

How to Get the Girl: By the Ask Women Podcast
Marni Kinrys & Kristen Carney
What do a female comic & banter coach and a professional wing girl have in common? The realistically raw and hilarious perspectives on what women ACTUALLY want in a man. Prepare to be offended and awed as Kristen Carney & Marni Kinrys take you through the uncensored and often ridiculous mind of a woman to help you better understand, appreciate, and avoid getting punched by the next girl you come across.
Check out our other dating tools and advice: https://www.winggirlmethod.com and https://www.kristenandchilldating.com
Check out our other dating tools and advice: https://www.winggirlmethod.com and https://www.kristenandchilldating.com
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Oct 11, 2024 • 41min
Ep. 503 Become a Master Flirt
Kristen and Marni are really excited to share this week’s episode because it is jam packed with top-notch info from top-of-the-line dating experts and instructors, Darren and Nikki from BecomeSharp.com
Darren and Nikki are going to clearly define flirting so it’s no longer a practice you "kind of" understand, then they're going to go step-by-step and break down exactly HOW to flirt. They're also going to share with us the THREE ESSENTIAL THINGS you need to do in order to become a master flirt as well as the THREE ESSENTIAL THINGS you need to have in order for women to respond to and reciprocate your flirtation
What's extra special about this episode is that Darren practices what he preaches - so much so that his co-worker, Nikki, who is a total smoke show, who thought she would never give him the time of day, was completely won over because of how great he was at flirting, and now she is his long term girlfriend.
He's a lucky guy - but because he made his own luck. You can make your own luck too.
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>>>For AskWomen Podcast listeners ONLY: Get a free 20-minute phone coaching session with Darren! Apply here: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe73YzncE_AU3IojtPcJb4OnnOnnKfU7U0p3wRmyyA9T479yA/viewform
>>To become MAGNETIC, witty, charming, a master at banter, a dating phenom and a pro at sexual escalation with a coach "on call" for you between weekly sessions, fill out the coaching application here: https://www.kristenandchilldating.com/coaching
>>Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni’s Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: https://winggirlmethod.com/letmehelp

Oct 4, 2024 • 60min
Pursue Her Like a Pro
To pursue or not to pursue? That is not the question. The question is HOW to pursue. This week we go deep into the topic of pursuing women and how to do it right so you don't come across as needy, but instead, a man after what he wants.
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>>To become witty, charming, magnetic, and a master at banter and dating and escalation, apply here: https://www.kristenandchilldating.com/coaching
>>Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni’s Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: https://winggirlmethod.com/letmehelp

Sep 27, 2024 • 42min
Ep. 502 Igniting CHEMISTRY with Dr. Laura Berman
Laura Berman is an renowned American relationship therapist and television host. She is the host of In the Bedroom with Dr. Laura Berman on the Oprah Winfrey Network and she is here to talk to us about that mysterious and magical thing we're always looking to create but never quite sure how: CHEMISTRY. She's going to tell us all about the science behind romantic chemistry, why it's created and most importantly, HOW to it on a first date, first encounter or even in that long term relationship that it disappeared from years ago.
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>>To become witty, charming, magnetic, and a master at banter and dating and escalation, apply here: https://www.kristenandchilldating.com/coaching
>>Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni’s Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: https://winggirlmethod.com/letmehelp

Sep 20, 2024 • 31min
Ep. 501 Start Bantering TODAY
The Banter Queen herself and the co-host and co-creator of Ask Women, Kristen Carney, is today’s “guest” of honor. Kristen has turned Banter and Playful Communication into a science and she, herself, a mad (banter) scientist - think Doc from "Back to the Future" - only not a dude and has never been atop a clock tower. However, she undoubtedly will make you feel like you're from the future with such advanced banter skills. And, Kristen has a natural knack to teach it better than any dating coach out there. After perfecting her methods for almost a decade, today she’s sharing with us the foundational skills you need to have in place to get out there and start having that flirty and teasing "ping-pong match" of words that will get her intrigued and attracted.
>>To become a MASTER at banter, have off-the-chart charisma and transform into an escalation pro, book a FREE call with Kristen Here: https://calendly.com/kristenandchill/magneticmanstrategysession
>>Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni’s Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: https://winggirlmethod.com/letmehelp
*This episode is brought to you by Factor. Get 50% off fresh, never frozen meals. Go to www.FactorMeals.com/AskWomen50 *

Sep 12, 2024 • 46min
Ep. 500 How to Get RESPECT
In this engaging discussion, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, a medical doctor and intimacy coach, reveals that respect is a cornerstone of attraction. She emphasizes that men should cultivate emotional intelligence and authenticity rather than relying on flattery. The conversation highlights the delicate balance of communication in relationships, including how men can navigate emotional expression without fear of judgment. With relatable anecdotes, Alexandra offers insights into fostering genuine connections rooted in mutual respect.

Sep 6, 2024 • 41min
Ep. 499 Going Out BY YOURSELF
Friends aren’t always available to go out and hit the town with, especially as you get into the years where lots of friends start getting married or have long been married. So, this week, Rob from Sex Party Podcast joins the show to talk about HOW to go out by yourself doing it successfully so you can make the most out of your time alone. He gives us the goods on how to connect with people without your crew there to offer a safety net. And, he also talks about how to DISCONNECT FROM OUTCOMES so your carefree energy gives off confidence and desirability.
>> Dusin Rybka is the host of ‘Sex Party with Dustin Rybka’. The show is a weekly tight rope walk between value and chaos in the worlds of sex and dating. New episodes available every Wednesday wherever you find podcasts & YouTube. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sexparty.fm?igsh=NW9lbTdkZ2N4c3h6
>>To become MAGNETIC, charming, witty and a master at banter and dating, book a FREE call with Kristen Here: https://calendly.com/kristenandchill/magneticmanstrategysession
>>Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni’s Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: https://winggirlmethod.com/letmehelp
* This episode is brought to you by Factor. Get 50% off fresh, never frozen meals. Go to www.FactorMeals.com/AskWomen50 *

Aug 30, 2024 • 59min
Being Bold - Asking Her Out
Adam Gilad, author of "The Bold Life Tribe – a mastermind for bold living, graces us with his presence in this week's throwback episode. He's here to talk to us about how to be the confident guy who makes bold choices and asks women out. He's here schooling us on HOW to get her to say yes and WHEN to get her to say yes.
**** We have finished our summer hiatus and will be back with fresh shows starting September *****
>>To become MAGNETIC, charming, witty and a master at banter and dating, book a FREE call with Kristen Here: https://calendly.com/kristenandchill/magneticmanstrategysession
>>Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni’s Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: https://winggirlmethod.com/letmehelp
* This episode is brought to you by Factor. Get 50% off fresh, never frozen meals. Go to www.FactorMeals.com/AskWomen50 *

Aug 15, 2024 • 60min
Fixing Your Dating Profile!
One of our very own listeners, Omar, is struggling with his online dating profile, as so many people do. He's a foot surgeon and has so much going for himself but isn't expressing it in a way that draws the women in. So, in this week's throwback episode, we do one of our favorite old segments "Help a Brother Out" and walk him through improving not only his profile but the way he views himself.
*This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/ASKWOMEN and get on your way to being your best self!*
>>To become MAGNETIC, charming, witty and a master at banter and dating, book a FREE call with Kristen Here: https://calendly.com/kristenandchill/magneticmanstrategysession
>>Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni’s Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: https://winggirlmethod.com/letmehelp

Aug 10, 2024 • 51min
Ep. 498 What Women REALLY Want
This week we have Hilary Silver, a psychotherapist and owner of ReadyForLoveInc.com on with us to spill the beans on what successful and desirable women who are playing the field are really looking for and how to sweep them off their feet.
This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at
betterhelp.com/ASKWOMEN and get on your way to being your best self.
>>To become MAGNETIC, charming, witty and a master at banter and dating, book a FREE call with Kristen Here: https://calendly.com/kristenandchill/magneticmanstrategysession
>>Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni’s Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: https://winggirlmethod.com/letmehelp

Jul 26, 2024 • 58min
The Power of Masculinity and Vulnerability
The Ask Women Podcast is sponsored by BetterHelp.
Dr. John joins us to talk all about masculinity and male socialization on this week's throwback episode. He'll also cover pursuing happiness, how to have and express just the right amount of vulnerability as well as how to be your masculine self in the 21st century.
>>To become MAGNETIC, charming, witty and a master at banter and dating, book a FREE call with Kristen Here: https://calendly.com/kristenandchill/magneticmanstrategysession
>>Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni’s Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: https://winggirlmethod.com/letmehelp