and the impactful lessons learned through her experience.

Duane Osterlind, a seasoned Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Certified Sex Addiction Therapist, dives deep into the world of sex addiction. He defines terms like 'deceptive sexuality' and explains its links to betrayal trauma and PTSD. Listeners learn about intimacy disorders and the impact of childhood trauma on compulsive sexual behavior. Duane emphasizes the importance of accountability in repairing relationships and tackling the shame surrounding addiction. His insights on internet porn's influence on younger clients also shed light on evolving challenges in therapy.

In this engaging discussion, Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten humorously tackles the dynamics of household roles, coining the term 'CFO' for partners who don't contribute beyond certain expectations. She explores how many women feel overloaded as the 'CEO' at home and why this can lead to dissatisfaction. The conversation dives into the impact of ADHD on home and work responsibilities, linking sexual motivation and resentment in intimate relationships. Dr. Samantha emphasizes the need for equitable division of tasks, advocating for empathy and shared responsibility to foster healthier connections.

Explore the dynamics of relationships where men often over-function, seeking love through actions rather than emotional connection. Discover how this behavior can devalue partners, making them feel more like service providers than equals. Learn the importance of asking for help and allowing partners to care for you, transforming the relationship from transactional to reciprocal. Dr. Samantha offers practical tips on how to ask for support and discusses the root causes of compulsive self-reliance.

In this lively discussion, Laura How, a UK-based relationship counselor, and Dr. Samantha explore the impact of parenthood on love, highlighting how children redefine emotional capacities. They tackle the importance of small gestures in relationships and the dynamics of sharing domestic chores over time. Laura shares insights on gendered parenting and the challenges of prioritizing partners amid parenting. They also debate the necessity of relationship education and reflect on the significance of surrounding oneself with pro-marriage influences.

In this lively chat, Dr. Amanda Akers, a psychoanalytic clinician at Best Life Behavioral Health, dives into the nuances of psychoanalytic therapy. She busts common myths, emphasizing that it surpasses CBT in understanding emotional depth. Amanda discusses how childhood experiences shape adult relationships and the pivotal role of the therapist-client dynamic. They also touch on the 'couple's world' concept, exploring compatibility markers and the importance of vulnerability in therapy. Get ready for laughs and insights into profound psychological shifts!

Tehilla Luttig, a licensed mental health clinician and therapist, specializes in infidelity and attachment issues. In a compelling discussion, she explores who cheats and why, debunking myths surrounding infidelity. Tehilla delves into the impact of attachment styles on cheating behavior, highlights the importance of transparency in rebuilding trust, and outlines phases couples go through after an affair. They also discuss the complex choices couples face post-infidelity and how rebuilding intimacy can sometimes lead to a stronger connection.

Many guys have no idea how women internalize the idea that if you tell a man anything about his penis that isn't positive, you will destroy his self-esteem and his penis will never work again and IT WILL BE ALL HER FAULT! Today's episode discusses the origin of this idea, how it sabotages open communication and connection, and how to get over this myth and move forward (unless you tend to take everything personally, which will also be addressed)!Join the Midlife Women's group here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠drpsychmom.com/mwg⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Subscribe if you love the DPM show! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://creators.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes! Most recent: "How Does Your Wife Feel About Your Default Sex Positions?"For my secret Facebook group, the "best money I've ever spent" according to numerous members: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/drpsychmom⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠For coaching from DPM, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.drpsychmom.com/coaching/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠For therapy or coaching, contact us at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Got a comment on Facebook on a post about how a common mistake people make in their 40s is not allotting enough time to foreplay. This guy said: "It's not people, it's women who need the foreplay. Let's keep things accurate if we are going to educate." I always do aim to educate and give accurate info, so here's a deeper dive into what I see in practice in terms of men and foreplay!Join the Midlife Women's group here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠drpsychmom.com/mwg⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Subscribe if you love the DPM show! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://creators.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes! Most recent: "The Parenting Long Game... You May Be A Better Parent As Your Kids Get Older!"For my secret Facebook group, the "best money I've ever spent" according to numerous members: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/drpsychmom⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠For coaching from DPM, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.drpsychmom.com/coaching/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠For therapy or coaching, contact us at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

The death of your parent(s) is a significant life event, and can lead to tremendous change in your self-concept. No matter how old you are, this makes you recognize that you are truly older, and the top generation. This was one topic we discussed this past week in the midlife women's group, and it resonated with many, whether or not you're close to your parent. And join the Midlife Women's group here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠drpsychmom.com/mwg⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Subscribe if you love the DPM show! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://creators.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes! Most recent: "The Parenting Long Game... You May Be A Better Parent As Your Kids Get Older!"For my secret Facebook group, the "best money I've ever spent" according to numerous members: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/drpsychmom⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠For coaching from DPM, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.drpsychmom.com/coaching/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠For therapy or coaching, contact us at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠