Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships

Explore the Triforce of Communication, a powerful tool for enhancing conversations in relationships. Discover how sharing builds intimacy and learn the key differences between empathy and sympathy. The hosts break down problem-solving strategies and provide real-life examples of effective advice-seeking. They also share personal stories on how this framework has improved their relationships, illustrating that clarity in communication can transform interactions. Get ready to rethink how you connect with others!

This discussion dives deep into the complexities of gender identity and expression. It covers essential definitions like cisgender, transgender, and non-binary, while also addressing stereotypes and societal pressures. The hosts explore how gender norms impact emotional intimacy, caregiving roles, and workplace dynamics. They highlight the importance of challenging gender bias daily and offer parenting tips to promote inclusivity. With insights on privilege and cultural variance, the conversation emphasizes the importance of understanding and respecting diverse identities.

Andrew Gurza, host of the Disability After Dark podcast and a disability awareness consultant, brings humor and candor to the conversation about sex and disability. He explores societal misconceptions and the unique challenges faced by disabled individuals in dating. Andrew advocates for inclusive fitness that enhances intimacy rather than seeking a 'cure.' He also addresses the importance of using respectful language and fostering open dialogues about disability while sharing his personal experiences navigating relationships in an ableist world.

Breaking up is tough, but healing can be even tougher. Discover strategies for moving on, including the importance of a 10-day no contact rule to gain clarity. Learn how to navigate friendships with ex-partners and why some arrangements, like 'friends with benefits,' may not work. Explore therapeutic activities that aid emotional recovery and the need for a supportive network. Finally, reflect on past relationships to grow, recognize red flags, and embrace new experiences as you rediscover your self-worth.

Trust is a fundamental pillar in both romantic and non-monogamous relationships, yet it's incredibly fragile. The podcast delves into the complexities of trust, highlighting how past experiences shape our willingness to trust after betrayal. It emphasizes the need for mutual acknowledgment of mistakes and the role of honesty in rebuilding connections. Balancing intuition and rationality is key, along with fostering open communication. Through shared insights, the speakers explore how trust evolves and can be strengthened even after significant breaches.

Dive into the realities of sexual health, breaking down the stigma surrounding STIs. Explore the risks of infections like chlamydia and herpes, and learn why regular testing matters. The discussion emphasizes the significance of open communication in relationships, along with personal responsibility in polyamorous dynamics. Discover the emotional implications of HPV and the importance of vaccination. Overall, it's a candid conversation aimed at empowering listeners to take charge of their sexual health through knowledge and awareness.

Kitty Stryker, a feminist writer and queer activist, delves into the critical theme of consent culture. She explores how consent extends beyond the bedroom into daily life, emphasizing open dialogue and personal autonomy. The conversation navigates the complexities of consent dynamics across various relationship types, promoting accountability and compassion. Stryker also humorously discusses unsolicited medical advice, raising awareness about power dynamics in professional relationships. Join her in advocating for a more conscious approach to consent in all interactions.

The Multiamory crew answers common questions about polyamory, exploring its practice and distinguishing it from other forms of non-monogamy. They address misconceptions about polyamorous relationships and discuss the importance of communication with metamores. The podcast also delves into different relationship models in polyamory and emphasizes the importance of treating all partners with kindness and respect.

Conflict is a natural part of relationships, but it can lead to growth instead of negativity. The hosts share tools for constructive resolution, including regular check-ins to address issues before they escalate. They explore personal conflict tactics, emotional manipulation, and harmful behaviors like contempt. Strategies for managing fights in the moment, writing out competing narratives, and using communication techniques are discussed. Lastly, they highlight the importance of reconnection through positive activities after disagreements.

Relationship Anarchy: what is it? Who invented it? Does it mean overthrowing the relationship government? This week we're looking at the original relationship anarchy manifesto written by Andie Nordgren and discussing what it all means and how it can apply to your relationships.Join our amazing community of listeners at multiamory.supercast.com. We offer sliding scale subscriptions so everyone can also get access to ad-free episodes, group video discussions, and our amazing Discord community.Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.Follow us on Instagram @Multiamory_Podcast and visit our website Multiamory.com. We are a proud member of the Pleasure Podcasts network. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices