

How to Get the Girl: By the Ask Women Podcast
Marni Kinrys & Kristen Carney
What do a female comic & banter coach and a professional wing girl have in common? The realistically raw and hilarious perspectives on what women ACTUALLY want in a man. Prepare to be offended and awed as Kristen Carney & Marni Kinrys take you through the uncensored and often ridiculous mind of a woman to help you better understand, appreciate, and avoid getting punched by the next girl you come across.
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Check out our other dating tools and advice: https://www.winggirlmethod.com and https://www.kristenandchilldating.com
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Mar 26, 2025 • 48min
Ep. 520 Finding Love Through Music w/ Rachel Van Nortwick of Vinylly
Can your taste in music lead you to love? In this episode, we’re joined by Rachel Van Nortwick, creator of the dating app Vinylly, to dive into the power of music in romantic connections. We explore why sharing playlists might be more telling than answering dating profile prompts and how musical chemistry can spark real-life attraction.Plus, we break down the transition from working together to dating - when it works, when it doesn’t, and how to navigate the shift without hitting a wrong note. If you’ve ever bonded over a band or wondered if your favorite song could lead you to your person, this episode is for you.Join Vinylly at https://vinyllyapp.com>>>To become the most witty, charming, attractive and polished version of yourself, apply to work with Kristen here: https://www.kristenandchilldating.com/coaching>>>Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni’s Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: https://winggirlmethod.com/letmehelpThis week's episode is brought to you by Beducated. Get an additional 10% off at https://beducate.me/pd2510-askwomenhttps://beducate.me/pd2510-askwomen

Mar 18, 2025 • 58min
Ep. 519 The Secret to Showing Confidence Women Can’t Ignore
Confidence isn’t just about what you say - it’s about how you say it. This week, we're joined by speaking empowerment coach Linda Ugelow, who reveals the subtle yet powerful ways you can show confidence to women through your voice, tonality, and presence while eliminating anxiety.Learn how to make women lean in, listen, and think, Wow, that guy is confident—without trying too hard. We break down the psychology behind vocal authority, the small shifts that make a big impact, and why confidence is one of the sexiest traits you can embody.Tune in now and start owning the room with your voice. 🔥This week's episode is brought to you by Beducated. Get an additional 10% off at https://beducate.me/pd2510-askwomenhttps://beducate.me/pd2510-askwomen>>>To become the most witty, charming, attractive and polished version of yourself, apply to work with Kristen here: https://www.kristenandchilldating.com/coaching>>>Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni’s Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: https://winggirlmethod.com/letmehelp

Mar 11, 2025 • 51min
Ep. 518 How to Meet Women and Desirable Masculinity
This week's episode with Dave Stultz from LimitlessBrave.com goes DEEP into what steps to take to EXPAND your world so you can meet more women. We also talk about HOW to meet them as well as masculinity - what's the perfect balance of it, how do you express it and why do women love it so much?>>>To become the most witty, charming, attractive and polished version of yourself, apply to work with Kristen here: https://www.kristenandchilldating.com/coaching>>>Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni’s Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: https://winggirlmethod.com/letmehelp

Mar 4, 2025 • 58min
Ep. 517 Finding the Right Women
Show Update! We will now be releasing episodes every Tuesdays! In this throwback episode, we have dating coach and matchmaker Laurel House host of Famously Single. We talk about pre-qualifying, what does it mean, how do you do it and what questions to ask so you don't waste your time and money on the wrong girls. >>>To become the most witty, charming, attractive and polished version of yourself, apply to work with Kristen here: https://www.kristenandchilldating.com/coaching>>>Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni’s Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: https://winggirlmethod.com/letmehelp

Feb 28, 2025 • 38min
Ep. 516 How to Date Women in their 40s
Women in their 40's are a HUGE category of women! Some are single moms, some are ball buster alpha females in the business world, some are wounded from past experiences with men. So how do you navigate these muddy waters? Our guest Heidi who works in the finance industry is going to tell you her experience as a single mom, kick ass business woman dating in today's world. She'll tell you what works and what doesn't work. What to expect and what "things" really mean that come out of the mouth of a woman in her 40's. This was a great episode and even if you are a woman, you will learn something from this!>>>To become the most witty, charming, attractive and polished version of yourself, apply to work with Kristen here: https://www.kristenandchilldating.com/coaching>>>Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni’s Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: https://winggirlmethod.com/letmehelp

Feb 21, 2025 • 57min
Ep. 515 How to Handle Rejection
In this throwback episode, we have actress Catherine Urbanek with us to discuss how to handle heartbreak and rejection as Kristen got her heart a bit broken when reentering the world of dating after ending an 8 year relationship years ago. We all go through it at one point or another, so knowing that it's normal but moving forward and showing yourself grace and self love is the best way to grow so you can find your true love. >>>To become the most witty, charming, attractive and polished version of yourself, apply to work with Kristen here: https://www.kristenandchilldating.com/coaching>>>Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni’s Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: https://winggirlmethod.com/letmehelp

Feb 14, 2025 • 50min
Ep. 514 Decoding Women
Figuring women out can be so hard, BUT IT DOESN'T HAVE TO BE because you always have us. But, today you ALSO have sought-after dating coach for women, Kelsey Wonderlin on to give us EVEN MORE insights into women: what they say they want versus what they really want, how to be yourself AND the guy they want and on and on and on. This show covers it all! >>>To become the most witty, charming, attractive and polished version of yourself, apply to work with Kristen here: https://www.kristenandchilldating.com/coaching>>>Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni’s Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: https://winggirlmethod.com/letmehelp

Feb 7, 2025 • 33min
Ep. 513 How to Become Undeniably Desirable
This week, coach and fitness trainer, Martel Metellus shares with us his journey of becoming epically fit and seeing the behavior of women around him change in the process. And, no, it's not just because women drool over muscles, it's because they drool over someone who commands and earns respect. Yes, looking good plays a part, but in this episode you'll see how it's ultimately competence and confidence that will have the women come crawling.
>>>To become the most witty, charming, attractive and polished version of yourself, apply to work with Kristen here: https://www.kristenandchilldating.com/coaching
>>>Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni’s Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: https://winggirlmethod.com/letmehelp

Jan 31, 2025 • 1h 2min
Ep. 512 How and When to Ask Her Out
What is the best time and best way to ask a woman out so that she is guaranteed to say YES??? Adam Gilad joins us to tell us how & when to ask a woman out and how to do it boldly. We also have sex therapist Aimee in studio and together we all discuss: 1. The #1 biggest mistake men make with women that has them losing out on countless opportunities with women 2. Tip and trick for how to quickly get over heart break 3. What NOT to do after you get rejection 4. How to handle rejection with class 5. When is the right moment to ask a woman out And so much more!
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Jan 24, 2025 • 49min
Ep. 511 Top 5 Traits "Nice Guys" NEED to Have
Today we're throwing back to an episode with dating coach, Bobby Rio, whose speciality is turning "nice guys" into desirable guys. He shoots you straight with the top 5 MOST ATTRACTIVE traits you NEED to have as a man and how to get them.
>>>To become the most witty, charming, attractive and polished version of yourself, schedule a free call with Kristen here: https://calendly.com/kristenandchill/magneticmanstrategysession
>>>Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni’s Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: https://winggirlmethod.com/letmehelp