Celeste Hirschman, co-creator of the Somatica® Method and a somatic sex coach, shares how to enhance intimacy and pleasure in relationships. She emphasizes the art of being a 'detective' in the bedroom—understanding what a woman likes through intuitive, playful communication. Listeners will learn about the nuances of consent, arousal patterns, and the importance of building connection before intimacy. Celeste’s actionable tips aim to boost men’s confidence and transform their approach to sexual exploration.
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Gentle Touch Builds Arousal
Avoid touching a woman's genitals too quickly or too hard early on as it can be irritating and numbing.
Focus on sensuality and slow, light touches to build arousal gradually.
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Respect Condom Boundaries
Respect condom use early in sexual connections and avoid negotiating out of it abruptly.
Find alternative ways to orgasm with condoms or discuss exclusivity and testing before removing them.
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Detect Her Sexual Preferences
Observe a woman's interests and behaviors, like movie preferences, to understand her sexual script (romantic or passionate).
Use this detective approach to tailor your seduction with confidence and playfulness.
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On Confidence explores the concept of confidence as a skill that can be developed through practice and understanding. It delves into issues like impostor syndrome and self-sabotage, offering tools to overcome these challenges and achieve personal growth. The book emphasizes that confidence is not an innate trait but something that can be cultivated over time.
In this episode, we’re joined by Celeste Hirschman, co-creator of the Somatica® Method and co-founder of the Somatica Institute. Celeste is a somatic sex coach who specializes in helping men and women create deeper, more connected, and more satisfying intimate experiences.
We dive into how you can become a detective in the bedroom—not by overanalyzing, but by tuning in. Learn how to pick up on what a woman likes, what she doesn’t, and how to test the waters in a way that feels confident, playful, and deeply attuned. Celeste shares actionable tips on how to explore and communicate desire without killing the mood, how to bring more sensuality into your touch, and how to come across as the sexy, grounded man women crave—without second-guessing yourself.
Whether you're just starting to explore intimacy or want to take your bedroom confidence to the next level, this episode will give you a new perspective on pleasure, connection, and what women actually want.
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