How to Get the Girl: By the Ask Women Podcast Ep. 537 Confidence Isn’t a Mystery, It’s a Skill (with Alpha M)
Jul 23, 2025
Aaron Marino, known as Alpha M, is a leading men’s lifestyle influencer and entrepreneur behind multiple fashion and grooming brands. In this engaging conversation, he reveals that true confidence is a skill, not arrogance. Listeners learn the power of grooming habits, how small wins build swagger, and strategies for overcoming self-doubt. He also discusses the importance of taking risks in dating and the transformative effects of online interactions, emphasizing internal validation over social media's pressures.
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Aaron Marino's Challenging Childhood
- Aaron Marino had abusive stepfathers that impacted his confidence growing up.
- He developed people-pleasing skills to survive social environments and be liked by peers.
Build Confidence by Saying No
- Start saying no and standing up for yourself to build confidence.
- Each small win compounds to develop a bolder, stronger self.
Failure Fueled Confidence Growth
- Aaron Marino failed with his fitness center and filed for bankruptcy.
- Hitting rock bottom helped him realize failure isn't the end and strengthened his confidence.
