

Rikki and Jimmy on Relationships
Jimmy Knowles and Rikki Cloos
How’s your relationship? That’s what we thought. You’re going to love Rikki and Jimmy on Relationships, the show where we uncover the thoughts and behaviors that are sabotaging your relationship… and what you can do about it. Jimmy and Rikki are passionate about sharing the ways that imperfect partners like you can shift unhealthy relational dynamics and create closeness. Drop your defenses and open your heart, eyes, and ears… we’re going to learn how to be the best partner we can be, together.
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Jul 28, 2024 • 1h 15min
What are Healthy vs Unhealthy Needs
Discover the vital distinction between healthy and unhealthy needs in relationships. Learn how communication dynamics affect relational satisfaction, especially between anxious and avoidant partners. Explore the emotional intricacies of relationships and the importance of recognizing differing love languages. Delve into unrealistic expectations around relationship skills and the significance of emotional maturity. Gain insights into navigating conflicts and fostering transparency to enhance connection and understanding. Embrace continual growth for healthier interactions.

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Jul 6, 2024 • 1h 1min
Break-Ups: Should I give them another chance?
Navigating the emotional turmoil of break-ups can be daunting. The hosts delve into the dumper's perspective, shedding light on reasons behind separations and the emotional aftermath. They explore the delicate balance of reconciliation, emphasizing self-reflection and clear communication. Listeners are encouraged to view break-ups as opportunities for personal growth. The discussion also covers the importance of vulnerability and mutual accountability in rebuilding relationships, along with the therapeutic value of expressing relationship challenges.

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May 30, 2024 • 1h 51min
How to STOP Fighting for GOOD!
Discover how to transform conflicts into opportunities for connection. The hosts explore the dynamics of anger, stonewalling, and vulnerability, shedding light on effective communication styles. Learn the importance of emotional safety and the need for both partners to express their feelings authentically. They discuss the detrimental effects of contempt, and how humor can be a powerful tool for repairing relationships. With insightful tips and personal stories, this discussion aims to enhance intimacy and foster healthier dialogues.

Apr 23, 2024 • 50min
What if I'm Dating or Married to a Narcissist?
How can we navigate a relationship with a narcissist?

Apr 12, 2024 • 1h 3min
Controversial Questions about Relationships
Dive into the spicy world of relationships, tackling whether sleeping on the first date is a good idea. Explore the complexities of intimacy, trust, and communication in modern love. The hosts navigate financial sharing strategies, the challenges of appearance changes, and the emotional weight of partner observations. They also confront the impact of age gaps and cohabitation, while emphasizing the importance of empathy in conflict resolution and intimacy. Expect laughter amid insightful discussions on grief and moving forward in love.

Mar 25, 2024 • 51min
I'm Not Allowed to Feel Disrespected??
Experts claim we shouldn't feel disrespected, leading to a spirited debate on emotional expression. The hosts discuss the importance of precise language in relationships and share personal anecdotes about navigating feelings of neglect. They highlight nonviolent communication techniques, like ‘I statements,’ to foster understanding. With insights from theorists like the Gottmans and Marshall Rosenberg, they explore gentle communication and the balance needed to maintain healthy dynamics. Empathy and emotional accountability are emphasized as key to deeper connections.

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Mar 24, 2024 • 55min
Avoid the Roommate Phase and Reignite the Spark!
Discover how to avoid drifting into the 'roommate phase' in relationships by reigniting the spark. The speakers discuss the impact of parenthood on intimacy and stress the need for proactive communication. They explore the importance of balancing responsibilities and maintaining emotional closeness through intentional gestures. Learn effective communication strategies like the 'roses and thorns' technique to deepen connections. Small acts of appreciation and understanding can help partners navigate distractions and cultivate lasting attraction.

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Mar 3, 2024 • 59min
My Partner isn't meeting MY NEEDS
The podcast tackles the challenge of unmet needs in relationships, sparked by a listener's insightful email. It explores the importance of patience and effective communication when navigating emotional needs and heated arguments. The hosts discuss attachment styles, empathy, and the balance required during conflicts. Tips for transforming complaints into desires are shared, emphasizing self-awareness and accountability. The importance of assuming positive intent is highlighted, promoting vulnerability and open discussions for healthier connections.

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Feb 17, 2024 • 1h 4min
Relationship Expert Dr. Sue Johnson reveals Secret to Connection
Relationship expert Dr. Sue Johnson delves into the impact of emotional disconnection in relationships, emphasizing the importance of expressing softer emotions like sadness and fear. She discusses teaching empathy and attachment, understanding distressed relationships dynamics, vulnerability's role in connection, and the science of love. Insights on how relationships impact physical and emotional health are also shared.

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Jan 31, 2024 • 1h 7min
How to Create Safe Secure Love with Julie Menanno
Julie Menanno, a counselor and author specializing in conflict resolution in relationships, shares insights on navigating emotional dynamics. She dives into the intricacies of push-pull relationships and discusses effective communication strategies. Menanno emphasizes the importance of self-validation and the role of co-regulating during conflicts. The power of validation and understanding anxious-avoidant dynamics are also explored, alongside resources from her new book, 'Secure Love,' designed to help couples build lasting connections.