

How to Get the Girl: By the Ask Women Podcast
Marni Kinrys & Kristen Carney
What do a female comic & banter coach and a professional wing girl have in common? The realistically raw and hilarious perspectives on what women ACTUALLY want in a man. Prepare to be offended and awed as Kristen Carney & Marni Kinrys take you through the uncensored and often ridiculous mind of a woman to help you better understand, appreciate, and avoid getting punched by the next girl you come across.
Check out our other dating tools and advice: https://www.winggirlmethod.com and https://www.kristenandchilldating.com
Check out our other dating tools and advice: https://www.winggirlmethod.com and https://www.kristenandchilldating.com
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Jan 22, 2025 • 52min
Ep. 510 How to Date Younger Women
This week we talk all about dating different aged women with our guest, licensed couples therapist and host of the podcast Insights from the Couch - Mental Health at Midlife, Colette Fehr. We dive deep into HOW to date younger women, IF you should date younger women, what age might be right for you and how to win her over.
>>>To become MAGNETIC, witty and charming, schedule a free call with Kristen here: https://calendly.com/kristenandchill/magneticmanstrategysession
>>>Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni’s Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: https://winggirlmethod.com/letmehelp

Jan 10, 2025 • 45min
Ep. 509 Male Isolation
This week we talk about the after effects of COVID still vibrating through culture in the the form of isolation and how it's hurting you and your dating life. We talk about how to get more social and meet more people so we can get back to the healthy way of living life - with people.
>>>To become MAGNETIC, witty and charming, schedule a free call with Kristen here: https://calendly.com/kristenandchill/magneticmanstrategysession
>>>Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni’s Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: https://winggirlmethod.com/letmehelp

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Jan 3, 2025 • 56min
Ep. 508 How to Change Your Attachment Style
In this discussion, Adam Lane Smith, an attachment specialist, unpacks the intricacies of attachment theory and how it influences our romantic choices. He shares invaluable insights on self-awareness and transforming unhealthy attachment patterns, helping listeners attract healthier partners. The conversation delves into the hormonal impacts of attachment styles, the significance of emotional intelligence in modern dating, and how personal presentation can enhance perceptions of masculinity. Adam's expertise will guide you toward more fulfilling relationships.

Dec 20, 2024 • 35min
Online Dating - The GOOD, the BAD and the UGLY
In this throwback episode, we have a listener join us who has a TON of experience with online dating. He shares with us the ups and the downs and the highs and the lows so you can avoid the mistakes he's made and get closer to dating online like a pro.
his episode is brought to you by Better Help.
>>>To become MAGNETIC, witty and charming, schedule a FREE discovery call with Kristen here: https://calendly.com/kristenandchill/magneticmanstrategysession
>>>Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni’s Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: https://winggirlmethod.com/letmehelp

Dec 12, 2024 • 33min
Ep. 507 What Happened to Romance?
This week we have Professor Sabrina Strings, the author of the Book "The End of Love" on the show to explores the collective collapse of traditional romantic love. We talk about what "romance" means today and why it may not actually be what we want and how to have the romance that you DO want.
This episode is brought to you by Better Help.
>>>To become MAGNETIC, witty and charming, schedule a FREE call with Kristen here: https://calendly.com/kristenandchill/magneticmanstrategysession
>>>Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni’s Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: https://winggirlmethod.com/letmehelp.

Dec 6, 2024 • 49min
Ep. 506 Dating Terms You NEED to Know and How to Not Let Them Affect You
Mason Farmani, an intuitive personal coach focused on relationship and emotional healing, joins the discussion on modern dating dynamics. They explore impactful terms like ghosting and breadcrumbing, and how they shape emotional experiences in dating. The conversation also addresses the rise of 'zombying' and its emotional fallout, as well as the balance between engagement and avoidance in relationships. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their relationship preferences, aiming for healthier connections and improved communication.

Nov 15, 2024 • 42min
Social Confidence for the STEM and Introverted Brain
In this throwback episode, we have Myke Macapinlac joining us. Myke is the founder of Social Confidence Mastery, an incredible resource for those in the STEM industries or men who consider themselves introverted. If that's you, he's going to talk directly to YOU about how to step outside of your brain and become a master at confidence, flirting, escalation and so much more.

Nov 9, 2024 • 39min
Ep. 505 Tantric Sex
Have you ever wondered what Tantra is really about? Have you ever heard about it? If you haven't, you should. That's where we come in. This week we have Alicia Davon from The Davon Method on the show. Alicia and her husband have been teaching this sexual yoga practice for 15 years and she's here to tell us all about why you NEED tantra in your life and why it's essential to to become present when interacting with women, both in and out of the bedroom
>>>To become MAGNETIC, witty, charming, a master at banter, a pro at dating, and great at sexual escalation with Kristen, fill out the coaching application here: https://www.kristenandchilldating.com/coaching
>>>Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni’s Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: https://winggirlmethod.com/letmehelp.

Nov 1, 2024 • 60min
How to be a LEADER with Women
We have Dr. Joshua Spodek on with us who is also a dating coach. He's here to teach you how to be a LEADER with the ladies, one of the foremost traits women are looking for in a man. He's going give you the in's on how to get her to open up, be more comfortable around you, express her passions , all *without* being an interviewer or pick up artist.
We also talk about BJs, that's right! We're talking about how to get them and then how to get MORE of them.
>>>To become magnetic, witty, charming, a master at banter, a dating phenom and a pro at sexual escalation with a hands-on coach "on call" for you between weekly sessions, fill out the coaching application here: https://www.kristenandchilldating.com/coaching
>>>Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni’s Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: https://winggirlmethod.com/letmehelp

Oct 18, 2024 • 45min
Ep. 504 How to Handle "Bitchy" Women
This week, we talk about something you will most likely encounter at one point in life or another, and that is when a woman isn't feeling so "friendly" (our politically correct way of saying "bitchy"). Why do some women become bitchy? We'll tell you. But more importantly, our guest, Gianna Rackham, a female dating coaching, will tell you how to curb the bitchiness and use it to your advantage. We'll also talk to Gianna about how she was won over by her boyfriend who she didn't see originally as a boyfriend.
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>>To become MAGNETIC, witty, charming, a master at banter, a dating phenom and a pro at sexual escalation with a coach "on call" for you between weekly sessions, fill out the coaching application here: https://www.kristenandchilldating.com/coaching
>>Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni’s Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: https://winggirlmethod.com/letmehelp