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Are you a risk taker and trust in the Universe? Do you lean forward into something you’re dreaming about—a new path, a bold desire, a leap of faith—without knowing exactly how it’ll turn out? Or maybe you’re risk averse, holding on tight to what you know. You’d rather stick with what’s familiar, even if it’s not your ideal, rather than roll the dice on something uncertain. This conversation is about risk and trust. If you want to live life to the fullest, you need both. So let me take you back. Garden Variety Chances Thirty years ago, I wrote an article that ended up being published in the Venture Inward magazine—yes, the Edgar Cayce Foundation’s magazine. It was my very first piece ever submitted, and it got accepted. That was an enormous thrill. The column was called “The Turning Point”, and believe me, it was. That article, “Garden Variety Chances,” told a story I want to share again, because even now, decades later, the message still rings true. At the time, I’d been working at a major packaged foods company in New York for seven years—and I hated it. I mean, I learned a lot, had good experiences, but the energy was just…heavy and often stressful for what seemed like no reason. The Big Layoff Eventually, a larger corporation bought us, and with all the merging, my position was eliminated. But there were jobs open to be considered. I applied half-heartedly, knowing I didn’t want any of them. But then came the severance offer: seven months’ salary. To leave a job I despised? That was the universe handing me an exit ramp—and I took it. For this is one time I had trust in the Universe. What did I do with my first unemployment check? I went to Hawaii. No regrets! Anxiety Mounted I didn’t want the same kind of job again, so I didn’t know what was next. But the path slowly revealed itself. A former colleague called and asked if I could help out at her agency. That was the beginning of my freelance career in copywriting and marketing consulting. Sounds great, right? And it was—for a while. But about two years in, I hit a wall. My bank account was dwindling. I was filled with fear. I kept imagining the worst like losing my condo, my car, having to move back in with my parents at 30. That felt like the end of the world. Even though I was in that anxious place, one day at the grocery store, I splurged. I bought a $3 sorrel plant. That’s it. Just a leafy, lemony green. I certainly didn’t need it. Money was tight. Yet, I bought it anyway. I lived in a condo without any outdoor living space, so I couldn’t really plant it. I called my friend Carrie and told her about my “extravagance.” She was gardening and invited me to plant it in her yard. However, she also warned me about the neighborhood rabbits. Inhaling & Exhaling Here was my dilemma—keep the plant safe on my windowsill, where it would survive but not thrive, or plant it outside, where it might flourish…or get eaten. I actually meditated on this. Yes, over a $3 plant. But that’s how everything shifted. In that quiet space, I received this guidance. To live life to the fullest, you must take risks. If you hold everything tightly to yourself—people, money, dreams—in fear of losing them, then you cut off the flow of life. It’s like breathing. You can’t keep inhaling without exhaling. You must let go in order to receive more. You have to trust in the Universe. That was the moment I laughed out loud. The ridiculousness of it all—a $3 plant had become a mirror for how tightly I was gripping life. I was paralyzed by fear, and this plant was showing me the way out. So, I took the plant to Carrie’s garden. I trusted that it would flourish. And I trusted that I would, too. What happened after that? Everything changed. Want to hear more about my spiritual journey? Trust in the Universe A freelance position came along that was just right. I was independent and financially stable. My bank account bounced back. And something else happened—I started dating again, after a five-year hiatus. Two relationships followed. Neither lasted, but I showed up. I tried. That was a win. And the best part? The following spring, Carrie called me. “The sorrel plant is growing again!” she said. Turns out, sorrel is a perennial. I didn’t know that at the time. But there it was, bursting through the soil again, thriving. That $3 risk had come full circle. That plant was my proof. That risk can yield surprising and beautiful results. You just have to be willing to let go and trust. I’m Still Learning Now, don’t get me wrong. I’m still learning this. Still living it. Today, my risks look different. I risk going slow instead of fast. I risk not pushing and having patience. I risk saying “No.” But my essence hasn’t changed. I’m still like a river, flowing toward the ocean. Sometimes I hit rocks, take unexpected turns, but I keep moving. I’m still learning not to fight the river. I don’t want to be the salmon swimming upstream—I want ease and grace. And to be in the flow, you have to trust. That’s the risk. I don’t always trust in the Universe, but I keep at it. Sometimes, you only get to see the next step after you’ve taken the first one. There is no master plan. Life isn’t a straight line. It’s more like sailing—you tack left, then right. You adjust to the wind. What’s Your First Step? So I ask you: what’s the first step you need to take? Not the third, or the fifth. Just the first. What’s the $3 “sorrel plant” in your life? What are you holding onto so tightly that it’s keeping you from growing? If you need help with trusting the Universe, you might look for a sign- here’s how. Sometimes, you have to speak the first word so the next one comes. You have to trust the siphon will flow. That’s what channeling has taught me, and that’s what life keeps showing me. So today, I invite you to trust in the universe. Take the step. Let the flow find you. Because, my friend, you just might flourish. The post Are You Brave Enough To Trust In The Universe? appeared first on Intuitive Edge.

It’s Earth Day! I thought it would be fun to do a group healing session for the earth as a way for us to celebrate Earth Day! This is your invitation to join me and other like-minded women, to gather together and clear our own energy, then pool our Yin Energy to heal Mother Earth. No doubt this is going to be a very fun and totally free event! If you want to be a part of this, simply email me for the zoom link. The program starts at 8pm ET on 4/22 – which is today! Same day as this post was published. To email me, reach out to Ronnie[@]IntuitiveEdge.biz by 5pm ET. That’s it – easy as pie and just as sweet. See you tonight!   The post Celebrate Earth Day Tonight in This Free Session appeared first on Intuitive Edge.

Have you heard of the Council of the Grandmothers? If not, get ready because their message about raising yin energy of earth is pure magic! Exactly what this world needs right now is more divine feminine energy. They’ve come to restore balance by bringing back and rebuilding the power of divine feminine energy. This is the soft, steady, deeply nurturing force that’s been quiet for too long. And when yin rises? Everything changes and improves! Meet The Council of Grandmothers Imagine this: You’re walking alone on a beach, minding your own business with your dog, when suddenly, a circle of radiant, wise women appear. They’re dressed in ceremonial clothes from all over the world. They look at you with love. And they say, Come here, let’s talk. We’ve come to help. That’s exactly what happened to my guest, Sharon McErlane back in 1996. The Council of Grandmothers introduced themselves as divine guides with a mission to awaken yin energy and rebalance the earth. Because let’s face it, we’re ready for a positive change from patriarchy! What They Came to Teach This isn’t about power in the traditional sense. It’s not about control or dominance over others. It’s about growth, nourishment, support, and life itself. For thousands of years, masculine (yang) energy has been running the show. It’s fast, fiery, action-oriented. But when it dominates, things become unbalanced and burn out. That’s why the Grandmothers are focused on calling back yin energy and they say it begins with women. of course! We embody yin which is incredibly healing and joyful. A Movement Spans the Globe Since that moment on the beach, Sharon has been sharing this message quietly but powerfully. No hype. No ego. Just truth of rebuilding the divine feminine energy. Today, nearly 30 years later, the Grandmothers’ work has taken root globally. From California to the Netherlands, New Zealand to South America, groups are gathering to strengthen the Net of Light, which is a vast web of connection that supports all life on earth and beyond. Backed By Science To me, this is amazing! I love with science and spirituality meet. Scientists actually discovered what they call the cosmic webor the fabric of the Universe. The Grandmothers say it’s the same thing as the Net of Light and it’s real. The best news as I see it is that you are part of this net or web and the most outrageous part is the net responds to you. There is no cost to receive the Grandmother’s empowerment. Just a simple invitation to come as you are and bring your heart. Then you too can work with the Net of Light to build yin energy and heal planet earth. Casting the Net of Light When you sit with this divine feminine energy, whether in meditation or quiet prayer, you will feel it. You will likely encounter a deep sense of peace and harmony. Your presence matters because you contribute to the Net of Light – you are a sparkling light on it. That loving thought you sent someone this morning? It ripples out across the net. Ancestors, Earth, and You The Grandmothers also speak about ancestor work. When you connect with your ancestors, both from your bloodline, as well as the ancestors from your land, you open the door to deep healing. Everyone and everything benefits. Wherever your are, meditating in your backyard or lighting a candle in your kitchen, the energy moves. It flows. It blesses. And once you are aware of it, you become a natural and powerful part of that divine feminine energy. Connect with Joy Sharon says one of her constant prayers is simple, “May everyone be happy around the world.” She wants you to be happy too. The Grandmothers remind us that light work doesn’t have to feel heavy. It can be joyful, grounding, and even playful. The more you give, the more you receive. The more you connect with the Net of Light, the stronger it becomes. They recently led a guided meditation where we saw ourselves as glowing points of light. The feeling? Instant calm. A sense of “Oh right—I remember who I am.” Want to Participate? You can visit NetOfLight.org to dive deeper. There’s no pressure, just open-hearted people doing powerful, quiet work. You’ll find information about global zoom gatherings, online meditations, and in-person groups. Plus, there are live workshops and more. This work is for you and also for the planet. It begins with something as simple as you showing up, as you are, filled of light. So here’s your reminder from the Grandmothers: You are part of the Net of Light. You are held. You are powerful. And yes, your yin energy holds the key to healing yourself, the ancestors, and the world. BIO – Sharon McErlane Sharon McErlane is the founder of Grandmothers Speak and the NetOfLight.org who share the work and messages of the Great Council of Grandmothers. Sharon was a psychotherapist for years in California, minding her own business until one day the Grandmothers materialized before her on the beach in 1996. They explained their mission of rebuilding yin energy on the planet to balance the over abundance of yang that has been ruling the world for thousands of years. They have come to raise the divine feminine or yin energy to balance and heal the planet, the ancestors, and us. Visit NetOfLight.org to see how you can join the fun and healing. The post Your Yin Energy Holds the Key to Healing – The Grandmothers Speak appeared first on Intuitive Edge.

Do you want to be psychic intuitive but wonder how to develop these skills? In this week’s podcast episode, I spoke with Brandi Van, a talented psychic medium mentor about this topic. She helps people transform self-doubt into psychic confidence, guiding them to find and embrace their unique intuitive gifts. Your Psychic Journey For many, the journey into psychic intuitive development begins with acknowledging self-doubt. Brandi’s 90-day psychic development mentorship program helps you learn to strengthen your intuition and move from skepticism to confidence. Brandi explains that everyone is born with a sixth sense. Unfortunately, most people have not been encouraged to work with it. In fact, many people are discouraged! By nurturing these innate gifts, you can deepen your awareness to see beyond the physical realm into a world of energy and potential. Debunking Psychic Myths One big misconception about being psychic  is the notion of predicting the future. I shared a personal story about accurately predicting a friend’s daughter’s marriage and that she’d have two boys. Brandi was quick to clarify that being psychic is not about making predictions. Your life is guided by free will and the choices you make can alter any prediction. Psychic abilities are truly  more about sensing energies and possibilities rather than fixed outcomes. Brandi and I agree about the importance of ethical responsibility when dealing with your psychic abilities and sharing messages. Predictions that are negative are completely unethical. Brandi was told at her high school prom that she’d die at 26! That’s an horrific message to give anyone, never mind a teenager at the prom for goodness sake! Think of your psychic abilities like a doctor holding to the Hippocratic oath – First, do no harm. Types of Psychic Abilities We looked at different psychic abilities including precognition, telepathy, mediumship, channeling, psychometry, reading photographs and more. It’s important to know that each person’s abilities are as unique as your fingerprints! As a psychic medium, Brandi communicates with departed loved ones, providing comfort and insight. Psychometry, the ability to read the energy of objects, was one of her first skills to develop. I’ve practiced this skill as well and really love it. Objects hold energy and memories that you pick up when holding or touching them, revealing past events, owners, and emotions. While some may have a natural aptitude for one skill or another, Brandi reminds us that each talent is valuable and can be nurtured. Whether your psychic powers lean toward telepathy, mediumship, or channeling, these gifts offer a deeper understanding of the world. They enable you to connect more deeply with your own life and gain a deeper understanding of your choices. Trust Yourself & Intuition The biggest barrier to psychic intuitive development is often self-doubt. People are taught to prioritize scientific reasoning over inner knowing, which leads to mistrust in your intuitive insights. Building trust in yourself is essential for growing your psychic abilities. Brandi advises regular journaling to track your intuition, notice patterns, and validate insights over time. This practice builds a record of your intuitive experiences, helping build the confidence to trust your inner voice. Keeping the process light-hearted and fun raises your vibrations and attracting positive outcomes. Unlike a heavy or serious approach, a playful attitude can fuel your psychic journey and make learning enjoyable. It’s a journey of exploration, growth, and joy when embraced with an open heart. Everyone Can Develop Psychic Abilities We both agree that developing psychic abilities isn’t limited by age or experience. Brandi shared stories of individuals working on their psychic intuitive skills later in life, proving it’s never too late to start. Just like learning any new skill, consistent practice is key; nurturing your psychic muscles will make them so much stronger. By the way, just because you develop your psychic abilities doesn’t mean you have to do readings for others. This can be an inward journey to guide your decisions and enhance your life direction. Tapping into your intuitive guidance helps you walk your highest path more easily. Open Your Psychic Intuitive Skills If you’re just beginning or underway with learning about intuition, Brandi offers a free quiz to help you identify and validate your psychic experiences which sure sounds like fun! Opening up and working on your psychic intuitive abilities will be helpful and fun. Your intuition is a magnificent gift waiting to enrich your life. With guidance, practice, and a dash of fun, the world of psychic potential can open up a new realm of understanding, growth, and possibilities. BIO – Brand Van Many people struggle with doubting the validity of their psychic abilities. Brandi Van, Psychic Medium Mentor, guides and supports empaths and sensitive souls through her focused 90-day Psychic Development Mentorship Program. She’ll turn your self-doubt into psychic confidence, strengthen your intuition, and teach you how to fully embrace and harness your psychic gifts. The results are transformative. Clients gain confidence in their abilities, live with purpose and fulfillment in their daily lives, and become empowered to make a meaningful impact on the world. Website & Social Media Website: https://www.brandivan.com Facebook: www.facebook.com/brandivanmedium Instagram: www.instagram.com/brandivanmedium Free Gift: https://www.brandivan.com/psychic-abilities-mentorship-program The post Can You Learn To Be Psychic Intuitive? appeared first on Intuitive Edge.

Ever wonder why you feel so connected to some people even if it doesn’t make much sense? That’s one of 14 signs of soul contracts! Discover all these signs in this new episode of the Breathe Love & Magic podcast. What Are Soul Contracts? A soul contract is a spiritual agreement your soul makes before you’re even born. It’s like your soul’s way of sketching out a rough blueprint for growth, healing, and connection in this lifetime. Before you incarnate, you choose certain people, experiences, and challenges that will support your evolution. Your contracts aren’t about fate calling the shots, but more like sacred invitations to grow, heal, remember who we are, and return to a deeper truth. Some soul contracts bring ease, love, and support. Others are not so easy and may show up as conflict, heartbreak, or challenges that shake you to your core. But no matter what they look like on the surface, these agreements are here to help you grow and awaken. Who are these people? Most often they are souls from your own soul pod, as author Michael Newton calls this group of beings. It’s like a soul family really. He’s written several books about life between lives in the soul pod and I read Journey of Souls and Destiny of Souls– I loved both! Often showing up in powerful relationships, soul contracts include romantic partners, family members, close friends, mentors, or even people who trigger us. They can stir deep emotions or feel strangely familiar, as if you’ve done this dance before. And maybe… you have. Some contracts last a lifetime. Others fulfill their purpose and might end abruptly or gently fall away once the lesson is complete. What’s the Key to a Soul Contract? Mutual growth! Even if one person plays a more challenging role, both souls are learning something. A tough relationship might be helping you find your voice. A supportive one might be reminding you how worthy you are of love. When you start to recognize these patterns, something shifts. Instead of seeing certain people or situations as random or unfair, you begin to sense the larger story unfolding—and the wisdom behind it. So how do you know if a soul contract is at play? 14 Signs You Have a Soul Contract 1. Instant Connection or Recognition. You feel like you’ve known them forever, even if you just met. There’s a spark of familiarity. 2. Strong Emotional Reactions. They bring up big feelings—love, irritation, longing, or even a mix of everything. 3. Repeating Patterns. The same dynamic keeps coming up between you, like a loop asking to be seen and healed. 4. Unfinished Business from Past Lives. You sense there’s history between you—maybe through dreams, intuitive hits, or moments that incredible familiarity. 5. Magnetic Pull. You feel drawn to each other, even when it doesn’t make logical sense. 6. They Challenge You. They reflect parts of yourself you may not want to look at but need to in order to grow. 7. Unbreakable Bond. Even if you separate, life has a way of weaving your paths back together—until the work is done. 8. Support During Turning Points. They show up during a major life shift, offering guidance, pressure, or perspective on the transformation you are undergoing. 9. Sense of Shared Purpose. The relationship feels meaningful, like you’re part of something bigger than just the connection. 10. Deep Inner Knowing. You just know this person is meant to be part of your life with no explanation needed. 11. Synchronicities in the Connection. Signs, symbols, numbers, or serendipitous events seem to echo the importance of this bond. 12. Strong Sense of Déjà Vu. Being with them feels like a scene you’ve lived before, because it feels so familiar. 13. Relationship Defies Logic. Age, distance, circumstances… none of it adds up. And yet, the connection is undeniable. 14. They Accelerate Your Spiritual Growth. This person activates something in you—an awakening, a deepening, a remembering. Now you have the answer to what is a soul contract! Soul contracts aren’t always easy, but they often hold some of our most powerful lessons. How to Handle Relationships with Soul Contracts When you sense you have a soul contract with someone, it can feel exciting, confusing, emotional—or all of the above. These relationships tend to stir something deep. These six steps will help you better handle this special type of relationship: Awareness — The first step is to become aware and accept that there is a contract and acknowledge the connection. Instead of trying to figure it all out or control how it unfolds, allow yourself to simply go with it. Be Curious — Ask yourself, “What might this relationship be here to teach me?” Soul contracts are about growth. Curiosity and compassion will get you farther than judgment or fear. Watch Your Emotional Responses — These connections often bring up strong feelings and sometimes old patterns you thought you’d already healed. Pause before reacting. Think about why tis is coming up for you. The insight that follows can be life-changing. Set Healthy Boundaries — Having a soul contract with someone doesn’t mean you have to stay in a relationship that’s hurtful or out of alignment. Sometimes, the lesson is learning how to let go, choose yourself first, or speak your truth. Establish those healthy boundaries and take care of yourelf – that could be the lesson! Lean into the Lesson — Whether this person is teaching you about trust, surrender, patience, or power, engage with the process. Journaling, reflection, or meditation can help you understand the deeper purpose behind the connection. Trust the Timing — Some soul contracts are lifelong, while others are meant to be brief but transformative. Try not to cling to what “should” happen. Trust that your higher self knows what it’s doing—and that nothing is ever a waste of time. Next time you wonder what is a soul contract or if you’re in one, reflect back on this podcast. When you meet someone who stirs your soul, there’s often more going on than meets the eye. By remaining open, self-aware, and willing to evolve, you can navigate these deep connections with grace and wisdom. If you’re struggling in a soul contract type of relationship, intuitive insights can make a huge difference! Schedule your session today! The post Soul Contracts: The Real Reason You Feel Drawn to Certain People appeared first on Intuitive Edge.

Curious about the benefits of intuition? If you tap into your intuition regularly, you’re in for a treat! In this episode, I’ve explored nine amazing advantages that intuitive people enjoy over those who ignore or don’t use their skills. Read Between the Lines If you use your intuitive, one advantage is the ability to “read between the lines”. Life is complex and situations become easier to navigate when you pick up subtle cues. This could be in the form of body language or tone of voice. In business, this skill can help you negotiate deals better by sensing where there’s still room to move. Being attuned to these nuances is part of having a sixth sense. Solve Problems Creatively Intuition sparks creativity by allowing outside-the-box thinking. Ever heard how Albert Einstein would solve problems by setting an intention, then taking a nap. He was seeking creative solutions through his dreams, You don’t need to nap to access your creativity, but letting your intuition flow freely often results in innovative ideas that popp up out of nowhere. Recognize Patterns Noticing patterns in life is another intuitive advantage. This lets you make connections between past experiences and new challenges, providing a quicker response to tackle problems. Intuitive folks use their vast knowledge base efficiently, while others may struggle to see these connections or leverage their previous learnings. What’s the difference between fortune telling and intuition? Trust Your Gut The idea of “trusting your gut” is backed by science, establishing your gut as your second brain. With up to 500 million neurons, no wonder your inner wisdom is powerful! Your gut instincts are invaluable and are there for survival. This dates back to primitive man who had to rely on their sixth sense to keep the family and the community safe from predators and other concerns. While some people rely solely on facts, intuitive individuals have an added layer of insight. They can successfully skip past the analysis paralysis others might face and have to suffer through. See Possibilities The ability to think about the future and see positive possibilities is another perk of being intuitive. You tend to view potential outcomes optimistically, opening up opportunities that might be unseen by those who only focus on the surface level and facts. This positivity helps in creating endless options for growth and success. Check out my interview with Mystic Magazine about intuition. Understand Other People Empathy is often a superpower for intuitive people. You perceive others’ emotions and thoughts without spoken words, allowing for deeper connections. While some miss these cues entirely, your empathy creates meaningful relationships. Pick Up Clues Ever felt like you have an antenna sensing the world around you? Intuitive folks often pick up environmental clues, noticing when things are off or aligned. This awareness can prevent potential issues before they ever become actual problems. You might notice things that are out of place or how others are suddenly lined up perfectly. There are plenty of clues all around you when you are open to noticing them. Handle Uncertainty Better Life is full of uncertainty, which causes stress for many people.  However, you’re more comfortable with the unknown when you use your intuition. It just doesn’t bother you as much as it does others who are less tuned in. Your intuition provides trust in your ability to navigate new situations, reducing stress where others might easily falter. Live More Authentically Lastly, intuition helps you live more authentically because you’re more self-aware. This inner knowledge makes it easier to stay true to yourself, fend off distractions, and overcome roadblocks. You feel aligned with the universe and empowered to pursue your dreams fully. Yay! Intuition Is Your Inner GPS You might be surprised how often you rely on intuition daily. Whether it’s choosing the faster checkout line at the grocery store or knowing who’s calling before picking up the phone, these small decisions demonstrate your intuition in action. If you’re not tapping into your intuition yet, there’s no time like the present. Start small with everyday decisions and watch how it enhances your life. And if you’re ready for deeper exploration and connection with your inner wisdom, my program, Awaken Your Sixth Sense, offers seven comprehensive lessons to hone your intuitive skills. Record on audio, you’ll gets lots of things to try and ways to support and strengtehn your skills. Plus, it’s so much fun! By trusting and developing your intuition, you open up a world of possibilities for comfort, clarity, and success.   My original article was published on YourTango.com The post People Who Use Their Intuition Have 9 Huge Advantages! appeared first on Intuitive Edge.

Chaos. Darkness vs. Light. When you scroll through the news or social media, it’s easy to think darkness is unfolding at record speed. So, what’s the deal? Is this an epic battle where we need to rally the troops? Nope. That’s old-school thinking. Let’s flip the script and dive into what’s really happening with the balance of light and dark—and why light is absolutely taking the lead. This theme of light vs. darkness  is deeply embedded in religious, philosophical, and cultural traditions. It symbolizes the eternal struggle between good and evil, knowledge and ignorance, and spiritual enlightenment versus delusion. Misconceptions of Balance Many believe that the light and dark must be equal, like the scales of justice—but what if that’s not the case? What if light is actually growing, outpacing the darkness, regardless of what you might be seeing in the world right now? I’m going to explore why light is more powerful than dark. I’ll talk aout how the balance is spiritually. Most importantly—how can YOU strengthen and shine your own light in today’s world which needs it so much. First, I’m going to address the misconceptions about balance. Imagine Lady Justice which is probably familiar—picture two scales balanced in perfect harmony on either side of a women dressed in the clothing of ancient Greece and blindfolded. Classic, right? But did you know she originated in ancient Egypt? Yup – from the Egyptian Goddess Maat, who stood for truth, justice, and cosmic order. She would weigh a person’s heart against a feather to determine their fate in the afterlife. The scales of justice carried forward into ancient Greek and Roman mythology. Yet, when you think about it, the scales are rarely depicted as perfectly balanced. More often they tilt—one side rising while the other falls. This visual has reinforced a common misunderstanding: that darkness increases as light diminishes. That’s not how energy works! Darkness vs. Light -They Are NOT Equals Most people picture light vs. dark like some kind of cosmic seesaw. If one side goes up, the other must go down, right? Wrong. That’s a total misconception. Think about it—darkness doesn’t actually exist on its own. It’s just the absence of light. The moment you introduce even the tiniest spark, darkness disappears. It doesn’t fight back or push against the light. It just doesn’t exist anymore. We’re conditioned to believe in balance, like Lady Justice holding her scales. Believe it or not, that image scales was inspired by Maat, an Egyptian goddess who weighed a person’s heart against a feather. If your heart was heavy with lies and fear, you failed the test. If it was light with truth and wisdom, you moved forward. See where I’m going? Light doesn’t just exist alongside darkness. It transforms it. Light Is Multiplying If it feels like things are more intense than ever, that’s because they are. But not for the reasons you may think. Kryon, a channeled entity by Lee Carol said something fascinating about the light. He says today’s light is different. It doesn’t just illuminate more brightly—it multiplies. It creates more light and is self-sustaining. That changes everything. For years, light workers had to work hard to maintain their glow. It felt like one step forward, one step back. But now? Light is spreading at a rate never seen before. It’s gaining momentum, expanding on its own, and—this is the best part, it’s irreversible. You can’t un-know what you’ve awakened to. Once the light is on, darkness can’t reclaim that space. Why Darkness Feels Bigger If light is winning, why does darkness seem so… intense? Because darkness is panicking and scrambling. Darkness struggles as it recognizes that it’s being outshined. Think of this like darkness throwing a massive tantrum on the way out. Or like a villain in the final act of a movie—right before they go down, they get desperate, dramatic, and destructive. The systems that thrived on secrecy, fear, and division are starting to crumble. The institutions that relied on people staying small and uninformed are beginning to lose control. And they know it. Here’s the kicker – darkness needs your fear to survive. It has no power of its own. Darkness can only grow if you feed it with worry, doubt, and division. But the moment you choose light, even for a second, you weaken its hold. This is why people waking up in droves is so powerful. Every single person who chooses kindness over hate, courage over fear, and love over resentment chips away at the old energy and negativity. This is how we conquer in a world where it seems darkness vs. light is happening. How To Shine Even Brighter You don’t have to be perfect or a guru on a mountaintop. You just have to be yourself—as fully, authentically, and unapologetically as possible. Here are eight ways to amplify your light: Meditate, even for five minutes. Stillness increases your energy. Get outside. Nature is a powerhouse of light energy. Surround yourself with high-vibe people. Your energy matters. Drop the fear. It’s not helping, and it’s not real. Practice gratitude. Nothing raises your vibration faster. Follow your intuition. That gut feeling? It’s your soul speaking. Create something. Art, music, writing—light loves expression. Be of service. Every act of kindness is a ripple of light expanding outward. It’s not about battling darkness—it’s about choosing to shine so brightly that darkness has nowhere to hide. The World Needs Your Light Think of yourself as a lighthouse. Does a lighthouse chase away the darkness? No. It simply stands tall and radiates light onto the coastline, helping boaters find their way. What a relief! You don’t need to fight anything. You don’t need to struggle. Just be the light which inspires others to do the same. And collectively? We become an unstoppable force. When it comes to darkness vs.light, the darkness is NOT winning. It’s just making a lot of noise on the way out. Light is rising, expanding, and taking the lead. And the best part? You’re part of that! So, keep shining. The world is brighter because of you.   The post Darkness Vs. Light – Who’s Really Winning? appeared first on Intuitive Edge.

This episode is an updated, encore presentation of a well-listened to podcast I did years ago about the Luck of the Irish for St. Patrick’s Day. I talk about what luck is and where the phrase the “Luck of the Irish” originated. Meditation for Luck Then I share a wonderful meditation (maybe 15 minutes) about connecting to your luck and being inspired by Irish luck. It’s fanciful, fun, uplifting, and REAL. Irish luck comes with a long history and ancient lore about faery folk, leprechauns, rainbows and pots of gold. Immerse yourself in this concept and open to the luck flowing your way. The more luck you receive, the more you can share. Send it around to your friends and family. Luck is not meant to be savored alone but sprinkled around for all to enjoy and benefit from! I am not Irish by birth, but my husband is, so I’m Irish by marriage! We visited Ireland years ago and had the most magical time there. Just loved it. The people were warm, helpful, and friendly. The food was great and so were the pubs. The places we visited were beautiful, and the land was absolutely brimming with magic. I’ve also written a couple of articles about luck and how you can make your own or increase your good fortune. You can discover the eight magical items that create or attract good luck in this post. And, if you still want more, you might want to read this fun and empowering post about how to create a lucky life! Naturally, luck and magic are interchangeable ideas to me. It’s all about lightening up, finding joy, having fun, as well as feeling and sharing love. Magic strongly correlates to love and gratitude because both open your heart, allowing more magic to flow. I am grateful for the luck and magic in my life and am so happy to share my joy about this with you. I know without question that you are lucky too!   The post Here’s How Tap Into The Luck Of The Irish For St. Paddy’s Day appeared first on Intuitive Edge.

In a world obsessed with self-improvement, it’s easy to get stuck in an endless cycle of healing. I recently sat down with Katie White to discuss how to break out of this never-ending loop and step into real transformation. Addiction to Healing I kicked kicked off our conversation with a bold statement from Katie’s newsletter: “Healing is not a full-time job.” Wow, did that hit me. How many of you have made healing your personal life project? Chasing the next breakthrough and dissecting every trigger. Your convinced that if you just fix one more thing, you’ll finally be whole and happy But what happens when healing becomes another form of self-imposed struggle? When there’s no end in sight to your healing journey or the start of your happiness? Katie explained how the human brain can get addicted to the problem-solving process. It’s easy to get so caught up in “fixing” that you actually forget to live. This is like reliving the movie Groundhog Day where the same scenes repeat over and over again. There you are doing all the energy work, all the inner digging, striving to heal, but seeing little change in your external world. Sound familiar? Are You Stuck or Evolving? Here’s the key difference: Transformation isn’t about constantly processing or healing. Nope, it’s about approaching life differently. Katie shared a powerful example of a client who had done the deep work, unpacked her trauma, but still hesitated to step into the world. The shift didn’t happen through more healing sessions. Instead, her long awaited shift occurred when she started recognizing and embracing new facets of herself, looking and living beyond her wounds. That’s when real transformation kicked in. What are the signs that you are evolving? Your reactions change Old triggers lose their grip Instead of spiraling, you respond with more ease If that’s not happening, it might be time to ask yourself, “Am I actually healing, or just looping?” Looping is when you are going in circles, working to heal the same thing again and again. Who Are You Without the Struggle? One of the most eye-opening moments in the conversation was when Katie called out the biggest block to transformation. She called it “Identity Attachment”. Many people seem to unconsciously cling to their pain because it’s familiar. It becomes a comfort zone of sorts because it’s a familiar situation or feeling. If you’ve spent years defining yourself by what you’ve been through, it can feel unsettling to ask, “Who am I without this story?” Here’s the truth. Letting go of your trauma identity doesn’t mean you’re erasing your past. It means you’re making room for the expansive, multifaceted person you’re meant to be. The Dreaded Question “What’s New?” Ever struggle with the casual question friends or family often start a conversation with? “What’s new?” I cringe when I hear that question because I live a quiet life. I feel this anxiety creep over me due to what I experience as social pressure. Am I supposed to have something profound to report? Like I should have a major life update to share when anyone poses that question. While some people go on big trips, buy a new car, or luxury items, that’s not my life. There’s nothing wrong with that, it’s just not what happens with me. So, when everyone starts talking about what’s new in their life, what do I say? “I channelled Poseiden and we talked about the state of the oceans.” There’d be sirens headed my way with a straight jacket. LOL Reframing Your Life Here’s a new idea to consider—what if I’m over overcomplicating it? Katie reminded me that “newness” isn’t just about big, flashy changes. Something new can be in the small, subtle shifts or every day moments of my life. For example, I might have a fresh perspective on a particular subject people are talking about or explored a new area of ancient history. Maybe I changed how I’m eating, started a new exercise regimine, or made a few new recipes. This really is a case of reframing. For one thing, I am always learning, so I can talk about what I have discovered. Surprisingly, the little things count far more than the credit I give them! Hear more about the power of reframing. Outgrowing Friends Is Normal Another hard truth about life and friendship is as you evolve, not everyone will come with you. Recently, I discovered that is actually NORMAL. Mel Robbins, in her podcast just had an episode about the three pillars of adult friendship. She says expect things to change. Thanks Mel! Katie pointed out that friendships and social circles are meant to be fluid. People enter our lives for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. If certain relationships start feeling misaligned, it’s not a failure—it’s a sign of growth. Give yourself permission to seek connections that resonate with who you are today, not just who you used to be. Find Joy in the Small Stuff We wrapped up with the simplest, yet most profound realization: life isn’t just about the big triumphs. Joy is in the small moments that happen while you wait for the big moments, like graduation, getting married, the birth of a baby, etc. Magic can often be found in the seemingly mundane. These are all perfect examples of where you can find joy and magic in any day: The warmth of the sun on your face Your first sip of coffee in the morning Your favorite song on the radio A great catch-up conversation A hummingbird flying by Sharing a memorable meal Finding money in a parking lot A colorful sunrise or sunset A warm hug just when you need it The first crocuses of spring Trying something for the first time Laughter with a good friend These aren’t just filler moments. Often these are THE moments. When you string together all the little things, you see. They are all pieces of your happy life. Stop Waiting to Arrive Katie left me with a powerful reminder: Stop waiting to “arrive.” The goal isn’t to heal forever—it’s to live fully. Shift from “I’ll be happy when…” to embracing the now, and watch your world transform. Are you ready to get off the healing hamster wheel and step into a better life? The best strategy is to start small. Celebrate the tiny wins. Explore new sides of yourself. Most importantly—live your life. Because transformation isn’t a destination. It’s happening right now, in every single choice you make. Now go shine your light—the world is waiting! Listen to more with Katie White about healing and your identity BIO Katie White is a Trauma Informed Akashic Reiki Master Teacher, who could no longer ignore the powerful nudge to shift her life. She made a bold decision to trust her intuition, stop living the cookie cutter life and playing small, and commit to build a life she was proud of. Katie works with empathetic souls craving freedom from mental and physical pain and uses various healing experiences to help you rediscover yourself on a path to whole-body happiness. By commanding the energy around you, embodying your trauma and holding it with confident, gentle understanding, she’s able to bring awareness to subconscious thoughts that are holding you back and shift them providing healing that lasts. Truthfully, Katie never felt like she belonged anywhere, until she experienced the unshakable power of this work. When you are in her presence, she is absolutely honored to illuminate the natural radiance within you. Website & Social Media Website: https://www.thekatiewhitecompany.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thekatieewhite Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/katiewhite1113 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC2j5RB52HeJkAQj8OwY3O1Q?view_as=subscriber The post Stop the Healing Hamster Wheel: It’s Time for Real Transformation appeared first on Intuitive Edge.

Are your days filled with problems rather than positivity and sunshine? Discover the simple keys to happiness because life is too short to be grumpy! On this week’s episode of the Breathe Love & Magic podcast, I had the pleasure of hosting Deborah Mallow, a.k.a. your personal ray of sunshine. Deborah spent years cracking the code on how to inspire positivity and end self-sabotage, which she details in her book, Six Steps to Fewer Days That Suck. Trust me, this is not just fluffy, feel-good advice—her methods are practical, doable, and shockingly effective. Let’s dig into some of the wisdom she shared. Get Deborah’s Free Gift – You can join her Positive Energy Club and download her Motivational Checklist, Happiness Worksheets, and Feel-Good Activities that will help you build a life that’s lighter, brighter, and way more fun! Your Brain Loves the Drama Ever wonder why your brain clings to that one annoying comment someone made five years ago instead of the dozens of compliments you’ve received since? Blame it on your ancestors. As Deborah explains, negativity bias is an ancient survival mechanism. Back when our biggest problem was not getting eaten by a saber-toothed tiger, focusing on danger kept us alive. But in today’s world, there are no saber-toothed tigers lurking around the corner. Yet, our brains still act like every inconvenience is a life-threatening crisis. The good news? You can rewire your brain to focus on the positive. With conscious effort, you can boost the feel-good neurotransmitters—dopamine and serotonin—while lowering stress-related hormones like cortisol. And no, this doesn’t mean forcing yourself to be toxically positive. It’s about making small, conscious shifts that add up over time to help you feel more optimistic and uplifted. Here’s what my honeysuckle vine told me about joy. Break the Habit of Misery Deborah introduced me to a concept I absolutely love: being personally considerate. It’s about treating yourself with the same level of patience and kindness that you (hopefully) extend to others. In other words, stop being so mean to yourself. Many people get stuck in a loop of negative self-talk, replaying their failures like a bad highlight reel. But here’s the trick that has worked like a charm for me. The moment you catch yourself spiraling, ask, “What would I rather be thinking right now? That one powerful question can redirect your focus and stop negativity in its tracks. It’s simple, but incredibly impactful. Turn Annoyance into Laughter I shared a personal story with Deborah that I think a lot of people can relate to. My husband got into this habit of singing the same theme song from a TV show we were watching, over and over. I felt like my brain might actually explode. It was drivng me nuts. I’d roll my eyes and sigh dramatically, and I actually asked him to just stop. The next day, I had an epiphany: The problem wasn’t the song, it was my reaction to the song. Instead of fuming, I joined him! We sang the theme togther at the end of every episode and suddenly, something that annoyed me became something we did together and laughed about. Deborah pointed out that most of life’s irritations don’t actually matter. Like the next day it’s over and you’re on to something else. If you can learn to laugh at them, you win. Simple as that. Perfectionism Is the Enemy Ever spend an absurd amount of time tweaking an email, redoing your eyeliner, or rewriting a to-do list just to make it perfect. (Guilty.) I refer to this as  the “margin of diminishing returns” which is actually something I lerned in my college economics class. The point is there comes a time when the extra effort doesn’t actually improve the outcome—it just stresses you out. Instead of obsessing over perfection, focus on what actually moves the needle. Will it ruin your day if you don’t rewrite that sentence five times? Probably not. Will it ruin your day if your eyeliner is a tiny bit uneven? Only if you let it. Perfectionism is a trap, and the sooner you escape it, the happier you’ll be. Stop Anger in Its Tracks Let’s talk about anger. We all experience it, but how we handle it makes all the difference. Deborah swears by a simple but effective technique: Breathing. Not just any breathing, though. She recommends a conscious breath where you deeply inhale, hold for a moment, and then slowly exhale while imagining releasing all that frustration. Maybe you breathe in to the count of four, hold for four and releae for the ount of six. Why does this work? Because breathing physically shifts your nervous system. It moves you from a fight-or-flight state to a place of calm control. So, next time someone cuts you off in traffic or your internet crashes mid-Zoom call, take a breath before you react. It might just save your sanity. Daily Rituals for Happiness One of the best ways to prevent bad days from spiraling is to have a solid set of mood-boosting rituals. Deborah shared some of her favorites: The Gratitude Jar: Write down one good thing each day and toss it in a jar. On tough days, pull one out and remind yourself that life isn’t all bad. Dance Therapy: Put on your favorite song and dance like an absolute maniac. It’s nearly impossible to stay in a bad mood when you’re flailing around like a happy lunatic. The 30-Second Smile Trick: Smile for 30 seconds, even if you don’t feel like it. Your brain doesn’t know the difference between a real and fake smile—it just starts releasing feel-good chemicals anyway. Creativity Breaks: Doodle, paint, or write silly poetry. Engaging in creative activities can reset your brain and boost your mood. Happiness Is in Your Hands At the end of the day, the biggest takeaway from my chat with Deborah is this – you have more control over your happiness than you might think. Yes, life can be messy and people can be annoying. Yes, bad days happen. But you always have a choice in how you react. What small shift can you make today? Maybe you can… Laugh at an annoyance instead of stressing over it? Replace a negative thought with a more constructive positive one? Take a deep breath before reacting? It’s all about tiny, intentional changes that stack up over time. Before you know it, you’ll find yourself having fewer days that suck—and way more that actually feel pretty darn good. Now go forth and make today a little happier. You’ve got this! BIO – Deborah Mallow Deborah Mallow is called a Ray of Sunshine—a charismatic, enthusiastic, and inspiring motivational speaker and seasoned positive energy, success coach. She is also the author of book 6 Steps To Fewer Days That Suck, which shares strategies, solutions, stories and some science to turn negative habits into positive ones. Additionally, she is the creator of The Daily Decisions (self-improvement essentials to reinforce positive habits) and the Positive Energy Club. She’s not about forcing positivity, but approaching life differently. Discover how to achieve a positive mindset and make life a little easier to enjoy more, worry less, and find the sunshine! Website & Social Media Website: https://thedailydecisions.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/daily.decisions/ The post Get the Keys to Happiness – Life Is Too Short To Be Grumpy! appeared first on Intuitive Edge.