

Coaching for Leaders
Dave Stachowiak
Leaders aren’t born; they’re made. Many leaders reach points in their careers where what worked yesterday doesn’t work today. This Monday show helps leaders thrive at these key inflection points. Independently produced weekly since 2011, Dr. Dave Stachowiak shares insights from a decade of leading a global leadership academy, plus more than 15 years of leadership at Dale Carnegie. Bestselling authors, proven leaders, expert thinkers, and deep conversation have attracted 50 million downloads and over 300,000 followers. Join the FREE membership to search the entire leadership and management library by topic at CoachingforLeaders.com
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Dec 22, 2014 • 30min
172: How to Handle Workplace Bullying, with Jill Morgenthaler
Jill Morgenthaler: The Courage to Take Command
“I’m not going to change the culture, but I can adjust the behavior.” -Jill Morgenthaler
Sometimes bullies don’t know they’re bullies.
Ensure that we don’t become the bullies ourselves.
Aggressiveness vs. assertiveness.
When people starting to show disrespect, he would stop it immediately.
Hang back and watch when moving into a new situation.
Ask people how they want to be rewarded.
Never ask anyone something that you’re not willing to do.
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Dec 15, 2014 • 35min
171: Five Ways to Avoid Living With Regret, with Allison Clarke
Allison Clarke: What Will They Say?
Allison Clarke attended 30 funerals in 60 days with the intention to discover how to live without regret. She captured her discovered in the book What Will They Say? and shared her key findings during this conversation.
Key Points
1. Listen and lead others to their own answers.
2. Remember the value of face-to-face communication.
3. Do something unique and special for someone.
4. Make time for important people in your life.
5. Bring your courage to the forefront.
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Dec 8, 2014 • 37min
170: How to Develop Strategic Skills, with Bonni Stachowiak
Bonni and Dave dive into the development of strategic skills essential for effective leadership. They discuss the transition from technical tasks to broader strategic thinking and the significance of effective executive communication. Storytelling emerges as a vital tool for fostering collaboration, along with the need for tailor-made training programs. Listeners gain insights on personal leadership and self-assessment methods like SWOT analysis, all while feeling empowered to enhance their own leadership journeys through community engagement.

Dec 1, 2014 • 35min
169: Six Ways to Recover From a Bad First Impression, with John Corcoran
John Corcoran
If you make a bad first impression, all is not lost. John Corcoran and I detail six things you can do when the first impression doesn’t land.
Key Points
1. Decide Whether or Not to Take Action
2. Take Swift Action and Apologize Immediately
3. Admit Your Mistake, but Don’t Dwell on It
4. Apologize Later, Even If Time Has Passed
5. Pivot
6. Be Consistent Over Time
John appeared previously on two other episodes:
How to Create Your Personal Networking Plan (episode 106)
The Practical Pursuit of Work-Life Balance (episode 123)
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Nov 24, 2014 • 44min
168: Three Hot Spots in Employment Law, with Laura Schiesl Vega
Laura Schiesl Vega, Partner, Molever Conelly PLLC
1. Social media
One general best practice is to have a social media policy if you don’t already have one.
Social media guidelines from the National Labor Relations board (see pages 22-24)
2. Employment classification
Independent contractor vs. employees
United States Department of Labor 6-factor economic realities test
United States Department of Labor on independent contractors
Internal Revenue Service Section 530 relief requirements
California Department of Industrial Relations on worker misclassification
3. Wages and hours
United States Department of Labor Overtime Pay Requirements of the FLSA
Connect with Laura Schiesl on LinkedIn
Dave recommended the book Law 101* by Jay Feinman.
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Nov 17, 2014 • 34min
167: How to Hire the Best Fit, with Kelly Studer
Kelly Studer
Dave mentioned episode #153 with Bill Bliss on How to Start with Succession Planning
“I got a bit of a reputation for being a tough, scary interviewer, and I learned over time that that wasn’t necessarily the best approach.” -Kelly Studer
Share some of your own vulnerability and have a real conversation about some of the work they may be involved in.
A great starting point is StrengthsFinder 2.0 Check out episode #89 with Steven Dosier on the Value of the StrengthsFinder Assessment.
“The only thing worse than training someone and losing them is not training them and keeping them.” -Zig Ziglar
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Nov 10, 2014 • 34min
166: How to Work in Different Cultures, with Nathan Czubaj
Nathan Czubaj: Emails from Mumbai
I wanted go somewhere that would really be different…that I could learn most about the world and most about myself.
Preparation
Talking to people is most helpful.
Pick up some of the language, at least the greetings and please/thank you.
Give yourself time for the mental preparation.
“I’m never going to find the things that I’m used to. I need to get used to the things that I can have.” -Nathan Czubaj
“I didn’t need all the things that I thought I needed. My definition of wants and needs changed radically.” -Nathan Czubaj
Obstacles
Some of the obstacles are how people do business that you would never expect.
It was hard to impose my way of doing things and our Western way.
People don’t always trust Westerners.
What you’ve been successful with back home doesn’t necessarily translate.
Attitudes and Behaviors
I had to forget that I was an American and try to be a local.
“Today is going to be more memorable than the most memorable day all year back home. I’m going to learn more today than I would in a typical month back home.” -Nathan Czubaj
100% of the proceeds from Emails from Mumbai* are going to benefit iSanctuary, an organization that works in India to help end the global challenge of human trafficking.
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Nov 3, 2014 • 38min
165: Trying to Be Everything to Everybody, with Bonni Stachowiak
Bonni Stachowiak: Teaching in Higher Ed
Bonni is the host of the Teaching in Higher Ed podcast, Dean of Teaching and Learning and Professor of Business and Management at Vanguard University, and my life partner. Prior to her academic career, she was a human resources consultant and executive officer for a publicly traded company. Bonni is the author of The Productive Online and Offline Professor: A Practical Guide*.
Patricia says she’s struggling with working with and working for micromanagers
Bonni mentioned Drive by Daniel Pink*
Wally asks, “Have you addressed the topic of leaders who believe their executive team can be productive by competing with each other rather than working as a team?”
Bonni mentioned Susan Gerke’s recent appearances on the show:
138: The Four Unique Types of Teams
139: How To Maximize Team Performance
Dave mentioned the Five Dysfunctions of a Team by Patrick Lencioni
Mike says he’s struggling finding enough time in the day to be everything to everyone. He says he also knows that’s impossible.
“I do for the few what I wish I could do for everyone.” -Andy Stanley
Dave mentioned OmniFocus, his task management system of choice.
Bonni mentioned Michael Hyatt’s ideal week strategy, which Bonni and Dave both use
What about networking?
Dave suggests setting up a basic LinkedIn profile as a starting point
Dave mentioned past show 101: How to Get the Most from LinkedIn with Donna Schilder
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Oct 27, 2014 • 45min
164: How to Handle a Boss Who’s a Jerk, with Tom Henschel
In this discussion, executive coach Tom Henschel, a specialist in leadership presence, shares invaluable insights on dealing with difficult bosses. He emphasizes the importance of distinguishing personal mismatches from genuine workplace issues. Tom guides listeners on how to give constructive feedback without emotional baggage and highlights the futility of trying to change a boss’s behavior. When managing chaotic or narcissistic bosses, he suggests maintaining calm, taking notes, and framing concerns as business-related, underscoring the need for external support.

Oct 20, 2014 • 32min
163: Promote Yourself Through Intrapreneurship, with Dan Schwabel
Dan Schwabel: Promote Yourself
“Smart companies create a good internal culture, and then it becomes really easy for them to communicate to the outside world.” -Dan Schwabel
Practical Action or Advice
Bring reverse mentoring into your next mentorship conversation or program
Ensure that senior leaders are engaged with you next initiative before proceeding
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