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Dave Stachowiak
Leaders aren’t born, they’re made. This Monday show helps you discover leadership wisdom through insightful conversations. Independently produced weekly since 2011, Dr. Dave Stachowiak brings perspective from a thriving, global leadership academy, plus more than 15 years of leadership at Dale Carnegie. Bestselling authors, expert researchers, deep conversation, and regular dialogue with listeners have attracted 40 million downloads and over 250K followers on Spotify and Apple Podcasts. Activate your FREE membership to access the entire leadership and management library at CoachingforLeaders.com
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Aug 11, 2014 • 38min
153: Where to Start with Succession Planning, with Bill Bliss
Bill Bliss, Success In the C-Suite, discusses the myths and stopping points of succession planning. He emphasizes the importance of investing time and money in developing leaders and recommends a multi-faceted approach including mentorship, experiential leadership, and coaching. Backup succession plans are necessary, and legacy leaders should develop interests outside the organization. Leaders must subordinate their pride and ego for organizational success. It's crucial to have a clear vision for the organization's future and identify necessary leadership skills.

Aug 4, 2014 • 38min
152: Where Are You Going in Your Career, with Bonni Stachowiak
Bonni Stachowiak: Teaching in Higher Ed
Bonni is the host of the Teaching in Higher Ed podcast, Dean of Teaching and Learning and Professor of Business and Management at Vanguard University, and my life partner. Prior to her academic career, she was a human resources consultant and executive officer for a publicly traded company. Bonni is the author of The Productive Online and Offline Professor: A Practical Guide*.
Bonni mentioned the This American Life show titled Trends With Benefits, citing a disability story from Hale County, Alabama.
Question from Aaron
During a one-on-one meeting my boss asked me where I wanted to go in my career, and I didn't have an answer for him. More concerning was that I didn't have an answer for myself. He recommended that I have a five year plan, and he gave me a few ideas to considers. With so many paths - both inside and outside my company - where do I begin?
Your 90th birthday party
Your ideal day or week
What Color Is Your Parachute* by Richard N. Bolles
Question from Birger
“'After observing O Sensei, the founder of Aikido, sparring with an accomplished fighter, a young student said to the master, 'You never lose your balance. What is your secret?' 'You are wrong,” Ōsensei replied. 'I am constantly losing my balance. My skill lies in my ability to regain it.'”
Also see Coaching for Leaders episode #123 with John Corcoran
Question from Mike
I have started to set expectations and coaching within role, but I am finding it very difficult to get any engagement with anything I do. It feels like I am the outsider and they would quite like to leave it that way. I have looked for quick wins and found a few but again they seems to be disengagement, a different perspective may be good. What your thoughts?
Leading Change* by John Kotter
Five Dysfunctions of a Team* by Patrick Lencioni
Question from Danielle
I just started my job and am really excited to hit the ground running with a lot of on-going projects. One theme in particular that is highly important and consistent in my current assignments is the concept of Customer Retention Strategy. I just need to know (1) In your personal/professional experience, have there been any particular practices or techniques you have implemented that have proven successful and (2) are there any resources/materials you may suggest that would prove useful for my research? (e.g. books, articles, videos)
Fish!* by Stephen Lundin, Harry Paul, and John Christensen
Net Promoter Community
Crush It!* by Gary Vaynerchuk
The Lean Startup* by Eric Ries
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Jul 28, 2014 • 36min
151: How to Be More Productive, with Tim Stringer
Tim Stringer: Holistic Productivity
“There’s only two problems in life. Either you don’t know where you’re going or you don’t know the next step.” -Tim Stringer, paraphrasing David Allen
Tim recommended Tony Schwartz's book Be Excellent At Anything*
Step 1 - Reflection
Tim recommends journaling to separate the noise from what’s most important
The Day One app* is an excellent resource for this
Step 2 - Accepting life as is
Step 3 - Focus on one thing
A positive shift in one area of life will influence many other areas
It’s a lot easier to get early wins by starting with one area first
Step 4 - Inspired action
Work on a specific action for a 90-day period
Think a strategize about your action like it’s already occurred
Strategies
Name projects the define the objective
Due dates only when things are actually due
Resources
OmniFocus for the Mac* and iPhone*
LearnOmniFocus.com
Holistic Productivity Courses
Holistic Productivity from The Omni Group on Vimeo.
Practical action
Try journaling for a week
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Jul 21, 2014 • 36min
150: Three Steps to Take After You Conduct a Survey, with Bonni Stachowiak
Bonni Stachowiak: Teaching in Higher Ed
Bonni is the host of the Teaching in Higher Ed podcast, Dean of Teaching and Learning and Professor of Business and Management at Vanguard University, and my life partner. Prior to her academic career, she was a human resources consultant and executive officer for a publicly traded company. Bonni is the author of The Productive Online and Offline Professor: A Practical Guide*.
1. Thank people
Dave used Surveymonkey.com for the listener survey
2. Share the results
Resources for visualizing results
Column Five
Piktochart
Demographics
Over 100 people participated
40% have graduate degrees
75% of listeners are managers
Of those, 60% have managed five years or more
Findings
Dave needs to be more concise (introductions and show length)
People want to continue to hear more advice for practical action
People like and want more Q&A
3. Take action
Show length will be 30-40 minutes
Advice or practical action at the end of each episode
Question and answer show the first Monday of the month (submit your question)
Bonni started a podcast!
The Teaching In Higher Ed podcast is live on iTunes and Stitcher
Practical action
Thank someone who has completed something for you that has not yet been thanked
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Jul 14, 2014 • 29min
149: An Astronaut’s Guide to Life on Earth, with Chris Hadfield
Chris Hadfield: An Astronaut's Guide to Life on Earth
Author of the New York Times Bestseller:
An Astronaut's Guide to Life on Earth: What Going To Space Taught Me About Ingenuity, Determination, and Being Prepared for Anything*
“So many people in life, maybe without even acknowledging it to themselves, let fear dictate a lot of their decision-making.” -Chris Hadfield
Some keys to balancing sweating the small stuff and avoiding micromanagement
Visualize it going perfectly
Visualize failure before it has happened
What’s the most likely 10 things to go wrong?
Let’s simulate them and figure out how we will react to them
Then run the simulation again to find the best plan and change behavior
Aim to be a zero
Begin by soaking up what’s going on and seeing what’s happening
Recognize the necessity to become educated and understand the subtleties of the environment
How to be successful at work and have a personal and private life that is successful and balanced
Clearly understand what people are trying to accomplish in a family
Make nobody’s sense of self worth dependent on anyone else’s identity
The good intentions of the day are always often sacrificed on the altar of reality
How successful people deal with the “what’s next?” question
“If I had ever said to myself that the only part about this job that I like, or that is worthwhile, or that is satisfying -- is spaceflight, then I would have hated my life.” -Chris Hadfield
What really matters is what I am doing today
Question: How will you define success today?
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Jul 7, 2014 • 39min
148: The Four Critical Stories Leaders Need For Influence, with David Hutchens
David Hutchens: The Storytelling Leaders
Leaders often hear about influence through storytelling, but don't know where to start. David Hutchens shares four stories to tell and how to get started.
“It’s more important to tell a strategic story, to tell the right story, even if you don’t tell it particularly well.” -David Hutchens
The starting point of telling stories is permission
Storytelling is a skill that nobody really has to learn since it’s our natural language
Leaders needs to give themselves permission to tell a story in their organization
The 4 stories leaders need to tell
Who we are stories - what it means to be us
Think about the stories parents and caregivers told you when you were young about what it was like growing up for them
When we do this, we impart information about what we believe and who we are today
Every organization and team has an origin story
David shared the origin story of General Electric
A story from a leader always has a reason for telling it
What are the identity and origin stories that you have?
Vision stories - the future we desire
These stories should be told in present tense language
You can tell a story about somebody else that is already doing what it is you envision
You might tell a story about someone else if it’s a big jump from where the organization is today
Values in action stories - how the espoused values show up in our organization
David mentioned Zappos and the stories they create about customer service
The stories being told also affect how members of the organization make future choices
The right story should reconnect people with why they really care about this work
Change and learning stories - the stories about a time we tried something and learned from it
This is generally the hardest story to tell
Think about the leaders you’ve loved and appreciated the most (the best ones do this well)
These stories can build culture and loyalty
David shared the failure story of New Coke
Here’s the structure:
I tried something
Here’s the bad result I got
Here’s why I got that bad result
Here’s how I’m now changing my behavior so I get a better result next time
Don’t try to change your voice and be a professional storyteller: talk like you
Resources Mentioned
GO Team program*
Leadership Story Deck* by David Hutchens
Circle of the 9 Muses: A Storytelling Field Guide for Innovators and Meaning Makers* by David Hutchens
David’s email: David@DavidHutchens.com
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Jun 30, 2014 • 47min
147: How to Be More Creative, with Todd Henry
Todd Henry: The Accidental Creative
“Creativity, at the heart of it, is problem solving.” -Todd Henry
“We are creatures of habit and creatures of comfort.” -Todd Henry
Focus is a key element of creative work
Those who are most effective can define their work very well.
Define your work by establishing challenges.
“When we start framing up work as problem statements rather than as projects, it completely changes the way that we approach the work itself.” -Todd Henry
Hours of work is important element of work and creativity to look at
“You’re not being paid for replying to emails quickly. You’re being paid for the value you contribute to the organization.” -Todd Henry
Most people don’t make dedicated time to think and process important things.
Stimulus makes a big difference in shifting your perspective and tapping into your creativity
If you want to have deep thoughts, immerse yourself in the minds of great people.
Books are hugs helps to do this, and not just business books.
Capture ideas in some way
Todd uses notecards to capture his ideas
Later, he’ll process which ideas are helpful or actionable
Todd has learned to use seasonal rhythms in order to be most effective
What’s one action you could take to be more creative?
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Jun 23, 2014 • 44min
146: Three Things to Stop Doing in Leadership, with Steve Richardson
Steve Richardson: Become a Better Leader in 30 Days*
“All leaders manage, but not all managers lead.” -Steve Richardson
Three things not to do when managing people
Avoid managing by suggestion
Managers do this when they don’t want to be accountable
What do people really want from leaders?
Direct
Decisive
Avoid managing by hoping
These managers maintain a positive attitude, but don’t really know how things are going
Employees learn that managers like this want to hear only good news
Avoid managing by redoing
Some managers take on the work of employees and will re-do it
This is trap for people who were the start performers in the previous role
We mentioned episode #117: The Seven Steps You Follow To Delegate Work
“Doing something well myself is different than doing something well through other people.” -Steve Richardson
Ask: How can I help you?
The response “fine” does not necessarily mean fine
Ask the next question to find out what’s really going on
Steve's triangle of managing people: Fair, Friendly, and Firm
One of these will typically take the lead in one situation
What does this person most need right now?
It takes tension to keep them in balance
Let intuition govern what takes the lead in any given situation
What should you stop doing?
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Jun 16, 2014 • 42min
145: Improve Your Writing with Practical Typography, with Matthew Butterick
Discover the world of practical typography with expert Matthew Butterick. Learn about font rankings, the impact of typographic choices in communication, and the one space vs. two debate. Explore the nuances of professional fonts and how typography can enhance writing skills.

Jun 9, 2014 • 49min
144: How We Do Things Around Here for Results, with Kent Rhodes
Kent Rhodes: The Family Business Consulting Group
Culture is how we do things around here. The three Levels of Culture from Edgar Schein
Artifacts
Espoused values
Underlying assumptions
Culture is difficult to identify when you are inside of it. Organizations confuse climate and culture:
Climate comes from the outside and tends to be more temporary
Culture is what is happening internally and more difficult to change
Resources
Books
Organizational Culture and Leadership* by Edgar Schein
Diagnosing and Changing Organizational Culture* by Kim Cameron and Robert Quinn
Articles
The Trader Joe's Experience by Mark Mallinger and Gerry Rossy
Recognizing Organizational Culture in Managing Change by Mark Mallinger, Don Goodwin, and Tetsuya O'Hara
The Competitive Advantage of Culture in a Family Business by Kelly LeCouvie and Kent Rhodes
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