How to Get the Girl: By the Ask Women Podcast Ep. 534 How to Turn Jealousy Into Sexual Chemistry
Jul 1, 2025
Join Ally Iseman, a certified relationship coach and founder of PassportToPleasure.com, as she unpacks jealousy in dating. She reveals how this often-overlooked emotion can boost attraction and intimacy instead of ruining relationships. Discover the importance of self-awareness, the necessity of open conversations about jealousy, and learn how to turn those tricky feelings into playful intrigue. Ally also shares tips on maintaining confidence during first dates and embracing spontaneity for deeper connections.
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Jealousy is Neutral and Useful
- Jealousy is a neutral emotion, neither good nor bad, and common in all relationships.
- When harnessed properly, it becomes a powerful tool for intimacy and personal growth.
Own Jealousy Without Blame
- Express jealousy responsibly by owning your feelings without blaming your partner.
- Share your experience and involve your partner in the process to strengthen connection.
Use Agreements to Manage Jealousy
- Establish clear relationship agreements and boundaries to manage jealousy effectively.
- Ask for specific actions, like subtle check-ins, rather than demanding your partner change.
