Adult Child

Andrea Ashley

Adult Child dives deep into the lasting effects of growing up in dysfunctional families—unpacking complex and relational trauma, codependency, toxic shame, and addiction patterns with raw vulnerability and unapologetic authenticity.Hosted by Andrea Ashley, a recovering shitshow with 17 years sober, each episode shares unfiltered insights, expert conversations, and practical tools to heal your nervous system and break free from the cycles that hold you back.Whether you’re an adult child of alcoholics or from a dysfunctional family, navigating toxic relationships, or healing your inner child, this is your no-BS space for healing. New episodes every Wednesday & Saturday.And damn the join The Shitshow Healing Community for live support groups and connection with fellow cycle breakers.

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Aug 3, 2024 • 36min

172 - Healing Childhood Wounds: Tim Fletcher on Trauma, Addiction, and Toxic Shame Part 2

Tim Fletcher is the founder and president of RE/ACT (Recovery Education for Addictions and Complex Trauma). He is a counselor himself, as well as a researcher and pastor. His YouTube channel is a wealth of resources on complex trauma and behavior patterns leading up to addiction with 24+ million views.⬇️DAMN THE JOIN SHITSHOW - ADULT CHILD HEALING COMMUNITY⬇️https://theshitshow.mn.co4 weekly zoom support groups (Sun 3: 30 pm EST, Mon 8:30 pm EST, Tues 1 pm EST, & Thurs 8:30 pm EST)Support community at your fingertips with discussion boards and chat📰SIGN UP FOR SHITSHOW NATION - ADULT CHILD NEWSLETTER👩HELP A GIRL & CAT EAT🐱 www.buymeacoffee.com/adultchild🛍️SHITSHOW MERCH🛍️www.adultchildpodcast.com/shop🎙️NEW TO THE POD🎙️How I learned I was an Adult Child - The Tale of 2 BriansTHE LAUNDRY LIST - Common Characteristics of an Adult ChildFollow Andrea on socialwww.instagram.com/adultchildpodwww.tiktok.com/@adultchildpodhttps://www.youtube.com/@adultchildpodMid-roll music source (I do not own the rights of song - for entertainment purposes only, no monetization)Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code ADULTCHILD for a great deal: happymammoth.comOur Sponsors:* Check out Bioma Health and use my code ADULTCHILD for a great deal: https://gobioma.com/ADULTCHILD* Check out Calm: https://calm.com/ADULTCHILD* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code ADULTCHILD for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com* Check out PharmaNutra and use my code ADULTCHILD for a great deal: https://pharmanutra-us.com* Check out Uncommon Goods: https://uncommongoods.com/adultchildAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Jul 20, 2024 • 36min

SHITSHOW SATURDAY #114 - Beth L.

Jul 17, 2024 • 58min

171 - Healing Childhood Wounds: Tim Fletcher on Trauma, Addiction, and Toxic Shame

Jul 13, 2024 • 29min

SHITSHOW SATURDAY #113 - Shame vs. Guilt

Jul 10, 2024 • 1h 22min

170 - The Intersection of Trauma, ADHD and Toxic Family Dynamics w/ Kristen Carder

Kristen Carder is the host of the I Have ADHD podcast (7.5 million downloads) and a dually certified coach who has supported thousands of people with ADHD worldwide. Her extensive experience working with ADHDers began in 2012, and she now leads a global community of adults with ADHD in her coaching program, FOCUSED. Timestamps8:20 – Coming to terms with your childhood trauma15:22 - Breaking the fantasy bond that our parents and going no-contact27:10 - How shame and the Inner Critic heightens ADHD symptoms34:58 - What does self-trust actually mean and how to build it41:19 - Procrastination, task management, and time efficiency56:07: The unique challenges of parenting with ADHD⬇️DAMN THE JOIN SHITSHOW - ADULT CHILD HEALING COMMUNITY⬇️https://theshitshow.mn.co4 weekly zoom support groups (Sun 3: 30 pm EST, Mon 8:30 pm EST, Tues 1 pm EST, & Thurs 8:30 pm EST)Support community at your fingertips with discussion boards and chat📰SIGN UP FOR SHITSHOW NATION - ADULT CHILD NEWSLETTER👩HELP A GIRL & CAT EAT🐱 www.buymeacoffee.com/adultchild🛍️SHITSHOW MERCH🛍️www.adultchildpodcast.com/shop🎙️NEW TO THE POD🎙️How I learned I was an Adult Child - The Tale of 2 BriansTHE LAUNDRY LIST - Common Characteristics of an Adult ChildFollow Andrea on socialwww.instagram.com/adultchildpodwww.tiktok.com/@adultchildpodhttps://www.youtube.com/@adultchildpodMid-roll music source (I do not own the rights of song - for entertainment purposes only, no monetization)Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code ADULTCHILD for a great deal: happymammoth.comOur Sponsors:* Check out Bioma Health and use my code ADULTCHILD for a great deal: https://gobioma.com/ADULTCHILD* Check out Calm: https://calm.com/ADULTCHILD* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code ADULTCHILD for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com* Check out PharmaNutra and use my code ADULTCHILD for a great deal: https://pharmanutra-us.com* Check out Uncommon Goods: https://uncommongoods.com/adultchildAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Jul 6, 2024 • 43min

SHITSHOW SATURDAY #112 - Grief, Growth & Friendships

A recording a recent Shitshow support group. Adult Children of Dysfunctional Families dive deep into the rollercoaster of emotions, personal growth, and the importance of authentic connections.Key takeaways:Embrace Emotions: It's crucial to accept and understand our feelings, no matter how difficult they may seem, for true emotional growth.Genuine Connections Matter: The struggle to maintain friendships as we get older highlights the importance of fostering genuine connections and a supportive community.Self-Reflection and Growth: The journey of self-reflection, from understanding body dysmorphia and past wounds to finding mindfulness and self-acceptance.⬇️DAMN THE JOIN SHITSHOW - ADULT CHILD HEALING COMMUNITY⬇️https://theshitshow.mn.co4 weekly zoom support groups (Sun 3: 30 pm EST, Mon 8:30 pm EST, Tues 1 pm EST, & Thurs 8:30 pm EST)Support community at your fingertips with discussion boards and chat📰SIGN UP FOR SHITSHOW NATION - ADULT CHILD NEWSLETTER👩HELP A GIRL & CAT EAT🐱 www.buymeacoffee.com/adultchild🛍️SHITSHOW MERCH🛍️www.adultchildpodcast.com/shop🎙️NEW TO THE POD🎙️How I learned I was an Adult Child - The Tale of 2 BriansTHE LAUNDRY LIST - Common Characteristics of an Adult ChildFollow Andrea on socialwww.instagram.com/adultchildpodwww.tiktok.com/@adultchildpodhttps://www.youtube.com/@adultchildpodOur Sponsors:* Check out Bioma Health and use my code ADULTCHILD for a great deal: https://gobioma.com/ADULTCHILD* Check out Calm: https://calm.com/ADULTCHILD* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code ADULTCHILD for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com* Check out PharmaNutra and use my code ADULTCHILD for a great deal: https://pharmanutra-us.com* Check out Uncommon Goods: https://uncommongoods.com/adultchildAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Jul 3, 2024 • 1h 12min

169 - Narcissistic Parents, Relationship Relapses & Trauma Bonds w/ Jerry Wise

In this engaging discussion, guest Jerry Wise, a seasoned marriage and family therapist with over 40 years of experience, delves into the impacts of narcissistic parents and the struggle with self-worth. He discusses the concept of 'recycling' old coping mechanisms during recovery and the complexities of leaving abusive relationships. The conversation also highlights family systems trauma versus significant trauma, and Wise provides insights into navigating relationships with aging narcissistic parents. Listeners gain valuable strategies for healing and personal growth.

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