How to Get the Girl: By the Ask Women Podcast Ep. 538 How to Bounce Back from a Bad 1st Impression
Jul 29, 2025
K.T. Tatara, a comedian and crowd-reading maestro, joins Kristen for a captivating discussion on bouncing back from cringe-worthy first impressions. They explore the fine line between awkward and unrecoverable moments, emphasizing the art of self-deprecation and the power of naming the weird energy in a room. Listeners are treated to strategies for recovery that include when to own up to a blunder and when to pivot. With humor and authenticity, K.T. shares insights that help demystify the complexities of attraction in both dating and relationships.
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Online Joke Led To Being Blocked
- Kristen Carney shared a story about making an unintentionally offensive joke online that led to being blocked by someone she liked.
- Despite apologizing, the person immediately cut off all contact, illustrating how harsh first impressions can abruptly end connections.
Move On From Bad Impressions
- Don't obsess over one bad interaction; remind yourself there are billions of people and other opportunities.
- Focus on future connections and avoid beating yourself up, as missed chances diminish potential new encounters.
Dating's Interest Fragmentation Challenge
- Dating is harder now due to fragmented interests and niche fandoms, unlike the simpler past when cultural references were common.
- Finding unique shared interests beyond generic topics is key to meaningful connection today.
