Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships

Join Janet Hardy, a renowned author and sex educator, as she celebrates the 20th anniversary of her influential book, "The Ethical Slut." She discusses the book’s lasting impact on polyamory and how it has shaped discussions around non-monogamous relationships. Janet shares exciting updates in the new edition, highlights the evolving acceptance of alternative partnerships, and offers invaluable advice for those exploring polyamory. Dive into a conversation that redefines relationship labels and reflects on the future of love and connection.

Dive into the chaos of dumpster fire relationships, where constant drama and emotional exhaustion reign. Discover the tell-tale signs of a relationship in distress and learn when it’s time to walk away. Explore strategies for setting healthy boundaries and prioritize your emotional well-being. Gain insights on seeking support during tough times, and find empowerment in recognizing and escaping toxic dynamics. Transform your understanding of love and relationships into a journey of self-care and growth.

Dive into the intricate world of emotional labor, where maintaining relationships requires mental and emotional energy. Discover how disproportionate expectations can lead to exhaustion, especially for women and feminine individuals. Explore imbalances in emotional and physical tasks, including birth control responsibilities. Learn the importance of communication and mutual support in navigating these complexities, particularly in polyamorous dynamics. Reflect on your contributions to emotional labor with thought-provoking questions.

In this lively discussion, the hosts tackle listener questions about love and relationships. They break down the emotional hurdles of open relationships and suggest ways to handle jealousy stemming from past partners. The conversation shifts to navigating sexual safety in polyamorous setups, stressing communication and trust. They also clarify myths surrounding drug-resistant gonorrhea and highlight the importance of accurate sexual health information. Engaging personal stories and practical tips make for a fun and insightful exploration of modern romance!

Break ups suck. They suck a little less if you're not the one going through it, but if it's your partner who's just been dumped, then you may find yourself shouldering the burden of some of their suck as well. In this episode we talk about the ways to care for your partner, your self, and your relationship when your partner is going through a break-up or other turbulent period of life.Join our amazing community of listeners at multiamory.supercast.com. We offer sliding scale subscriptions so everyone can also get access to ad-free episodes, group video discussions, and our amazing Discord community.Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.Follow us on Instagram @Multiamory_Podcast and visit our website Multiamory.com. We are a proud member of the Pleasure Podcasts network. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This discussion dives into the complexities of relationship agreements, especially in non-monogamous contexts. The hosts tackle common pitfalls that arise from strict rules, emphasizing the importance of clear communication and managing expectations. They explore the ethical implications of requiring check-ins before partners engage with others, as well as the necessity of balancing autonomy and safety. The conversation highlights the significance of dedicating quality time together to enhance relationships while navigating individual boundaries and personal growth.

Dive into the realm of intimacy as the hosts share personal stories and reflections inspired by '36 Questions to Fall in Love.' They discuss vulnerability in relationships, tackling misconceptions and communication styles shaped by upbringing. Humor shines through as they recount embarrassing moments and accidental celebrity encounters. The conversation explores the sentimental value of cherished possessions and the significance of meaningful dialogues, encouraging deeper connections among friends and family.

Ryan Witherspoon, a researcher and educator specializing in consensual non-monogamy, kink, and BDSM, dives deep into the current landscape of non-monogamous relationships. He shares insights on societal challenges faced by polyamorous families and the stigma around consensual non-monogamy. The conversation also addresses the complexities of hierarchy in polyamorous dynamics, personal reflections on research methodologies, and the importance of community support for those navigating these unique relationship structures.

In this conversation, Erin Tillman, known as The Dating Advice Girl and a dating coach focused on non-monogamy and consent, shares her expertise on navigating modern dating, particularly for those seeking polyamorous relationships. She provides pro tips on crafting dating profiles that attract the right matches and emphasizes the importance of authenticity in interactions. Erin also discusses challenges in online dating, managing emotional connections, and offers strategies for overcoming rejection and building confidence in a non-traditional dating landscape.

Love and science finally hook up. The results? Sexy. This week we're covering all the things that will make your relationships better, backed by scientific studies. We cover communication, fighting, sex, in-jokes, and more! You can follow along with us here: https://my.happify.com/hd/the-science-behind-a-happy-relationship/Join our amazing community of listeners at multiamory.supercast.com. We offer sliding scale subscriptions so everyone can also get access to ad-free episodes, group video discussions, and our amazing Discord community.Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.Follow us on Instagram @Multiamory_Podcast and visit our website Multiamory.com. We are a proud member of the Pleasure Podcasts network. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices